Well do you belive you should wait until you are married to sleep with your partner or you do think it's okay to sleep with someone before marriage?
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Well do you belive you should wait until you are married to sleep with your partner or you do think it's okay to sleep with someone before marriage?
No as soon as i turn 16 ill try
It's fine to sleep with someone before marrige, you won't goto hell or become morally corrupt ;)
i totally agree wif ^ Rizla
as long as your old enuf.
if u cant be good. Be safe
:)
I wouldn't say you should wait until you're 16, just when you feel you're ready. Like, some people may be ready at 13, others may not, it depends.
if you really liek each other and are of age that is really it ^^
yupp
and make sure they aint just using yoo
You mean when everyone else is doing it around you you ave to do it to look hard and in with the crowd.. so pathetic. the law is there for a reason.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rizla
No, I didn't mean that, please don't presume you know what I mean ;) This is one of the things I don't like about Habbox, people you've never spoken to make assumptions about your character :rolleyes:Quote:
Originally Posted by Insanity
Habbox is gai now, And don't think i don't know what you mean. You just cant wait to get the lil fella out of your pants. i read most s.t.ds are created whilst having underage sex due to hygine and the fact that things are still happening down there. its when your body is ready for it not when you THINK your ready for it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rizla
well ive done it plenty of times and im not married, i dont see it as a sin
I think there's nothing morally wrong with sex before marriage, but you need to really make sure it's the right person, and that you're safe. Sex isn't supposed to be 'just for fun', but a serious commitment to another person. That's the problem these days, and the reason why there are so many (accidental) teenage pregnancies, people think it's just a joke...
As long as theres no sex !
As soon as i'm 16 i'm gonna be hounding every hot girl i know.
No, but then its also some people's religion to wait until marriage.
Imo, when you feel ready, go for it.
Well, I don't mind either way. It's everyones personal decision. But personally, I think sex should be something special, so I'd only do it with someone I really passionately love. Whether it's within marriage or not.
Yes, since it's part of my religion.
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Originally Posted by Azza
^^ I agree with azza.
If it feels right and you love each other, and you're both ready then I say go for it you don't have to wait, God doesn't have the right to stop you from consummating your love for each other. Me and my fiancee first slept together after 2 years together, and we haven't stopped since :)
What Symon said.
I should yes cause I'm catholic and we're supposed to wait til marriage, but if I met someone I felt comfortable with and I really cared about I wouldn't wait til marriage.
Lols, I said Yes.
Being Jewish, you gotta wait till you're married.....
unfortunately i lost it to my best friend at 15 LOL
i don't see anything wrong with it. if it feels right, then why should you worry that you both haven't signed a bit of paper?
why unfortunately?Quote:
Originally Posted by ,,,
Yes i Fink its ok to sleep wiv sum1 b4 marriage aslong as you love eachuva and mek it special :D :D
Yea i think its fine to have sex before marriage, because what if you never find someone to marry? Does that mean no sex? Its silly, you should be able to make the choice of having sex without thinking about religion or whatever your beliefs.
and tbh yeah i dont agree with all this 'if you love the person', i dont that matters much anymore
Don't assume people always follow the crowd.Quote:
Originally Posted by Insanity
I personally lost my virginity to a girl I really liked and cared about. Enough to say that I loved her. I think marriage is a sham these days so it would mean nothing to wait until that time to finally have sex. People don't just go for the first person they think is "special" so it would be pointless to wait for that time.
Im not sure,some guys that i have been going out with just went it then go but Its up to you if your are ready for it at the moment im not ready and i will find someone that really cares about me not my body =]
Meh, im aithiest so marrage is nothing more than a load of clumbsy outdated legal documents that realy just cause a lot of hassle rather than anything useful. So marrage is compleaty irelivent to me.
Whether you wait till you find someone you love, or you just have a one night stand is realy up to the person.
