Help Time [refering to a post yonks ago]

Hey

Okay,

if you have known me for like 10 months or more, you will know who Andy is, or you could simply search my old threads on HXF or this one. But to sum it up, hes a boy who ive had a crush on since my early 15's, and its still a little there.

I don't wanna have a relationship with him, but i wanna get to know him as a friend only.

But its really hard, because i only see him for one hour every week at a youth club, i mean if i say something like do you wanna come to my house one day, he might think somethings wrong?

Plus if he does come to my house, how the hell will I stop all my mates finding out, cuz if they knew, me being bi would be out to him within 1 second!

Just ask him if he wants to go out for a game of footie or something with your mates?

just talk to him and tell your friends to keep shh! if they are friends they will respect yoouuu :)

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Originally Posted by Cwmbran

Just ask him if he wants to go out for a game of footie or something with your mates?

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What is this "Footie" you speak of.. gay gays.. playing football??

And yeh do u have a wii or something invite him round to play it.

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Originally Posted by burlesque

What is this "Footie" you speak of.. gay gays.. playing football??

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Gays/Bisexuals can play football. :rolleyes:
It's just the over the top girly gays that choose not to, and it seems thats your stereotype on all gay/bisexual guys.

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Originally Posted by Cwmbran

Gays/Bisexuals can play football. :rolleyes:
It's just the over the top girly gays that choose not to, and it seems thats your stereotype on all gay/bisexual guys.

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I am gay so.. no?

i play football and im gay..

Ask him if he wants to go out somewhere tonight

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Originally Posted by burlesque

I am gay so.. no?

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oh, you must be one of them poor queen guys.

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Originally Posted by Asher

oh, you must be one of them poor queen guys.

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No Im not lol.

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Originally Posted by Sucky

just talk to him and tell your friends to keep shh! if they are friends they will respect yoouuu :)

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I agree with Sucky

Say you were going into town tonight ask him inderectly by saying God I cant believe all my mates cancelled on coming into town. and then hopefully he'll say oh Ill come if you want.

don't be embarrased about it!

Do what the first post said, ask for a game of footy.