When you loose someone you love.

This is a true story.


I am half irish. And all of my close family live there, i have many aunty's and uncles who live there. But i was close to one of them. Uncle westly. Great guy, scince i was 3 i knew him. When i was born he was way in to his 70's. He was great, he always made you happy if you were sad. You will never have met a guy like him..

It was Sunday 6th March 2005, and my best best friend annie always sleeps on a saturday. We were woken at about half 8 by the sound of my younger brother. He was shouting
"Emma, Emma.. mum's crying.."
Annie was half asleep.. So i go up and wallked in to the hallway.
My mum just told me to sit down. She put her arm around me and said
"Emma, its uncle westly. He's taken ill.. hes got newmonia..."
Now, being as he was in his 90's im not suprised he had it. But he has had no problems in his life with health.

Anyway. About half 9 the same day. With the new's that has changed my life. My uncle westly sadly passed away. I was very upset but all my mates were there to help me get through this tragic time.
Im okay now though. His memory is with me in my teddy bear i have called westly :)

He will be missed greatly <3


Missing you loads westly :'(

Hey x.Glitz.x,
Ive got Irish blood in me :D anyway, I dont know what it is like to loose a relative you really love but I think I would be able to help you. First, its good that you remember all the good times, all the good smiles and expecially, how much you loved your Uncle. You are verry lucky to have known him for a very long time, and he would be pleased with how well you are coping with it, It is also good that you had friends to stand by you, just the same as you would be there for them if they started to fall; its also very sweet you called you Teddy after your Uncle and, im sure he is looking down on you... thinking of how wonderfull you are...
Lots of luck,
Kimi xxx


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Sorry if it hasnt helped, but I think you are verry brave going though with this, and dont forget, he is always listning so if ever you need someone just prey, and im sure he will listen :)

I feel so sorry..
for you..
I have no irish in me.
i hope your better. :D

Not to be disrespectful, but why did you post this?

I do not know what it is like to lose someone, the most ive lost is 3 rabbits and a cat, not quite the same as an uncle. Im sure he was a great man and lived life to the full. I bet hes happy in heaven looking down on you and your teddy. =)
Now, come to think of it, i have lost a great uncle it was about 5-6 years ago so i can barely remember him. Im not saying that as time goes on you'll forget the pain and your uncle, you and you uncle were a lot closer than me and my great uncle, with your teddy there im sure your uncle shall be greatly missed and loved dearly.
Im not going to type any more cos im starting to get tears in my eyes, even though hes not my uncle =S

=)

...bye!

Steph
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Originally Posted by xsaucy-stephx

I do not know what it is like to lose someone, the most ive lost is 3 rabbits and a cat,

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Ive lost count of how many pets I have lost, Ive had to many ;(

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!

glitz rocks dont worry ive lost many pets :'(

Thats Really Sad
Iv Lost Many Friends And Family
Some To Death
Some To Love
Some To Hatred
I Wrote A Poem About One Time I Lost A Girl [ A Sad Day ]

Love And Loss....A True Story Of When I First Experianced Hatred To A Loved Girl...

O Yes You Did
I Saw You There
Arms Around Him
Kissing Him Every Where

I Saw His Face
I Saw His Hair
I Saw You There
Kissing His Chest

I Saw You There
Infront Of Him
I Saw Him Laugh
I Saw You Laugh Back

I Swore
I Cursed
I Loathed This Man

I Sought Revenge
I Stole His Friends
I Took His Pride
I Ripped His Life In Two

And She Still Never Knew
That I Knew

I Watched
I Cried
I Almost Died

When I Stopped Loving You
You Said
I Love You Too
I Said No Its Over
She Said I Love You

I Never Knew
The Truth
Until I Found Him
The Man I Saw
With Another Girl

She Was New
I Was Old
And The Girl Id Turned My Back On
Was In More Pain Than me
As Shed Lost
2 Guys To The Demon Of Love

I've lost loads of people I love, I'm used to it now

I know how you feel Glitz. In the past 3 years I have lost my Grandma(Mum's Mum), Papa(Mum's Dad) and my Grandpa(Dads Dad) I lost my Granny when I was young. It took a really bad affect on me. I ended up locking myself in my room just crying for upon hours.

I still can't forget my Papa's funeral as it was the day before my 13th birthday =[ My Grandma's death took the most affect on me as she lived in the room beside me for about a year and I was so used to seeing her everyday.

My Papa was kept in over Christmas and New Year. That wasn't a very happy Christmas and New Year =[

One night she fell, it was about 3am and I was going to the toilet when I heard her crying for help. She was taken to hospital and that was the last time she was in the house. As she left the house she said to my Dad, "Bob(My Dad) I guess I won't be having a sherry for New Year." She laughed like she was all happy going to hospital. Found out she had a broken pelvis but sadly her condition was going from bad to worse. It was a Wednesday and I came home from school to find my Mum crying to find out that she sadly passed away. My parents knew she was gonna go but never told me. I still cry every month to remember my last Grandparents and hearing that 1 last line I heard my Grandma said before leaving the house in my head over and over again. I have never been the same since my Grandma's death and I find myself feeling quite down most of the time even during school. I just hope I don't have to suffer another funeral, but the way it is going my Dad ain't gonna see me getting married :'(

Thanks for letting me post my views and I apologise if what I said upsets you in any way. :(

These Storys Are Truely Sad
I Lost My Grandad 2 Months Ago He Was 90 Sumthing
Think 97 He Lived Well
Fought In The War
He Always Wore His Medals
He Kept A Gun Lol
When I Was 6 He Gave It Me
I Bought 10 Flyaway Footys
My Dad Kicked Em And I Shot Em
We Were In A Open Field And No One Saw
I Hit 4 Lol
Then He Died 12 Years From Then
I Miss Him
The Drunken Dude
He Was Truely The Kewlest Grandad Around
[ To Put It Well He Listened To Greenday Nivarna And The Killers In His Late 80 And 90's

Missing Him The Jimbob
Jim
My Grandad
Hes In Heaven
Living It Large >:D