Dont really know to be honest.....

Well at school on thursday, before the lunch period had started and I had gone to Pizza Pizza with a few girls and Cassandra, who is closest to me, kinda like her, she asked to borrow my iPod. Which i have no problem with, its just that I needed it at the end of the period cause I was going home early and what had happened was that for some reason she couldnt get it back to me.

I suspect she just stayed a while after class and didnt come to give it back, so she had it over the night - shes had it once before, so I completely trust her - she brought it back to me the next day and I ****zed right out and she got mad at me.

Dont know if its hanging around her too much thats getting on both of our nerves or what?

I dont get what your acctually trying to ask?
So, you gave her your iPod and she took it home which she has done before, and the next day you shouted at her even though you trust her :S

Well if you're saying what I think you are... Just apoligise and admit it's all your fault and you wanna go back to how things were. It might take some time to get so close again but as long as you apoligise sincerely and make sure she knows it then hopefully you will get that chance.

I hope so, I didnt mean to get as mad as I did, but somehing got on my nerves.

Shes kind amad at me but dont really know waht to say.

Look you said you like this girl! did you not? Maybe make it up with her and maybe ask her out. If all goes wrong dont blame me! :)

Stay Safe,

Chaz!

Hmmm I had a close girl mate. I think we kind of got too close and started to get on each other nerves. If that's the case then what I did was stay with my boy mates and don't be with the girl all the time. It causes a bit of friction first between the two of you but in the long run it works. That was over a year ago now and me and her sit by each other in one lesson a day and we're really close now. We tell each other everything but then we let each other get on with our lives after that lesson. If that's what your talking about anyway I don't really get what you're asking.

Thanks, I think im going to start going out with some other people and just let us both cool off for about 2 weeks and then see what happens.

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Thanks, I think im going to start going out with some other people and just let us both cool off for about 2 weeks and then see what happens.

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Might be a good idea then you might realise how much you need each other or you might realise it's the best for both and you and just good to talk now and again. Good luck though :)

Honesty is the best policy.

Iv got some very close girl mates, that i like. However i think you should stay away a few days and clear your head then apologise to her. I had a problem like this before with a close girl mate that i had.

But i found out she was upset with the arguments so we both appolozised and made up.

So... I hope it works out!

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I hope so, I didnt mean to get as mad as I did, but somehing got on my nerves.

Shes kind amad at me but dont really know waht to say.

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Sorry might be a start

Just Ask Her Why She Took It Home

First of all, I always lend my iPod to a friend I trust but then I would do the same thing if she had it over night. She should being getting mad @ you. You told her you wanted it @ the end of the period then she was supposed to give it back. She didn't. Then, you got angry @ her because you were worried. If she's mad then obv she's not a very good friend because a good friend would understand exactly why your mad && what they did wrong.