Yeah well... my best friend ditched me because her boyfriend doesn't like her talking to me... so now we're never gonna talk again? :\
Is that normal? or is it a bit controlling -.-
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Yeah well... my best friend ditched me because her boyfriend doesn't like her talking to me... so now we're never gonna talk again? :\
Is that normal? or is it a bit controlling -.-
A bit controlling, they'll split up and u'll become friends im sure
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If she's that sort of person then you should have ditched her ages ago.
haha
thats happened to me
3 times
with the same person, every bf she has had, she ditches me then when they split up she wants me again.....
Totally controlling, when i got my bf I had a boy which was my best mate, my bf ddn like it so he wanted to ban me from seeing him. I told him i wasn't going to drop my mate for him. In the end he got used to it. So, so should ur mates bf.
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Bros before ****
roflmao.Quote:
Originally Posted by Callum.
+Repppppppppp
It's what my friends remind me when I'm going out with someone. And I remind them ^_-Quote:
Originally Posted by Krusty
My best friend's gf hates me because there's nothing she can ever beat me at and I'm more powerful than her (and have influence on her bf which she doesn't like) but he still sees me, which is just as well really. A couple of years ago I had a gf who I saw all the time and didn't see anyone else much, and when we broke up I was left with no-one for a while, so I haven't made that mistake again.
well its like this, boyfriends/girlfriends are just passing clouds, friends are the swaying trees, rooted in the ground. If you understood that, then you know what to do. :)
jeez i'd hate that.and yeah its controlling.
It happens, I'm sure that your friend will be able to tell her boyfriend (?) that she can see you, if she is a good enough friend.
LOL +rep from me also. It's just so true.Quote:
Originally Posted by Callum.
Wow shes not a good friend then?
Lmao sounds right.
First of all, she's been with her boyfriend nearly a year and didn't want to jeopardize that, it's a serious relationship, not some stupid two week thing.
You know about his depression and how his tablets make him paranoid.
She'd known you a few weeks Matt, and I know she thought a lot of you, you know that you know far more about her situation than anyone else and that without him she wouldn't really have anything.
And he's not controlling at all as far as I can see, he's just worried about losing her as she's all he has.
I think the way you've portrayed the situation in this thread is COMPLETELY wrong.
Apologies, I was upset about it all at the time of posting, so you're probably right about how it was portrayed, but even know I don't feel I could have explained it any better. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by jade.
exact same situation i'm in
one of my best mates new boyfriends bebo mailed me saying if i carry on hanging round with his girlfriend he will break my legs
ahahahaha, but to be honest he probably would.. he's like a black belt in karate. odea.
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Originally Posted by Elfoze
You know she didn't want that to happen, and it's a complicated situation.
But I don't think she wants to risk her relationship for something she's uncertain about.
But I miss her is all :( gah I seriously loved her Jade, and haven't stopped thinking about her since >.<Quote:
Originally Posted by jade.
What on earth should I do
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Originally Posted by Elfoze
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She's sorry, you know that.
She loved you to bits and you made her really happy, lol she told me she misses hearing you say sandwiches (:
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why are we quoting eachother if we're the only ones talking
& I will.
Farmer boy.
(:
COS SOMEONE WILL COME ALONG AND RUINZ IT
things just aren't them same without her, she's a very special girl "/
): you know she's sorry.
she does miss you you know, she's always going on about it.
anyway i better go, i'll talk to you some other timee. x
I was gunna say...
'Bros Before ****' But this is a whole different scenario
Iunno what you could do so sorry
mates before dates defo
Bros before ****.
Her Boyfriend sound really controlling :S
he isn't really controlling, i know him.
and to all the people saying 'bro's before ****' how about reading my first post :/
1 phrase.
bros before ****.
If your so called freind is willing to break your freindship over a boy then she is clearly not a true freind. It's done you a favor.
Personally if shes your best friend, she should dump him or tell him to **** off :)
Friends are around longer than your girlfriends/boyfriends :) (applies to everyone)
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Originally Posted by Leuven
she's been with her boyfriend nearly a year, it's a serious relationship. They spend every day together and do everything together really.
she'd known matt two weeks max,
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Originally Posted by jade.
Best two weeks of my life (:
I find it out of order. One of my best mates does it all the time, he does it to everyone, even his real best mate.
Since we're only 14, I find it silly that he's running around, obsessing over her day after day.
I don't see why he can't just treat his girlfriend the same as all of his mates, is there really any harm? Because at the moment all of his friends are suffering because he's ditching us for her.
That's my opinion on teenage couples btw lol xD ^^
That's so dumb. And it annoys me when they don't speak up. Omg! Are they afraid of losing them? If you do, WHO CARES! If he's controlling, why would you want to be with him?
My friend is going through the same thing, sort of. Except she has some guy friends who are strictly that. One of them is VERY funny and she was telling her boyfriend about a joke and he said, it seems like you're flirting and she said no and he's like I don't want you talking to them. I told her he's wayyyyy to controlling. She said she knows but she doesn't want to lose him. I said WHO CARES! If he 's so controlling, why would you want to date someone like that? The things he says and does sounds like someone who's VERY jealous and controlling. She knows that and hates that about him but still doesn't want to lose him. If I was in that situation, I'd say ASTA LA VISTA! I love you, but I gotta leave you baby.
dun b jealous that they gettin sum
Chicks befor *****
BRO BEFORE *Text Removed*
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so obviously no one can READ. :l
even though the thread starter is agreeing with me :/