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Ok this is complicated.
Me and my best mate (who a girl) are always talking etc etc, but she told me the other day hat she 'loved' me a bit. Shes going out with someone, but she thinks it not working out with him, but hes in love with ehr so much she dosnt want to break his heart. Also i want tot have a relationship with her, but as yo know shes going out so im really =s and i need soe advice onw hat to tell her and what to do my self.
+rep for all good advice.
It'll be hard to tell her it, but basically, explain that they're both teenagers and that after a while he'll get over it.
Or just tell her to be completely out of order to him and get him to dump her.
Thanks 2hd, any mroe advice will stil be apreashiated.
Tell her to follow her heart.
Give her space if she ever needs it (to think things through).
Best thing to do is to not get to involved in the relationship she has at the moment.
Let her work things out for herself, try and get her and her boyfriend to have a chat about where they think their relationship is heading.
Ok Mate,
What I would do is talk to her abit more about it! Then maybe go out for a quiet evenining or a weekend day out. Take a pizza or something make her feel like she is the best in the world. Follow you heart and dreams for only you can decide whats right. :)
Good luck!
Thanks nuxty, rep if i can,
I agree with this man. You shouldn't put pressure on her to change her current relationship, but tell her how you feel and then give her space to choose what she wants to do.Quote:
Originally Posted by wrong-name
How will that them solve it?Quote:
Originally Posted by Nuxty
Edited By Rizter (Forum Moderator): Please post in this forum constructively, or not at all. Thanks :)
you are both probably in what is known as a 'honeymoon period' you both probably just feel this way because you're so close. Therefore the feelings you have may not be real..
this will probably be more realistic towards your best friend, as she already has a boyfriend and sometimes you miss being single, she may be having troubles in her relationship aswell so you may be a way out for her sometimes. you can take her mind off of things by her focusing on these 'feelings' you has for you. but really, they dont exist.
dont meddle with her relationship, let it be. just be there for her, because if you ARE the one she wants, she will leave her current bf for you. its never a case of not wanting to break someones heart, because believe me her bf would notice if she liked someone else by the way she starts to act.
if her and her current boyfriend wernt made to be then they will break up, so just WAIT, if she is worth it, wait. because she may end up regreting everything and you dont want to be the one to be blamed.
If she doesn't like this lad, her staying with him is somewhat unfair. If he loves her so dearly, he should appreicate her happiness over his own.
let her be, if she carries on with him then leave it but if she dumps him for you then bonus...