ok this is probably really stupid but i need some advice, i really like this girl, and i know that she feels the same way about me. The problem is im to shy or w/e to ask her out and i think she's the same. any useful advice would be great.
Thanks
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ok this is probably really stupid but i need some advice, i really like this girl, and i know that she feels the same way about me. The problem is im to shy or w/e to ask her out and i think she's the same. any useful advice would be great.
Thanks
Just go for it m8, she will most probs say yeah if she likes you too. Just be yourself...
I hate that feeling, because I've had it. You just have to gamble. :]
Aw, well if you like her and think the feelings mutual, I say you go for it - afterall what have you got to lose?
You just need to overcome your nerves and go up and ask her out, the worst she can do is say no! You could try asking her out on messenger even, or asking a mate to do it for you - but it would look better coming from yourself!
Good luck!
at the end of the days i say to my self u have nothing to loose only to GAIN !
you will regret things if you dont in your life i know iv had many of things i wish i would ahve done
Well if you like her, and you say she likes you its basically 2+2=4, Theres a plus =) Just take a chance an go for it is all I can say.
Maybe ask her what films she likes to see at the cinema and then suggest you go together as friends or even maybe with other friends and see what happens?
Go for it dude, Dont be shy man, Just go
up to her confident, get her on her own with you, and ask. If no, be friends. Simple as man.
One thing to say:
Life's too short.
He's summed it up in one.Quote:
Originally Posted by Canary
You may aswell go for it and take a wee shot at it, the worst that can happen is her saying no.. which isn't exactly the end of the world!
Clearly your to cowardly to go for it yourself cause your on here. But heres the thin line.
If you dont go for it, and she goes for another guy... all you will think is 'what if'.
If you really like her, do something about it, or your going to get trapped into some 'just friends' sprial which you cant get out off.
Its not hard, you dont even need to be direct, just 5 words.
'I think I like you'
and work from there.
I disagree that he is 'cowardly'. Not everyone has the guts and confidence to go up and ask people out, especially if they've never done it before and stuff it can be quite a daunting experience, but it really is all mind over matter and the sooner you start, the better and easier it becomes for you later in life.Quote:
Originally Posted by omgabear
At the end of the day, the worst the person can do is say no, which isn't the end of the world in any way at all! As they say - there's plenty more fish in the sea! ;]
Rubber that patter min get er pumped
I know the feeling.
If you're too shy to do anything about it, get someone to do it for you.
Ask her out to town or something.
Keep us posted.