Just wondering...
On a skale of 1 - 10... How pervy ?
Just wondering...
On a skale of 1 - 10... How pervy ?
Its not bad at all, some of our year elevens in my year have year 9 girlfriends. This is no big deal, it may seem like it now but its not, just look at everybodies parents, not many are the same age.
2 years is perfectly normal
yeh as for the scale i would say 1, even if many people might say omgzz paedo.
5.
My mum was going out with my dad when my mum was 15 and my dad was 18...
But I guess it gets pervy-er when your younger.
If she's fit go for it but 13 year olds aren't usually developed properly so that is kinda weird that you want someone who's undeveloped.
^ lots of 13 year olds are developed.
13 is a bit young anyway like
mi last gf was 15 n i was 18 tho but that was ok
I dont find that pervy at all :S
It's ok if you are up for the relationship.
lol my mom was 17 and my dad was 20 when my mom had my oldest brother..
Theres a 7 year age gap between my mum and my step-dad. Theres nothing wrong with it, once you get older it becomes more and more normal.
Just look at Celebrity couples, the sugar daddies get the youngest most attractive super-models with a gap of even up to 50 years.
its not much really, id rate it a 1.
it's fine
my step mum is 30 and my dad is 41, lmao.
Parental age gaps are different - as I said before, at 13 she might not even be developed and almost certainly won't have finished puberty.
nope not pervy thats fine but i just think that .....
love is for losers
but that dosnt mean its not for everyone lol..x:eusa_danc
I would rate it as a 1 myself, but main main issue for it is the younger you are, the more age gap is noticable, also there are age restrictions which cause problems :S.
Depends what your planning to do, if your planning to just get her for a quick **** thats sick as ****, if you just want someone to be with hug & take to the movies etc its all good. Just dont take it to far till she makes the move.
people cant compare it to parents, maturity generaly increases with age, so older people can go out with other people with a bigger age gap and not be called sick. However some people mature quicker than others. Some 13 year olds might be realy immature however others may look and/or act older.
Theres nothing wrong with going out with someone younger or older than you as long as like someone has already said, your not just in it for secks.
Like someone explains, at different ages it doesn't matter, it's no comparison to parents.
My parents are 10 years apart (They was probs desperate LOL), and that'd be like me going out with a 3 year-old.
my parents have a 9 year age gap. So that says a lot.
It might become difficult in a years time when the 15 year old turns 16. If its a sexual relationship it may become illegal in a way.
No big problem.
hes the 13 year old.
but 1
its nothing bad
its ok?
tis fine.
Has it occured to you he's not with her for something which requires her to be developed?Quote:
Originally Posted by FlyingJesus
And 2 years is a minute gap, Atm I'm 16 and my girlfriend is 15, but at the end of this month, I'll be 17 whilst she's still 15, it's really nothing to worry about.
Well my mum 4 years younger than my dad >>..<<
At your current age there is nothing wrong with liking girls younger or older than yourself.
You may wish to consider a few things though.
People WILL call you ''pervey'' if they see you kissing a 13 year old... especially if you look alot older.
You will get to an age where it will DEFINATELY look pervey when you're dating her... though I highly doubt it will last that long.
Not illegal unless it is not concented to.Quote:
Originally Posted by Acqua
However dating someone who is under 18 and being sexually active with that person when you are a Legal adult leaves you open to attack.
If you break up with her and it's not a friendly breakup she will be quite able to claim you raped her and then take the matter to court of bleeding heart style.
On the other hand if it's a good relationship which lasts years and years and years then feel free. You never know though.
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thats ok but its wierd like,, example ..
one girl at my skool is 13 (shes developed ) and goes out with a 18 year old,
thats wierd.
I don't really think 13 and 15 is a big gap for a relationships. I've known many people in my year to go out with someone younger.
thats fine tbh
EEW! She probably has no hair on her lips yet.. if you get me??????????? THAT IS DISGUSTING YOU SICK FREAK.
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Lol thats a awsome commentQuote:
Originally Posted by ShaneIsMe
No, I know people who go out with girls two years younger.
So 0...
I don't see why people have a problem with age tbh.
I think like.. when you're at school, people look at you all wierd if yer dating someone younger than you.
But what they fail to realize, is there are plenty of people in this world who are dating others much older than themselves; eg 10 years older, maybe even 20.
So, tbh. I can't see there being a problem, although others might. But you shouldn't care what others think either. Its your decision.
not bad at all, it's only 2 years, it's not a lot.
my parents have a 10 year age gap, lol!
I wouldn't have said its too big an age gap really. I mean I kind of fancy a boy whos two years younger than me and I'm not sure about whether to say anything to him as he's also one of my best friends but I don't think the age should be too much of a problem, because if it just means you have different interests then you will just grow apart anyway and so ti won't matter, but most of the time it doesn't matter, I mean it's maturity not age that really counts anyway. lol
If I was attracted to someone who is 13 then I'd still go for it. Its not what people think about you, its how you feel about each other. Say if your friends laugh at you about it saying your a perv etc and then you break up with her, then thats not a sign of love. Thats a sign of embarrassment and doing anything to get your rep back. If you really loved her, you wouldn't give a flying duck what people say about it.
Also my mum used to go out with someone whose 15 years older than her and they're still good friends.
na d/w its not badQuote:
Originally Posted by Sly
Yuh :( my friends like that but i wish i was in his spot ;((Quote:
Originally Posted by Virtualize