im bi sexual but my parents dont know, shell i tell them or not?
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im bi sexual but my parents dont know, shell i tell them or not?
yes come clean!
You need to decide.
If you're 100% sure your bi, and you're parents will take you as you are, then tell them.
But if you're not sure, and your parents won't accept you as bi, don't tell them yet.
Its up to you reallu.
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It sounds like you saying hes doing summit wrong ;l
How old are you Alex?
im 15....
no but believe me, its better to just say it then hold it in;-)Quote:
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Yeah, Tell them when they're not really paying attention [: & then if they ever ask you If You're Bi say that you told them before but they wern't listening to you and that they should be more undertsnading and Listen more! Ok that's not what i did.. But it seems like a good idea Lol.
What happened with me is.. I came home 1 morning with a love bite on my neck & my mum wondered who did it & she said "Haha, who was the boy?" I said.. It wasn't a boy.. It was a girl Rofl. She didnt care.. But hey.. Try It HAHA. It works, But i suppose it depends on what kind of parents you hav really... Good Luck_x
my partens are horrible idont like them,
Well bi means you like girls and boys, so if you really don't wanna tell them you can just stick with girls.
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i agree with jon forget about boys go with girls theyr more fun
true :s
Well you've got to definitely make sure you are bi because at 15 your hormones are everywhere and it could be just a phase of curiosity. Unless ofcourse you've done something with a boy and a girl and you are definitely sure then i think you should tell them because it will eat away at you and you won't be able to act yourself.
Okay well, you shouldn't really be asking us whether we think you should tell your parents or not - it should be a completely personal decision based on the circumstances you are facing.
If you feel that your parents would be able to cope with you telling them and perhaps that they would be alright with it etc. then I say go for it, but if you think it may cause some friction with family members or something then I'd maybe re-think as it's not really worth it at 15 years old.
Your still young and your body and mind is still developing, and as your hormones are going crazy at the moment, a huge amount of people end up thinking their bi-sexual or homosexual, when in fact their only confused and later on in life they realise their actually straight, so why not just wait and see how things work out in time?
Also, by telling your parents, what are you going to get out of it? Is it worth telling them and getting all the agro? Nothing will change for the good to be honest, it just means your parents know of your sexuality, which at this stage in life isn't really neccesary for them to know...
Tell them. Do it do it do it do it.
Newsflash : Your not bisexual, you just want attention.
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