i been going out with her for almost 6 months & ever sence i see her ma sisters always hog her & leaves me out & i never get to speak to her or have some time with her what can i do to fix this?
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i been going out with her for almost 6 months & ever sence i see her ma sisters always hog her & leaves me out & i never get to speak to her or have some time with her what can i do to fix this?
Get out of the house instead of hanging at yours so that your sisters can't "hog" her. ;l How old are you may i ask?
Im 12 years old of age
I've never personally had this problem...Quote:
Originally Posted by DJCurto
Why don't you just speak to your sisters? Tell them you'd prefer if they could give you and your girlfriend some time alone every now and again and rather than always being there, getting in the way, you'd like if they could leave you both alone.
However, don't expect them to be too happy as their obviously friends with her as well. I suggest speaking to your girlfriend also. Communication within a relationship is vital, so I feel you should simply tell her when she comes round it's almost as though shes there to see your sisters - and not you.
Suggest doing other things where your sisters won't be there to leave you out... maybe the cinema or something?
dunno ma younger sister wont go away from her this happens everytime when my girlfriend comes round every single flipping girl i bring round
your sisters probably just trying to be friendly, don't hang around at your house, go places without your sisters.
lol@you being 12.
Edited by J1MI (Super Moderator) - Please don't post pointlessly.
Close Thread plz we ant going out anymore :l
Aw that's a shame... I hoped you could maybe have worked it out.Quote:
Originally Posted by DJCurto
Oh well, your still young and will have plenty more girls as you grow up! :)
If your sisters do that with every girl you take round, don't take girls back to yours unless you have a free house? It's like taking your bird to the zoo if she hates animals - you wouldn't do it. You know what your sisters are going to be like, so it's your own fault. Wouldn't it be ironic if the reason they split up was because he followed someones advice? :D
i think the best way to fix this problem is by firstly talking to your sister,Quote:
Originally Posted by DJCurto
don't make a fuss to her about it, don't argue.
just start up an easy chat with her about her, and then go into it, tell her how you feel you would like to spend some more time with her seeing as you are with one another, and that you don't see much of her because the two of them (meaning your sister and girlfriend) are always together.
once that works out, which i should hope it does if you are polite with your sister, talk to your girlfriend and bring up the same as you did with your sister, as you'd like to spend more time with her, of course mention you love her and thats why you want to spend more time with her, and also because your sister always seems to be with her(Y).
hope it works out.
Agreed :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Ostinato
ditch that *****
your 12, it's never gunna work, ditch that *****!
Dude, walk outside with her outside,
Tell your sisters to go play with traffic and get closer to your bird.
Your being pushed over.
Shes probably shy... be nice and see how it goes.