Second date..

Yeah, so some of you probably saw my post about my first date with this girl. She texted me early to set up another date and I think I'm going round hers to watch a movie or something. But, I'm kind of worried that I won't like her and she'll come onto me or something and I won't be able to stop her without upsetting her.

I was late getting to the first date, and she told me she almost cried because I didn't turn up, she also told me that she went on a date with someone who said they didn't like her at the end, once again that made her cry. I'm scared that I'll go on this second date with her, and realise I won't like her and she'll cry which I won't be able to stand. I don't know how I feel about her, and she seems really eager because she told me she'd ask me out on the first date if it wasn't too early and she said that if we went the pictures, things could happen between us which means it might happen round her house. She also called me baby, and says "hugs and kisses" loads in her texts.

What do I do, or say to her so that she doesn't get the wrong idea? :(

Tell her you don't want to rush into anything?

She sounds mental, if she starts getting a bit full-on and possessive or whatever just leave her. Don't worry too much about how she'll be, there's no point being with the wrong person just to stop them crying.

If she's not right for you, leave her. Don't delay it any longer.

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Originally Posted by FlyingJesus

She sounds mental, if she starts getting a bit full-on and possessive or whatever just leave her. Don't worry too much about how she'll be, there's no point being with the wrong person just to stop them crying.

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Wow, thats the first non sarcastic response ive ever seen from you...

Do you know a charlie? Er he's got blonde hair, and is ghey. and has a best bud called Brian.

Lives in your area.

Ontopic, lol (: Erm, invite me round seems i live like 5 minutes away and we';ll have a gang bang. LMAO. right no i'll be friendly now.

See how it goes and if she makes amove, and you say no its her fault for moving too fast.

Thanks for the replies. I was talking to my friend about it, and she said that she probably says that was crying and what not to try and make me stay with her. But, I'm going to see how saturday goes first.

+rep :]

@matt. I don't know that Charlie, and I might as well invite you around because it's in the Nuneaton where she lives anyway :P

Hmmm. Hahah i might know her then. Ohh. sex. (:

Whats her myspace. Actually you cant give it out on here can yer? PEH.

Haha. erm, what college do u go too.? /offtopic.

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Wow, thats the first non sarcastic response ive ever seen from you...

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lurk moar

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Originally Posted by Hollywood

Hmmm. Hahah i might know her then. Ohh. sex. (:

Whats her myspace. Actually you cant give it out on here can yer? PEH.

Haha. erm, what college do u go too.? /offtopic.

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Her name is Kim, if that is any help. And, I go to North Warwickshire & Hinckley College.

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Her name is Kim, if that is any help. And, I go to North Warwickshire & Hinckley College.

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Do you know a Lora!?!?!

&& what courses?

Kim.. hmm.. i dont know many lesbian / bi girls. only a Kim H (: and as far as i know she has a boyfriend. :]

She is gonna be more hurt if she tries to get into a serious relationship than you telling her straight at the start.

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Do you know a Lora!?!?!

&& what courses?

Kim.. hmm.. i dont know many lesbian / bi girls. only a Kim H (: and as far as i know she has a boyfriend. :]

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Is this Lora pretty tall? Makeoutkid or something on myspace? Anyway, I'm doing Art & Design.

And, I'll just be honest with her I think, depending on how Saturday goes.

Yeahhh! Thats her. (:
Makeoutkid -> Lora :] & What year you in, first or second?

&& Honest is the best action tbh.

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Yeahhh! Thats her. (:
Makeoutkid -> Lora :] & What year you in, first or second?

&& Honest is the best action tbh.

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Yeah, I went to Redmoor/JCC with her :P And, my first year.

Rightt how can i do this without getting infracted..

Hmm, do you know a girl called Kim Anne H.

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Rightt how can i do this without getting infracted..

Hmm, do you know a girl called Kim Anne H.

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Nah, I don't know her, she doesn't look familar either lol. :P

A kailey? hahah give us da names u no fnx xox

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A kailey? hahah give us da names u no fnx xox

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I don't think so. I know someone called Kerry, and Jane, who has a sister or something? They are all are Tech.

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I don't think so. I know someone called Kerry, and Jane, who has a sister or something? They are all are Tech.

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Meh dunno them -gives up- :]

Sorry for bump, but this is serious now.

I was talking to her via text today, and I said was telling me that she had maths today, and for a random conversation maker, I said I liked math. She was then like "Instead of having sex, we'll do maths instead". I then got a text saying she was a sex manic. And, then started to ask me how I liked it. She then said nothing interesting will happen this week, and I said there would just to try and make it seem better, and she automatically thought it was because I was going to make a move on her because she said "A bit of kissing, and seeiing where it goes from there".

I'm actually really worried now because I'm meeting her on saturday to go to the pictures now, where she said "Things may happen", and I don't want her to start kissing me or whatever because I'm not sure how I feel about her, and I've never done anything like that before, with a girl anyway, and being attacked while I'm in the pictures isn't really what I want.

What should I tell her? Because she's convinced it going to happen :(

She seems a bit weird and obsessive to me, I'd stay away!

She's a very very sexual person. She's too forward.
If she makes a move on you, and you're not happy with it, tell her you can't. S'all you can do =[
Good Luck.

I thought that when I saw her because after an hour she told me she liked me alot and wanted to ask me out, and I even hadn't even said anything, well much anyway to make her like me in under an hour.

She's moving way to fast and being way to eager/forward for me, especially since it'll be my first time. And, since it's my friend that sets us up, I'm scared of saying something to her, and then her telling my friend or something which could ruin our friendship. I don't know whether to tell my friend about it, and then see if she can say something to her.

Thanks for your replies though :)!

I know a girl, whose rather forward. But its not cause shes sexual its cause shes lonely, so maybe this girl is lonely, hasn't had a real relationship, and doesn't know how to act? :)

Apparently, she's had three years experience. And, my friend said she just came out of a relationship which is why I was being set up with her. I'm just going to talk to my friend about it and see what she says.

Well then shes not used to being on her own, so acts as she did in her relationship.

you going Odeon?

I'll pop along and sit behind you so when she makes a move i'll jimp inbetween. :]

Omg..
She seems quite disturbing tbh.
And a little bit forward.

Dont meet her if you're not ready for anything yet.

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you going Odeon?

I'll pop along and sit behind you so when she makes a move i'll jimp inbetween. :]

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Haha, you should totally do that :P

Make Her Break Up With u? Act like ur like Mental then she wont cry ;]

Yeah thats a good idea

Say something weird that she hates, like..

I LOVE SCAT, DO U? then ask her 2 do loads of weird stuff.. or get a really ugly girl to pretend that it was ur ex

Ooh! Tell her you're into beastiality.

Then introduce her to the family dog.

LOL AT ABOVE.
that made me giggle irl lol :P

What if she turns around and goes.. I LOVE IT TOO!

1. bunny boiler (bun-ee boy-lah)

Psycho stalking ***** that wont quit even when she pretends she will.

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1. bunny boiler (bun-ee boy-lah)

Psycho stalking ***** that wont quit even when she pretends she will.

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