Do you believe in bisexuality?

My friend adam came out to me, and then decided he wanted to declare it to the whole school.

He's come out as Bisexual though and i really.. honestly dont believe he is. He NEVER looks at girls, neither does he talk about them or mention that he fancies any. However he WILL comment on what girls wear/ how they look etc.

He's always talking about guys n stuff. "he's hot" "ooh hes hot too" blah blah blah. When i confronted him about it and told him that it will hurt his parents even more if it turns out that he's gay because his parents want grandchildren he just goes mad and changes the subject. I think its unfair to his mum that hes leading her on and all the girls that still crush on him.

I remember when i first came out i was telling people that i was bisexual and not gay, knowing full well i was in no way sexually attracted to women. When people ask me now though i just say gay.. get over it bish. lol

Do you believe in Bisexuality? I'm just not sure lol

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He's come out as Bisexual though and i really.. honestly dont believe he is.he NEVER looks at girls, neither does he talk about them or mention that he fancies any

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Why does a bisexual need too look at girls why does a bi-sexual need to talk to girls and maybe he doesnt want to say anything about who he fancies.

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he's always talking about guys n stuff. "he's hot" "ooh hes hot too" blah blah blah

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So he maybe thinks that hes hot and your point being ?

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When i confronted him about it and told him that it will hurt his parents even more if it turns out that he's gay because his parents want grandchildren he just goes mad and changes the subject.

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your accutlaly makeing him feel bad and worse i would stop it now before he doesnt like you (no not it love) and if he doesnt want kids thats hes decison not your'es not hes parents but himself.

i've always seen love as being something unconditional. heck, i've fallen in love with boys and girls. I was with my ex (girl) for almost 7 months, and i'm now in a relationship with a guy and have been for almost 7 months. i can happily have sex with male or female.

I had argument with my friend the other day about this, Because he thinks bisexual people are just in the middle and in the end they will be straight or gay. I think its down to the person and only the person will know if they are bisexual, gay or straight, so no one else really needs to question it and if your mate is actually gay im sure he will tell you when he knows and he has accepted it and then he might tell you.

i think people can be bisexual, i mean yeah i said i was bisexual for about aa year when i knew i was gay, but it doesn't mean everyone does.

I don't mind lol - if ppl wanna be bi its fine by me!

The majority of people who say their bi do it because they are unsure, and it's easy to get out of if you realise you aren't gay, "oh it was just a phase" kind of thing.

Some people (not many but still quite a few) do it for sheer attention.

Others just generally cannot make their mind up.

Believing in it is a pretty difficult question, I think the question you are asking is do you agree because it's very difficult to believe in something if you cannot personally experience it to enhance your opinion.

I'm bi, I do indeed prefer boys, but sometimes, its nice to have a change as girls are alot more serious (not always) when it comes to a relationship

its rather hard to explain tbh.

I do, but I find it hard to believe just a little bit more every day, there are so many guys/girls out there who will say they are, just to be able to speak to somebody of that sexuality (bi/gay) and to get closer to them. It's stupid to mislead everybody if you know you're not bi or gay - because if the person you're talking to genuinly likes you back, when you eventually tell them that you're not gay or bi, they'd get upset and all of that. (sorry if i confused anybody along the way.)

Also, some people just do it to try being independent, when in actual fact; they're being the complete opposite. Just looking for people to ask questions, whats it like, etcetc. (k, bad example)

Apart from those two examples, I don't really have a problem with bisexuality because as Asher shared his experience so to say, it is possibleeeee.

i read somewhere only like 5% of people are completely gay or straight.
anyway, i prefer girls but guys are nice too.
i guess that means im bi :S

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Originally Posted by YoManGo!

i read somewhere only like 5% of people are completely gay or straight.
anyway, i prefer girls but guys are nice too.
i guess that means im bi :S

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Not necessarily, your hormones are probably misleading you. No offence but this is what I dislike about this sort of thread, because it gets everybodys sub-conscience thinking they're attracted to both genders. Don't try and label yourself until you know for sure.

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Originally Posted by brooklyn

Not necessarily, your hormones are probably misleading you. No offence but this is what I dislike about this sort of thread, because it gets everybodys sub-conscience thinking they're attracted to both genders. Don't try and label yourself until you know for sure.

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im sure that i like guys and have done for several years.

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Originally Posted by YoManGo!

im sure that i like guys and have done for several years.

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K, then.

nice talking to you.