Ugh stupid boys.. [HELP]

ok well theres these boys (2/3) and they are a year below me but still very annoying. All the people in the year below me think they are 'bad' well its really annoying and they for some reason dont like me ¬.¬. and well my year + their year went ice skating today and one tried kicking me down but it didnt quite work (i got the balance!) but i just ignored him and then another purpously(sp?) tried pushing me but it still didnt work but this time i was like why did you do that and he was like shut up and i was like do i know you? why are you tryin to push me? he was like what you wanna fight come then we fight after this then or even right now! i was like well why should i fight? i dont need to fight i got nothing to fight for. Plus i wuldnt waste my energy on u so just go away. Then he soughta went off to tell his "gang" of like 20people (all yr below me!) and well yh i just really dont like them and my friend was like just ignore them and he also sed he wuld fight them but they know gangs and stuff so thats another reason i didnt wanna fight... i know ppl in yr 13(sixth form) but i dno coz like my sis and her boyfriend and stuff =D but then the gangs thing.. so i really dont know what to do so can u please help me! ^^


my longest post with writing WOOOOOO lol i know it aint much but also rep for helpful suggestions :]

Hmm, I think that the reason they are doing it is believe it or not, maybe because you aint loud enough? If you chalenge them (realistically) then they should kind of back off, ofcourse there will still be fake threats but come on, how likely is it that they gonna all gang up on you..? If you still think they will then I think you should kind of make a group your-self? So like, you have mates backing you up etc..?

For example today yeah; I was in Art, last lesson.. (I'm in year 11 by the way), and we was all getting on with our work with no problems but the other teacher came in crying because of the stupid year 7's taking the ****.
There is like a little room in-between ours and their class so we looked through there and we saw them all messing around and in particular this one guy thinking hes the boss and all, so our teacher said to us, go in there and make them do there work, but dont hit them or anything, just tell them that they doing stuff which are wrong etc, and stuff, so all the boys went to their class and got incharge then the boy was still "acting" then one of the guys switched on him (pretending to) and we was pretending as if he was gonna hit him lol and we was like holding him back, so the boy was very very scared and we were raising our voices etc, and his friends kind of backed of because we was in a group.

In conclusion, if one of us went in alone, then they would 100% not listen to us and take the ****, but as we was in a group as well, and showed them that
we can show them whos boss, they had to back of, and I'm so sure that they wont do anything to make that teacher cry again..

My advice to you is, stay hard and make your voice heard, stay in a group, and always watch out for each other in your group, but dont go around doing what they do n stuff, and if neccesery then defend your self physically but only if they start.

Good Luck matey :P

Hiya - it sounds like you've had one of the same problems as I've had.

It just sounds like someone who wants to make himself look 'big' and 'bad' but are actually probably too scared to do anything.

If the small kicks and shoves carry on, I would advise to report it to a trusted teacher or something?? Some people would think it's the cowards way out, but if you fight them, it's only going to want them come back for more isn't it??

Good luck - I hope you resolve the problem

Ben

Thanks for well thought out advice +rep to both the thing with urs disco is that im like smallest in my year and probaly smaller than them and not greatly strong :s but also the one that threatened me on the ice actually kicked a boy (in my year) in the head and punched him in the face, for no reason so i really dno coz i thought they were just talk :S

Just hit the little ***** then they will leave you alone, and if they go crying to a teacher then just say they were the ones who started it.

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Just hit the little ***** then they will leave you alone, and if they go crying to a teacher then just say they were the ones who started it.

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Yes but as i said before i would hit the lil fools but i cant as they know gangs and well i dont wanna get shot ¬.¬

I'm never one do condole violence at all. However, in this case I wouldn't think, as of yet, that it is serious enough to tell a paren/teacher. I think you should just ignore it for now and if the situation re-occurs then challenge him. Don't cause a big scene in front of all his friends, but if try and arrange it so you will bump into him on his own somehow, then go over and ask him to fight there and then - and you'll see how hard he is without all his friends to back him.

Most likely he will simply back down, as from experience, younger kids try to just act the hard man around their pals.

Get your whole year, a beat the pooey out of him?

get your friends to try and back you up when he comes round, i guess? or if it gets rly bad i guess you could tell someone, cos threatning is a type of bullying.

Your're in year 8 and your grammar is terrible.

I can't understand 1 bit of it.

& Your in year 8, why let little kids pick on you? stand up for yourself.

Fight him. Show him who there messing with.

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Your're in year 8 and your grammar is terrible.

I can't understand 1 bit of it.

& Your in year 8, why let little kids pick on you? stand up for yourself.

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my grammar is terrible as i choose not 2 rite like its an english essay..


If i want, i can. Also to all the people who said fight them, well if you read the first post it says they have connections to gangs. So, well i am not one to fight aswell as not wanting to be surverely hurt. :s

Gang work? Well this is simple, and I want you to know I'm being 100% serious.

The problem about them walking around in gangs is obviously they need others to help them, it's a weakness sign clearly. You need to sum things up, I presume you're stronger than him so do this.

Do your homework, learn about the kid. Where he lives, how he gets home and how much his friends hang around. Find a simple vantage point where he is alone, and nobody can see you. Then just go for him.

Beat him, hard... and again. Make him bleed, scream and cry... alot of people would say this would make the situation worse? True... unless you film it. You set up a camera due to the fact that you've researched his walking activities. Before walking off, tell him if he or his gang tries any of that stuff again... you'll release the video.

But remember, if you're going to do it... keep doing it. Don't stop after a few swings, and as much as I hate doing it... hit him while he's down, the guy walks around with friends and insults people... that in my opinion is the biggest sign of cowardice.

I've done it before, not towards someone in a gang... they were somewhat, alone. But far to bigheaded for their own good. It was the second only time I've really hurt someone.

Best of luck.

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Gang work? Well this is simple, and I want you to know I'm being 100% serious.

The problem about them walking around in gangs is obviously they need others to help them, it's a weakness sign clearly. You need to sum things up, I presume you're stronger than him so do this.

Do your homework, learn about the kid. Where he lives, how he gets home and how much his friends hang around. Find a simple vantage point where he is alone, and nobody can see you. Then just go for him.

Beat him, hard... and again. Make him bleed, scream and cry... alot of people would say this would make the situation worse? True... unless you film it. You set up a camera due to the fact that you've researched his walking activities. Before walking off, tell him if he or his gang tries any of that stuff again... you'll release the video.

But remember, if you're going to do it... keep doing it. Don't stop after a few swings, and as much as I hate doing it... hit him while he's down, the guy walks around with friends and insults people... that in my opinion is the biggest sign of cowardice.

I've done it before, not towards someone in a gang... they were somewhat, alone. But far to bigheaded for their own good. It was the second only time I've really hurt someone.

Best of luck.

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Wow... simply wow.. that is a very long and well thought out answer +rep :)