So you think if you just go out and hook up with some random and have pointless sex before marriage, it's alright? If so - then you can't have very many standards and morals in your life.Quote:
Originally Posted by MsTanya
Personally, I am a catholic by religion, therefore I am supposed to believe that the whole sex before marriage thing is condemned, but as a Catholic, I'm also willing to listen to other people's points of views and challenge my beliefs. :]
Therefore, in this particular case, although I am supposed to think it is wrong, I actually believe in sex before marriage. I think if you lose your virginity to someone who you believe is your soulmate, and who you trully love but perhaps your not able to marry them yet due to circumstances you are in, eg. age, parents, where you live etc. - then it's alright.
Like if you've been with someone for a while and you trully do love them, I think it's ok - but I'm not really into this whole 'going out and getting whatever you can' nonsence as I personally have a bit more standards than that, although others seem to not.
Ditto to what the young man said.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ostinato
Old man* =PQuote:
Originally Posted by Symon
I think thats ok? And i dont see whats pointless about it? If your haveing sex for fun, then that is the point, whether or not you love that person is completely irrelevant.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ostinato
Sex isnt just for haveing children, if it were we wouldnt have invented condoms or the other tone of contraceptive methods.
Morallity is relative, so becuse somes morall standards are differnt from your own, does NOT mean that they do not have morals. Vegitarins may think its immorall to eat animals, Does that mean they should accuse everyone else of haveing no ethics or morals?
Which is the If you realy love them point again, which is the replacement for the old idea of marrage, which has kinda died off. at least in the hetrosexual community, Marrage in the homosexual communty actualy tends to hold alot more wieght these days, even if its not actaly called marrage for some petty reasons.Quote:
Personally, I am a catholic by religion, therefore I am supposed to believe that the whole sex before marriage thing is condemned, but as a Catholic, I'm also willing to listen to other people's points of views and challenge my beliefs. :]
Therefore, in this particular case, although I am supposed to think it is wrong, I actually believe in sex before marriage. I think if you lose your virginity to someone who you believe is your soulmate, and who you trully love but perhaps your not able to marry them yet due to circumstances you are in, eg. age, parents, where you live etc. - then it's alright.
Whats wrong with it? You would rather have sex in a deeper relationship. Thats your choise. But just becuse you want to doesnt then mean everyone who disagrees with that is wrong. if thats what someone chooses to do, thats there choise, And its equaly valid to yours or anyone elses.Quote:
Like if you've been with someone for a while and you trully do love them, I think it's ok - but I'm not really into this whole 'going out and getting whatever you can' nonsence as I personally have a bit more standards than that, although others seem to not.
You keep talking about standards? but what standards? whos standards? Sex isnt the same thing as a relationship. Its an act, it can co-enside, it can be somthing specal. But it can equaly just be sex "/
You can't be as old as me Ostinato my friend :P
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Originally Posted by 01101101entor
MY standards.
Of course, we are all entitled to our own individiual opinions and as I actually said in my post I'm happy o listen to everyones point of views and arguments against my own beliefs, but in this case I personally believe that it's good to wait until you find someone who you feel as your soul mate to have sex with, and that it's quite pointless just going out to have sex with anyone.
The reasons condoms were created is obviously very mis-understood. It was so woman wouldn't end up pregnant, if the time in their life etc. wasn't perhaps rellevant for them to do so - not so you could just go out and sleep with 10 girls in one night.
You are entitled to your opinion, and I respect that - but personally I have my own morals and standards which unfortunately, make me disagree with a lot you believe in, so lets just agree to disagree. ;p
I'm gay and since I dont believe in gay marriage then I think its okay. But if I was to have sex with a guy then it would be special and I would have had to have known him for ages. Not a few weeks but for atleast 6 months? and when I give my virginity to someone I plan to get theres in return...
so yeah
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Nothing up with it, you only live once so why bother getting married and devoting yourself to one person who will probably end up divorcing you anyway (More marriages break up now than ever before) :p