Parents split up :(

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14-05-2007, 08:25 PM
indian8132

Parents split up :(

Hello all

Tonight, my mum and step dad have split up. They have been together for 6-7 years, and now the step dad has gone. I didnt particularly like him, but my mum is in tears. I dont know what to do to stop her crying, she wont stop. I realized when I came home from school, and I saw my step dad leave in his car with loads of bags with clothes etc. I instantly knew something was wrong, and I saw mum crying in the living room when I got in. Can I stop her crying? What can I do to make her happy? And before you say "Figure it out before asking us", I have tried everything I can think of but she keeps crying. If your parents split up, what did you do?

Its a bad time in our family now :(

Sincerely,
Typo.
14-05-2007, 08:27 PM
dirrty

just leave her alone for a while, she properly will want some time alone.
14-05-2007, 08:28 PM
velocity

get off the net.
14-05-2007, 08:28 PM
Dentafrice1

Quote:

Originally Posted by dirrty

just leave her alone for a while, she properly will want some time alone.

Do what he said.

My parents are still together so I don't know what to say, just try and comfort her, ask her if she needs anything. Tell her not to worry.

Leave her alone though also.

Cook her dinner, try to cheer her up is my guesses.
14-05-2007, 08:29 PM
indian8132

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Originally Posted by velocity

get off the net.

What do you mean? Im only asking for help, and this time I really did think on what I could do but I dont know
14-05-2007, 08:31 PM
Sly

Wow, i've just been in the same situation. My mum and step dad broke up after 10 years of being together. I just always comforted her.
14-05-2007, 08:32 PM
velocity

Quote:

Originally Posted by Typo

What do you mean? Im only asking for help, and this time I really did think on what I could do but I dont know

if my parents had split up i wouldnt ask people off the net, because they dont know anything about my family or whats gone on, your just annoying now.

slap your mum a few times around ther face & tell her to get a grip if shes been crying non stop since you've got back from school & you've done nothing to help her but sit at your computer, i think your a **** tbh /;
14-05-2007, 08:33 PM
Dentafrice1

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Originally Posted by velocity

if my parents had split up i wouldnt ask people off the net, because they dont know anything about my family or whats gone on, your just annoying now.

slap your mum a few times around ther face & tell her to get a grip if shes been crying non stop since you've got back from school & you've done nothing to help her but sit at your computer, i think your a **** tbh /;

To be honest, I think that was quite rude and idiotic.

If it was a joke, it was a terrible one. Inhumane to do that to your crying mom.

TBH, you should try to comfort her, I have seen my mom cry, and it hurts to see her cry.
14-05-2007, 08:35 PM
velocity

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Originally Posted by Dentafrice

To be honest, I think that was quite rude and idiotic.

If it was a joke, it was a terrible one. Inhumane to do that to your crying mom.

TBH, you should try to comfort her, I have seen my mom cry, and it hurts to see her cry.

if he wants serious replies, he should ask serious people.
this is the last place i'd ever ask for help as serious as this.

& have you seen his threads, im only reacting like this because i think its a load of crap, there are people that really are having to put up with this & need the help, its not a nice thing to joke about, or even to pretend have done to you..
14-05-2007, 08:44 PM
indian8132

Oh my god, I would NEVER joke about this!!! Thats just disgusting and idiotic and out of order to joke about it. I do want serious replies !!!

Ok, so I joked around with threads before, big deal, this is no joke and it sickens me if anyone would do that.
14-05-2007, 08:45 PM
velocity

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Originally Posted by Typo

Oh my god, I would NEVER joke about this!!! Thats just disgusting and idiotic and out of order to joke about it. I do want serious replies !!!

i have enough evidence against half of your threads that its all lies.
im sorry, but i dont belive you.

& you just having said that goes to show people dont belive liers, its your own fault your in this, get yourself out of it.
14-05-2007, 08:47 PM
indian8132

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Originally Posted by velocity

i have enough evidence against half of your threads that its all lies.
im sorry, but i dont belive you.

& you just having said that goes to show people dont belive liers, its your own fault your in this, get yourself out of it.

Your sick. I have joked about before, I admit it, but I would NEVER, EVER joke about something like this and I believe most of the Habbox population would agree with me on this one.
14-05-2007, 08:50 PM
velocity

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Originally Posted by Typo

Your sick. I have joked about before, I admit it, but I would NEVER, EVER joke about something like this and I believe most of the Habbox population would agree with me on this one.

i dont belive how im sick, i'll give you some serious infromation and advice if you grew up a bit and started thinking a bit for yourself.

if shes upset, talk to her about it, get her to explain how & why this happend, just because hes walked out on her dosent mean its too late to save it.
14-05-2007, 08:59 PM
alexxxxx

Real:

Too bad, just comfort her

Not Real:

Go away, you spoil this place for people like us.
14-05-2007, 09:12 PM
indian8132

Look, im sorry that I asked ok? Maybe a Mod could close thread please?

I did think for myself, and if you think im spoiling Habbox, dont click on the thread. Thank you velocity for helping, help much appericiated, +Rep.
14-05-2007, 10:50 PM
chilloutrich

hi mate, im not one to judge and i can tell from previous posts you may have some negative messages. This is a hard situation and you have turned to the net for advice, yeh thats fair play.
Get her a hot drink or run her a bath, these will just comfort her. go out of your way to please her and so she doesnt get even more upset and stressed. Think wisely when you speak and give her hugs and things. i cant think of anything else, just see what happens in the morning.
15-05-2007, 09:27 AM
Stealth$

Its normal these days, also your acting like a baby and crying over it will make your mum feel even worst so sthu.
22-05-2007, 02:02 PM
R

you have so dam much going on in your life kiddo i dont know where you get the time to post.
22-05-2007, 02:08 PM
font

Quote:

Originally Posted by velocity

if my parents had split up i wouldnt ask people off the net, because they dont know anything about my family or whats gone on, your just annoying now.

slap your mum a few times around ther face & tell her to get a grip if shes been crying non stop since you've got back from school & you've done nothing to help her but sit at your computer, i think your a **** tbh /;

How immature.

There's not much you CAN do when your parents have split up - yes mine have.

So grow up and stop moaning at people.
22-05-2007, 02:12 PM
Caution

It's normal to happen, get over it?

Mines split up 2 years ago, so don't say I don't know what it feels like or whatever.

Stop bloody asking people on the internet.
22-05-2007, 02:18 PM
Eamonn

Quote:

Originally Posted by velocity

get off the net.

Quote:

Originally Posted by velocity

if my parents had split up i wouldnt ask people off the net, because they dont know anything about my family or whats gone on, your just annoying now.

slap your mum a few times around ther face & tell her to get a grip if shes been crying non stop since you've got back from school & you've done nothing to help her but sit at your computer, i think your a **** tbh /;

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Originally Posted by velocity

if he wants serious replies, he should ask serious people.
this is the last place i'd ever ask for help as serious as this.

& have you seen his threads, im only reacting like this because i think its a load of crap, there are people that really are having to put up with this & need the help, its not a nice thing to joke about, or even to pretend have done to you..

Seriously your attempts to be 'cool' on the internet fail severely, yes severely, if he wanted such idiotic help from such idiotic people I am sure he would of said that in the thread title or even the first post dear, so get of your high horse and leave the thread because you are just making yourself look like a fool.
22-05-2007, 02:43 PM
indian8132

Thank you for the people who are helping, but the people who arent are, yes, very immature. This is an old post now and I decided what I want to do and if a Mod could close post, I would be very thankful.