About my girlfriend..

Hello all :)

I have a girlfriend, we been going out for a week or 3 now. We like each other very much, and she is having a sleepover this weekend which I am invited to. She said to me "You should come, when everyones asleep we could have a good time ;) " I know what she means, but does that like.. have to mean sex? And if so, should a condom be used? What does it feel like and should I have sex? (Im 13).

Anyway, thanks for your help :)

Typo x

she shouldnt pressure you to have sex.

she sounds like a bit of a ***** if she wants to have sex after three weeks.

horrrrrrrrr


and do it when you're ready

if you want to do it, do it. if you dont, dont. your choice, not hers.

I want to, but I mean, is 13 too young? And apparently condoms dont 100% work, is that true?

depends really, no condoms rnt 100% something like 97%. If she says good time it dont have to mean sex, it may just mean getting off or something. And you dont have to have full sex to havea gd time.

Hmm.. tbh Not at 13, I don't think anyone can be ready at the age of 13!!
Don't let her pressurise you though. But anyway it really is your choice,
Or say something like you 'Can't come'? if you don't wanna. Or just tell her you don't feel right with it yet,
and if she understood about it and beleived you she wouldn't pressure you. Hope all goes well x
and again its up to you!

Is every one of your posts a lie? They really annoy me sometimes. You seem to have such an eventful life I find it hard to believe that you even have time to sit on here all day and create threads asking us for advice on whether you should commit suicide to whether you should fly on a plane by yourself to what you should do after accidentily smashing someone's window. Oh, and I forgot to mention when you said your house was on the news the other week because you'd just happened to move to a part of England where there was an earthquake a few weeks before it happened..

In your other thread you said "I have a girlfriend (Finally!). We have been going out since Monday 6th May" yet in this thread on the 9th of May you say that you've being going out for "a week or 3". Simple maths tells me that you're either lying or very stupid. If you're going to lie at least don't contradict yourself. You also said in that other thread that she won't even meet you and keeps putting you off, so I don't know why she's suggesting you have sex if she won't even speak to you face-to-face.

All seems a load of crap to me. But my answer to your post; if you have to ask whether you should have sex, then no you shouldn't because you're not ready.

I look forward to your next thread, maybe the plane you flew on by yourself crashed and you was the only survivor or something.

Well if it is true I think you should just go and if she does want to have sex and you aren't ready then it's up to you. Just say you're not ready. I doubt many 13 year olds are ready to have sex.

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Originally Posted by Seacat

I look forward to your next thread, maybe the plane you flew on by yourself crashed and you was the only survivor or something.

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LOL!

Seacat just tore him apart. Well done.

God's sake, I dont see why everyone thinks im lying. I am not

13 is way too young.

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Originally Posted by Typo

God's sake, I dont see why everyone thinks im lying. I am not

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if you wasnt lieing wouldnt you just ignore him you seem abit paranoid.

Well im certainly not lieing, Must be paranoid.

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Originally Posted by Seacat

Is every one of your posts a lie? They really annoy me sometimes. You seem to have such an eventful life I find it hard to believe that you even have time to sit on here all day and create threads asking us for advice on whether you should commit suicide to whether you should fly on a plane by yourself to what you should do after accidentily smashing someone's window. Oh, and I forgot to mention when you said your house was on the news the other week because you'd just happened to move to a part of England where there was an earthquake a few weeks before it happened..

In your other thread you said "I have a girlfriend (Finally!). We have been going out since Monday 6th May" yet in this thread on the 9th of May you say that you've being going out for "a week or 3". Simple maths tells me that you're either lying or very stupid. If you're going to lie at least don't contradict yourself. You also said in that other thread that she won't even meet you and keeps putting you off, so I don't know why she's suggesting you have sex if she won't even speak to you face-to-face.

All seems a load of crap to me. But my answer to your post; if you have to ask whether you should have sex, then no you shouldn't because you're not ready.

I look forward to your next thread, maybe the plane you flew on by yourself crashed and you was the only survivor or something.

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Owned him rofl,

REP+ For that *****,

and ye, dont have sex pls at 13, but it your choice

r u sure u no how 2 do it?

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Originally Posted by Haylz

Or say something like you 'Can't come'?

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LOL my (perhaps dirty) mind found the alternative meaning in that before realising what you meant :eusa_whis

This seems like the most sensible advice to me;

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Originally Posted by Seacat

if you have to ask whether you should have sex, then no you shouldn't because you're not ready.

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Originally Posted by Typo

God's sake, I dont see why everyone thinks im lying. I am not

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Because your posts are completely self-contradictory? ;s

In any case, if you're being serious, then in all honesty it's up to you, but don't rush into anything if you don't think you're ready.

Eughhhh...

Im 13 and have a gf, im not even considering sex or my gf.

I wouldnt.

Your rushing into things and your 13.

Love is not all about having sex. Its the fact that you are happy with your partner and want to live with him/her for your entire life. Sex should be only had when you find the time is ripe. Three weeks of dating, of course, isn't enough time. You should let your relationship slowly develop, and slowly develop trust in each other. On your sleepover, I suggest go. If she doesn't want to have sex, than ok. If she wants, explain to her that you are not ready yet, you need more time. Besides, I think that most people who lose their virginity at quite a young age usually regrets it. If she still persists, I don't think she is the right one for you. If she truly loves you, she would respect your decision. Hope everything turns out find for you.

