Helpp pls ?x

Well Basically..
in February.. i met this girl for the first time & I've had a crush on her ever since.
I've met her a few times since then & it was all good. Hugging & flirting until last time.
Where most of the time i spent with her seemed really awkward.
I don't know why though.. it just was, maybe it seemed it 'cos I felt ill ?

Since then I met another girl one of her ^^ friends.
She's really nice and all but I only want to be friends with her but the girl I fancy ^^ keeps going on about how me & her friend should get together. & be the 'emo' couple.
This annoys me:
a) Because I hate being called emo
b) Because I don't fancy her.

& so I don't know what to do.. help? x

(Sorry if there are threads like this) :eusa_wall

well if she is telling you to get with her friend then she probs doesn't like you..

Simply just don't get with her. It's your life and you make the decisions in it.

Well if she is genuinely trying to set you up with someone else, I highly doubt she likes you back. However, that in no way means she never will like you...

If she brings it up again, just say that you don't like the girl that way and you are in no way an "emo" and don't particularly appreciate being called one.

See how things go, and just try and get close the girl you like. Try spend more personal time with her and trying and form a closer bond between both of you. Even if she doesn't like you right now, over time she might grow to do so.

Don't rush into things and pounce onto her or anything though, lol, take things slow and just see what happens! :)

Thanks for all the advise :]
I told her I don't fancy her friend & told her I don't like being called emo.
Thanks I'll take all the advise into account.
I feel honoured that Ostinato answered :] lol

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Originally Posted by Joemaphobe

Thanks for all the advise :]
I told her I don't fancy her friend & told her I don't like being called emo.
Thanks I'll take all the advise into account.
I feel honoured that Ostinato answered :] lol

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Yeah Ostinato is the love doctor in this part of the forum... As everyone knows :P

Ostinato pretty much sums up everything I am about to type when reading threads in this section. Ah well.

Best advice I can give you is get to a solid height in your friendship and then maybe tell her that you like HER. Then give her time to think and see how things go. Don't rush into asking her out though.

HOWS IT GOING EMO.

Slitin' ya wrists lately?

Naa just a joke..


do what you want to do?

Dunno?

Couldn't be f'd reading the last paragraph.

Just say, I don't fancy your friend, I fancy YOU! Btw Im not emo.

Thanks all for the replies
I will take things slow & build on our friendship :]
Even if nothing comes of it, she would be a great friend.

& I've told her I don't fancy her friend..

Thanks youuuuu

how about a 3some?

thats a good piece of advice :rolleyes:

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Originally Posted by Ostinato

Well if she is genuinely trying to set you up with someone else, I highly doubt she likes you back. However, that in no way means she never will like you...

If she brings it up again, just say that you don't like the girl that way and you are in no way an "emo" and don't particularly appreciate being called one.

See how things go, and just try and get close the girl you like. Try spend more personal time with her and trying and form a closer bond between both of you. Even if she doesn't like you right now, over time she might grow to do so.

Don't rush into things and pounce onto her or anything though, lol, take things slow and just see what happens! :)

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Exactly nearly everything I was going to say lol :P

Yeah perhaps get closer with the girl you ACTUALLY take a liking in, chat, and in many just friendly and casual ways make the bond between you both stronger in order for her to grow more into you aswell, just see what happens (you may even be surprised!) :D

She's probably trying to match you and her friend up because she maybe likes you herself, I mean it doesn't mean she HATES you (trust me, it does happen that way too) anyways... I hope you know what I mean lol