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I just got a text message saying that my mate tried killing her self again and that shes at the hospital... She said she will phone me when she gets out, Shes shown me the Scars from where she tried to slit her wrists... I tried taking a pic of the message to show u but my phones go a LCD Screeny type screen and it just reflects the light into my Eye toy that im using as a cam... This will proberly keep me awake all night :(
get someone to secretly keep a watch on her in school, at home or anywhere he/she does
that would help but make he/she doesnt know that who ever is watching
Shes moved from Coventry << Where i liveQuote:
Originally Posted by Unknown-Chris
To Dundee so....
Tell her that the orld will miss her if she leaves.
I think we all know those won't really work.
Basically, all you need to do is let her know you are there for her no matter what and never push her to talk to you, she will come to you.
Just let her feel like she can come to you about anything. She will come round mate, no worries.
Take care.
Trick i was used when i used to cut my self
Yep its the ice cube trick (or anything cold)
If you start to feel anger hold ice cubes some how it relieves the stress and anger
If you feel mad at someone/something take it out on something soft ie pillow
Feeling upset just sit in a corner in a dark room alone (duno why but it helps me)
Just a few helpful things ive come to know and use
as the person above said let her tell you dont make the mistake of trying to get it out of her because it just makes things worse,Let her trust you a lot more thn she normaly would.
Tell her she'll miss out on things like driving, legality (you know what I mean) and other stuff.
If she has siblings, tell her to think about them.
It always keeps them thinking.
If shes tried it more than once i say ignore it. Anyone who is keeping you awake at night because theyre being irrational and stupid shouldnt be any concern of yours.
it shouldnt be any concern of yours that a close friend is tryign to kill themselves?Quote:
Originally Posted by Professor-Alex
oh id just love to be your friend "/
just do what the above says. dont push her into talking to you, just rmeind her that you're there for here etc.
Nvm Sorry.Quote:
Originally Posted by HA33OX
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Originally Posted by HA33OX
I live in Dundee :]
i know im posting but tbh i wouldnt have a clue what to do?
my x girlfriend self harmed and tried to kill herself 1 or 2 times.
after a while i gave up and had to let her go because it was beginning to mess me up too.
i know i should have been supportive but it was too hard as everytime i gave her advice, it wouldnt work because of some random reason.
O.o i live in dundee ..
Lol, i'm like an half hour from coventry lol