By the way, I am also 13, hence, I see the same picture as you. :)

Your not ready to have sex, so dont do it. It's a bit idiotic and I agree with Doomsboy, Love/a Relationship is all about sex.


and btww, i love Ash (Seacat), you also got owned by him (:

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Originally Posted by Typo

I want to, but I mean, is 13 too young? And apparently condoms dont 100% work, is that true?

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lmao@u.

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Originally Posted by Seacat

Is every one of your posts a lie? They really annoy me sometimes. You seem to have such an eventful life I find it hard to believe that you even have time to sit on here all day and create threads asking us for advice on whether you should commit suicide to whether you should fly on a plane by yourself to what you should do after accidentily smashing someone's window. Oh, and I forgot to mention when you said your house was on the news the other week because you'd just happened to move to a part of England where there was an earthquake a few weeks before it happened..

In your other thread you said "I have a girlfriend (Finally!). We have been going out since Monday 6th May" yet in this thread on the 9th of May you say that you've being going out for "a week or 3". Simple maths tells me that you're either lying or very stupid. If you're going to lie at least don't contradict yourself. You also said in that other thread that she won't even meet you and keeps putting you off, so I don't know why she's suggesting you have sex if she won't even speak to you face-to-face.

All seems a load of crap to me. But my answer to your post; if you have to ask whether you should have sex, then no you shouldn't because you're not ready.

I look forward to your next thread, maybe the plane you flew on by yourself crashed and you was the only survivor or something.

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LMAO. +rep.

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Originally Posted by Typo

God's sake, I dont see why everyone thinks im lying. I am not

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it's too obvious..

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Originally Posted by Concentric2

LOL my (perhaps dirty) mind found the alternative meaning in that before realising what you meant :eusa_whis

This seems like the most sensible advice to me;

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no, i did too, lol.

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Originally Posted by Seacat

Is every one of your posts a lie? They really annoy me sometimes. You seem to have such an eventful life I find it hard to believe that you even have time to sit on here all day and create threads asking us for advice on whether you should commit suicide to whether you should fly on a plane by yourself to what you should do after accidentily smashing someone's window. Oh, and I forgot to mention when you said your house was on the news the other week because you'd just happened to move to a part of England where there was an earthquake a few weeks before it happened..

In your other thread you said "I have a girlfriend (Finally!). We have been going out since Monday 6th May" yet in this thread on the 9th of May you say that you've being going out for "a week or 3". Simple maths tells me that you're either lying or very stupid. If you're going to lie at least don't contradict yourself. You also said in that other thread that she won't even meet you and keeps putting you off, so I don't know why she's suggesting you have sex if she won't even speak to you face-to-face.

All seems a load of crap to me. But my answer to your post; if you have to ask whether you should have sex, then no you shouldn't because you're not ready.

I look forward to your next thread, maybe the plane you flew on by yourself crashed and you was the only survivor or something.

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Oh good show, I only saw this today but bravo. Truly win.

well
13 is to young for sex.
if its true you've only been going out for 3 weeks, way to soon
ummmmmmmmm say you cant go?

i hope oyu not trying to act a big man because someone asked you for sex(if this tread is true at all)

sex = not a big deal

relationships not totally based around sex is better x

dude, your 13.

well tbh at 13 i would have had sex but thats just me O_o
she's probably just flirting/messing around anyway.

m8, if ur ready, do it and yeh use a comndom, also "fun" may not be full on sex, she may just "pleasure" u

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Originally Posted by habfm.net

m8, if ur ready, do it and yeh use a comndom, also "fun" may not be full on sex, she may just "pleasure" u

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or perhaps this was a month ago and this guy got owned..

lol 13 and sex
get a grip of yourself honestly
and why post ur personal life on this :s:s
get a life and stop drawing attention to yourself.

Maybe by fun she means she'll show you where her ps2 is and woop you at fifa :O you never know :(

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Originally Posted by :Jakey

Maybe by fun she means she'll show you where her ps2 is and woop you at fifa :O you never know :(

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Yeah or they play new super mario bros on DS and then she sed wait til they are all asleep so dont emberass u so much wen she woops u kfnx

Ya probbly don't even know what a comdom is.

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Originally Posted by FishyCrackers

Ya probbly don't even know what a comdom is.

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i don't think i know what a comdom is either.

well you posted this about 2 months ago..

so babe ;)

WHAT HAPPENED?

This will be funny...

Maybe you should start your post with Once upon a time

Maybe, she not thinking of having sex, just being with you, if your not ready to have sex, just tell her your not ready, she will understand.

good luck.

LOL.
I WANNA KNOW WHAT HAPPENED!!!

His Plane Obv Crashed ;)

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Originally Posted by Tbh

His Plane Obv Crashed ;)

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we can dream.

what happened? did you get lost inside her?
*my dirty mind*

Try doing it with yourself and you will soon know what it feels like. (and btw if ya wanna know you can get aids from it)