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There is this girl and she lives very close. I met her on myspace through my friends friends. We are dating now and she would like to come over. But i am not sure if i should have her come over, seeing as i did meet her online. I really like this girl alot, but am not sure what to do! What do you think i should do? Should i meet her in person or not?
Uhh you are dating.
You should probably have real contact with her then.
Maybe talk to her on the phone or video chat with her so you know she is who you think she is.
And dont meet up in a dark ally.
Meet in a public place.
took the words out of my mouthQuote:
Originally Posted by BL!NKEY
How can you be dating not having gone on a date? and ye get he over, nice to meet you irl ^_^.
EDATING!
get protection ready incase its a guy :(
i'd meet her
only if you're SURE she is who she says she is
iv'e met loads of people online, it's no big deal.
Like some of the others said, dont meet unless your totally sure that everything will be ok.
Get proof of who your talking to, pictures wont do, video, voice, that stuff, the pictures could be gotten from anywhere.
Then you can meet, and everything should work out fine.
Good luck with everything.
England is a small country, USA is much bigger, and i am almost certain it has more peados than england ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by -L!NK!N-P@RK-
yeah, england has loads of pedos, we dont put them in jail anymore because theres no room :rolleyes:
Meet me? I can show u fun...Quote:
Originally Posted by lube
kk then!Quote:
Originally Posted by CCFC
Your dating, so it would be a nice idea to meet up in real life, just make sure it's all planned out carefully and it's a public place. And, then make sure that you know she is a who she says she in by taking over phone and pictures and cam and stuff like that.
when and where, Ill be therQuote:
Originally Posted by lube
yeah you should, use webcam and mic first of all to make sure she is who she says she is.. and meet her in a crowded place and you'll be k ;]
Dont laugh but, get a spoon with you..
Thanks all for the help. I'll have a talk with her on the phone and see her face on cam first. I was figuring since she was on my friends friends myspace i wouldn't need to worry so much, but saftey first! :P Thank you all so much. :)
Im not sure you can justify whether you like someone after youve meet them online. You dont really no the person that well, so why date when youve never actually met?
And go with a friend, as her to go shopping with you and your friend or something?
If I was in your position, I wouldn't meet her.
Yes, why not if you rly know her?
lol.
I met this girl off myspace and MSN who lived near me and went out with her, I'm sure it'll be fine.
shame thats all you did was meet :]Quote:
Originally Posted by Succubus
I mean I met her on like the internet, and then I went out on dates if you like a few times.Quote:
Originally Posted by #crans
:eusa_wall nevermind we just broke up :(
Yeh totally, go meet her.Quote:
Originally Posted by MusicPalace
Why did you break up?Quote:
Originally Posted by MusicPalace
i'd rather not talk about it, sorry. :(
did you ask to see her on cam and then the pedo realised you were thinking so he dumped you? pretty stupid e-dating. meet someone u know in rl
LMAO! That made me chuckle, well if you've broken up with her now it doesn't matter :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Blinger
no.. shes a he!!
all i would say is be careful if you do meet anyone from online because you never know ;l
i would meet in a shopping center and say "okay meet out the front of target" and just walk past and see if they are there and if they are and they look like who you were talking to then go and meet them, if not just walk away and say "sorry, i couldn't go, mum had to do something and i couldn't get there" or some thing :)
Personally i can't understand Net dating. If your sure shes not an axe murderer or something then yeeh go ahead and meet her. But try and check that out first...