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I have this HUGE problem.
Well I've been friends with my friend for 5 yrs who I will not speak of but anyways, he asked me out and I said yes.
Buttt it feels weird when he hugs me and stuff and he REALLY likes me but I don't feel anything when I'm with him. We barely talk like we used to when we were friends. It just feels boring and awkward. I don't want to break up with him cuz then that will ruin our friendship..WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!?? :eusa_wall :(
You should never date your friends.
You should never pointless post.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steven
Edited by Nixt (Forum Moderator): Please do not post off topic and tell other members they have broken rules, thanks :).
on topic: just act like you are happy and stuff. hug him back if he hugs you and stuff.
off topic:dating friends wouldn't be that bad.
I don't know if I should stick with him or leave him.
:(
I don't know what to do!
See if he feels the same way? he may of noticed the awkwardness too, if he has your friendship will be safe if not atleast it won't be as bad as breakin up with him. If he gets upset give him a puppy.
If he's any good in the sack, keep him.
Say you have Toe-nail cancer and u are going to die then pretend to die :)
Or
Try and find an intrest that u both enjoy... Like... Cars :D
And be miserable all her life by pretending to like a guy she doesn't? I don't think that's a good idea.Quote:
Originally Posted by Blinger
I think you should just tell him that you don't feel the same way he does, and you just want to be friends. But make it very clear that you still want to be friends with him, seeing as you don't want to ruin your relationship with him. It's better you tell now then letting him find out later.
if she doesn't like him that much why would he marry him?Quote:
Originally Posted by Herman
coz shes pretending 2 like him ROFLQuote:
Originally Posted by Cannon
Exactly. If he actually asks her to marry him (which is quite unlikely, but who knows), I'm sure she's not going to just play along will she? She has to tell him eventually.Quote:
Originally Posted by minime4000
Then she'll have to ask herself again, do I want to ruin our great frindship or shud I go through with the marrrage?Quote:
Originally Posted by Herman
If he was a good friend he would understand that she just wants to be friends, although it might be a little hurtful to him.Quote:
Originally Posted by Redmoon Evil
Your in some hard situation here,
I was woundering if you liked him when you accepted to be his girlfriend,
It would be harsh to just let go, erm...
I like my friend at the momant, and if we do go out someday and she just leaves, I wouldnt realy wana be friends, because it wont feel right.
But I'll have a think of it and make another post later on...
Thank you people for giving me advice.
I'll have to think about this. :]
Get rid of him but be nice. The only thing you have to think about is how to do it.
I thought over it, and if it happend to me, then you just lost a friend.
But!! If you have a long talk with him, a longggg talk, then everything would be fine.
Better now than never?Quote:
Originally Posted by Herman
You need to be truthful with him, your basicaly leading him on if you don't feel anything towards him. It would be better for the both of you in the long run if you were honest with him now. He may not like it at first, but the more it goes on, the more it'l hurt him later on.
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Originally Posted by Chaz
Rofl man you got tossed there! haha moderator got you
Yeah dont be an idiot and date your friends never gets you anywhere
ask if you can just be **** buddies? then you can be friends, but there'll be no emotional attachment AND if you fancy it one day then you can just well.. do it.
Well really, a girlfriend / boyfriend can often be just a best friend with a little more er... romance?
if i was in that situation id talk to him, tell him that that you want to be with him, but you dont want him to change from the sweet best friend he was before? hopefully that will make you talk more and be best friends and still be girlfriend / boyfriend.
Often, you dont realise how much you love someone until they are gone, so this might be whats going on in this case?
hmm...maybe tell him "Look i'm sorry, this isn't working out for me and i would really just like to be friends, maybe we can try again another time."
Woah tbh say can we just be freinds, please, no hard feelings?
Just say things were funner when you were friends. After a week He'll be over it. Unless he's Your first ever girlfriend
do yas all have to argu lol