Got Girl/Guy Troubles?

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08-09-2006, 04:19 PM
omgabear

Got Girl/Guy Troubles?

First off, this isnt advice. This is a rant, now that you've opened it, you might aswell read it.

Recent spark of threads have been occuring due to things such as people liking other people but dont know how to ask them out.

If you like someone, ask them out, if you dont ask them out then clearly you dont like them. If you result in posting on an online forum for help then the chances of you actually asking are slim. Just think of this, when you give up, your only going to stay where you quit.

If you dont have the courage to ask the person you like out, then dont bother and start to forget about them cause chances are they will not ask you out.

Also, if you need people from the internet to give you advise then what real chances do you have in a relationship? Dont get me wrong, Ostiano should be a a god damn physcologist one day with his skill but im pretty sure he cant give his words of magic to you when you and your gf/bf are alone and dont know what to do to break the silence.

It's not hard to walk up to someone and tell them that you like them. You dont need to ask them out, just tell them how you feel and see how it works from there. If you cant tell the person you like how you feel about them to start, how will you tell them about other things in a relationship.

If you really want to ask someone out, and you think it can go somewhere then you shouldnt be posting threads here entitled "I need help asking out a girl pl0x". You should be making them called "I'm now dating a girl l0l".

Honestly... what is the worst reaction you can get if someone says no?

Guy: Hey do you want to go out with me?
Girl: No, your ugly, pathetic... DIE *pulls out AK-47 and kills guy*
Guy: *tear*

Nah, dont think so. If they say no, you'll go down knowing you took a risk, whether it paid off and you will have self-gradification for that.

End Rant.
08-09-2006, 04:32 PM
Ostinato

Quote:

Originally Posted by omgabear

First off, this isnt advice. This is a rant, now that you've opened it, you might aswell read it.

Recent spark of threads have been occuring due to things such as people liking other people but dont know how to ask them out.

If you like someone, ask them out, if you dont ask them out then clearly you dont like them. If you result in posting on an online forum for help then the chances of you actually asking are slim. Just think of this, when you give up, your only going to stay where you quit.

If you dont have the courage to ask the person you like out, then dont bother and start to forget about them cause chances are they will not ask you out.

Also, if you need people from the internet to give you advise then what real chances do you have in a relationship? Dont get me wrong, Ostiano should be a a god damn physcologist one day with his skill but im pretty sure he cant give his words of magic to you when you and your gf/bf are alone and dont know what to do to break the silence.

It's not hard to walk up to someone and tell them that you like them. You dont need to ask them out, just tell them how you feel and see how it works from there. If you cant tell the person you like how you feel about them to start, how will you tell them about other things in a relationship.

If you really want to ask someone out, and you think it can go somewhere then you shouldnt be posting threads here entitled "I need help asking out a girl pl0x". You should be making them called "I'm now dating a girl l0l".

Honestly... what is the worst reaction you can get if someone says no?

Guy: Hey do you want to go out with me?
Girl: No, your ugly, pathetic... DIE *pulls out AK-47 and kills guy*
Guy: *tear*

Nah, dont think so. If they say no, you'll go down knowing you took a risk, whether it paid off and you will have self-gradification for that.

End Rant.

Lol aw thanks for that wee comment, I would like to be either a primary teacher or a physcologist when I'm older! ;P hehe.

Anyway, I do agree. I believe that a lot of people are posting on here asking for help on how to ask a girl/ boy out - which is fair enough if you've maybe never really been in a relationship and stuff, but I really do feel that if you cannot find the courage to start talking to the person you like and maybe ask them out on a date or something, then things later on in the relationship arn't going to be easy, and like he said - everytime you get stuck at something to say you can't simply whip your computer out and come on and ask for help!

However, I do enjoy giving you all advice any time you need it, so please feel free to keep posting as much as you like asking for help and advice, and I will be more than willing to do my best to help! :]

Ostinato :]
08-09-2006, 04:39 PM
Lindzi

Can the mods like sticky 1 thread on how to ask a boy out and how to ask a girl out or something? All these threads are popping up everywhere.
08-09-2006, 04:46 PM
Ostinato

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Originally Posted by Lindzi

Can the mods like sticky 1 thread on how to ask a boy out and how to ask a girl out or something? All these threads are popping up everywhere.

I'm in the process of making a thread with tips on asking people out and general relationship help for common questions being asked! :] Should be done soon ;]

Edit: If anyone feels they have anything they could help and contribute to the thread, or if there's anything people feel should be included or topics I should cover in the thread, please feel free send me a PM! :]
08-09-2006, 04:51 PM
Brody

Agreed
08-09-2006, 04:53 PM
Victimized

Ostinato your this forums god.
08-09-2006, 04:55 PM
Ostinato

Quote:

Originally Posted by Victimized

Ostinato your this forums god.

Haha awww thanks a lot <3

It's nice to be appreciated :]
08-09-2006, 05:04 PM
omgabear

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ostinato

Haha awww thanks a lot <3

It's nice to be appreciated :]

Not to be a suck-up but you do a hell of alot for everyone else here. So you honestly deserve it.
08-09-2006, 05:07 PM
:]:]:]:]

but isnt this section for like this sort of stuff?
08-09-2006, 05:10 PM
omgabear

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Originally Posted by :]:]:]:]

but isnt this section for like this sort of stuff?

Getting the same question gives the same answer.
08-09-2006, 05:17 PM
Ostinato

Quote:

Originally Posted by :]:]:]:]

but isnt this section for like this sort of stuff?

Yes, it is - that's why i encourage people to still post and I'm in the making of a thread which will contain a lot of general information for the common problems and questions people post here for, so it'll save them some time and stuff! :]

But, if they feel they still would like personal advice then yes, they can still post! :]