Need Alot Of Advice!

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16-01-2007, 02:36 PM
Bladder

Need Alot Of Advice!

Ok, Here's My Life Story.
Sorry If I Use Caps, I'm Really Upset.

Ok, I Met this Girl On Runescape. She's 13 Years And I'm 16. I Really Had Feelings For Her. But Before I Got To Tell Her, She Met Another Guy In R/l, At Her School. I Felt Really Bad, But I Let Her Go With Him. She And He Would Always Ask Me Advice On Love And Stuff. So, They want Me To Be A Friend, But Quite Lately, I've Been Acting Like A Parent. I've Been Going Behind Both Their Backs Telling Each Of Them Private Things The Other Told Me. Now, The Girl Just Got Out Of A Relationship, And It Really Hurt Her. I Don't Want That To Happen Again. But I Think She's Making The Wrong Choice With This Kid. He's 14, 1 Year Older Than Him. He's Had His Hand Down So Many Pants, I Really Can't Tell You. But, She Didn't Know About It Till I Told Her. Then After That, She Still Liked Him. They Met About 2 Weeks Ago, And They're Already Sending Me Pictures Of Them Kissing. It's Making Me Sick, And I Don't Know What To Do. I Want To Keep Making Sure She Knows What Shes Getting Into, But I Want To Be A Friend. If I Act Like A Parent, She'll Get Ticked, And I Might Not Talk To her Again. If I Act Like A Friend, This Kid Might Do Something Bad To Her. Please Give Me As Much advice As You Can Type.
Thanks A Lot,
Bladder :(
16-01-2007, 02:42 PM
hobo

go outside.
16-01-2007, 02:45 PM
Lilux

I dnt think i'd risk a gd friendship to e date somone.
16-01-2007, 02:46 PM
Caution

lollll.

Quote:

Originally Posted by tease

go outside.

well, if they're just doing it to annoy you or w/e just pan his head in?

otherwise, go outside.

maybe stop raping your shift key?
16-01-2007, 02:49 PM
Bladder

Yeah, when i'm ticked, I write with big letters.
No, she does have feelings for me.
She just thinks I'm happy about her getting together with him.
And him, whew.
He doesn't like me.
He keeps making jokes on how I'll be sitting at my computer, and he'll be in her shirt.
I really think something bad is going to happen. :(
It's scaring me.
16-01-2007, 02:51 PM
Caution

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bladder

Yeah, when i'm ticked, I write with big letters.
No, she does have feelings for me.
She just thinks I'm happy about her getting together with him.
And him, whew.
He doesn't like me.
He keeps making jokes on how I'll be sitting at my computer, and he'll be in her shirt.
I really think something bad is going to happen. :(
It's scaring me.

amgzz, what a perv.:(

Just tell her, that he's bad news.
16-01-2007, 02:52 PM
English

Well this is a toughie, although ofcourse the problem can be solved. If this guy who she is dating seems to get around then all you need is for him to do it again then seize the opportunity. Once he tells you he's done it then just tell her and add something like "I would never do this to you, you are really special to me and I know you don't see me like that but I wouldn't mis-treat you". But say something from the heart, not my words. Instead of acting like a parent then just act like a friend who gives advice, hell she won't date you ever if she sees you like a parent. However be protective over her still & try and get the boy she met to admit stuff to you, like hint at things or something to get stuff out of him - once that's done your in.
16-01-2007, 02:55 PM
Bladder

Quote:

Originally Posted by Truth

Well this is a toughie, although ofcourse the problem can be solved. If this guy who she is dating seems to get around then all you need is for him to do it again then seize the opportunity. Once he tells you he's done it then just tell her and add something like "I would never do this to you, you are really special to me and I know you don't see me like that but I wouldn't mis-treat you". But say something from the heart, not my words. Instead of acting like a parent then just act like a friend who gives advice, hell she won't date you ever if she sees you like a parent. However be protective over her still & try and get the boy she met to admit stuff to you, like hint at things or something to get stuff out of him - once that's done your in.

Lmao, Thank You!
I Just Feel I'm Responsible Cause I'm A Few Years Older.
But He's Hinted Alot About Doing Her, And Doing Other People.
And Alot Of Other stuff About Her I Won't Say.
Also, He's Told Her The Same Thing You Said About Not Mis-Treating Her.
But I Feel If They're Still Together, He Will Start.
Thanks For Your Help, I'll Put It To Good Use :)
16-01-2007, 02:59 PM
:Hazel

Quote:

Originally Posted by tease

go outside.

+ rep i lol'd.

anyway on a serious note you shouldnt be looking out for her really if you dont even know her, let her make her own mistakes.
16-01-2007, 03:00 PM
hobo

omg seriously, quit with the shift key abuse.
16-01-2007, 03:02 PM
Bladder

That's what I'm saying.
She all ready has made mistakes.
She was dating a guy named Seth, and he broke up with her.
Now he's all over this new girl wherever she is.
And how i know she's really upset...
The time I saw her really upset was on a trip to Florida.
We've known each other for a year now.
And I swear she cried for a good hour.
I really don't want that to happen again.
(I Don't Got Enough Money To Go Back To Florida And Comfort Her)
16-01-2007, 03:02 PM
Bladder

Quote:

Originally Posted by tease

omg seriously, quit with the shift key abuse.

I'll stop, sorry.