Bit of help here please :)

Hi, well here is the problem. I like this girl ye and me and her have been friends for months right and we have never argued (which is a record coz I usually argue with everyone at some point, but this girl I have not) I asked her out and she thought about it and said no, coz it would ruin our friendship. I respected her answer, but the thing is if I never have argued with her and we alway's make eachother laugh even when we are bored. And it's just really weird really :s Can anyone give me any advice on what to do?

Because im quite stuck atm lol

Hmmm. Dont pressure her. Give it about a week maybe a fortnight and ask her again. Eventually she'll realise how you feel and say yes. P.S. Hi I know u from habtips lol im M3LYC-P on there havent had my name changed yet lol.

Oh it's been ages since I asked her out lol Im just thinking of keeping it cool at the moment and stuff lol I'll see what happens in college lol

Lol I got scaldwell1992 neway (sarah) and I love her 2 bits <3

Female advice :)
Basically this girl really does like you.. but she thinks if you went out then it would ruin what you had before and she doesn't want to lose you as a freind if you split up.. Assure her that things won't change, you'll still make eachother laugh and stuff.. also tell her if you ever split up it won't ruin what you've got already :)

Ive tried telling her that, she just wont chance it :(

Tell her
"Your a really important part of my life and i like you so much as a freind but i really want to see how it goes if were together... I promise you it won't change if it does you can shoot me"

But try not to get shot :)

Lol Thanks, i'll try that when I think the time is right :D

Yeah same as above, she probably does really like you just she is probs scared that your friendship will b over if you ever finish...

Sometimes its best to stay mates then be a couple

Thanks for the advice guys, I shall keep it all in mind :D

Don't bring it up again, let her come to you.

Heres the best advice you are going to get :

She dosen't mind you as a friend, and likes you, but she thinks everyone will think badly of her if she goes out with you because you are either :

a) Ugly
b) Fat
c) Geeky
d) Creepy
e) A selection of the above

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