Annoying dude -_-

Ok basicly theres this dude who was my friend at school we both went our seperate ways when we went to college. I only really kept contact with him because my mum is friends with his and we saw each other at BBQ's and stuff when my parents invited them round. So meh basicly recently he got chucked out of college and he's refusing to get a job so all he does all day is play his Xbox 360. My mum went over to their house for a coffee with his mum and his mum told her she was concerned he wasn't getting out of the house enough.

Feeling sorry for him I rang him up and asked him if he wanted to do something as I have no lessons on Wednesdays so meh we went to the Cinema to see AvP 2 everything was good I felt good for doing a good deed. I kind of regret doing that now because he keeps ringing me every wednesday asking me if I want to do something and he tells his mum if I say I'm busy and acts like I've betrayed him :rolleyes: This has been going on for like three weeks now and it's annoying me. Today I ignored the phone all day because I knew it was him and I had a ton of work to do everything was cool then I go and pick my brother up from school and his mum is there she comes over and is like 'BOB HAS BEEN TRYING TO GET HOLD OF YOU ALL DAY BLEERRRRG' and I was like 'Oh sorry I've been out all day' and she was like 'WELL I'LL TELL HIM HE CAN RING YOU NOW BLERRRG' I was like crap...

Anyway my dad answered the phone when he rang and lied for me telling him I was out so I was like *phew* I hate being mean but he just doesn't seem to get wednesday is my only day off because I work on the weekends and I use it to kind of chill out and sometimes have to use it to do assignment work. He also doesn't understand I have other friends and I like to hang out with them to... I mean I hadn't heard from him (apart from when our families has BBQ's like I said before) for like a year and all of a sudden he's obsessed with ringing me all the time =l I don't know what to do I want to tell him 'I don't mind doing stuff with you occasionally but not every wednesday' without sounding rude or mean =[

Say what you said in the last sentence to him. I'm sure he'll understand. Maybe it's just that he's not used to having a friend who isn't on xbox live, and wants to be your buddy. Maybe recommend him to a few of your mates, so when you're busy he can call up your mates and they can go out, so you both win?

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Originally Posted by patrick.

Say what you said in the last sentence to him. I'm sure he'll understand. Maybe it's just that he's not used to having a friend who isn't on xbox live, and wants to be your buddy. Maybe recommend him to a few of your mates, so when you're busy he can call up your mates and they can go out, so you both win?

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I guess I could do that the only trouble is he doesn't drive and all my friends live ages away from the area he lives in =] and trust me he's a very sensitive dude one time in secondary school Year 11 he like burst into tears when I told him I wanted to sit next to somebody else in maths thats why I'm scared to say anything because I don't want to upset him and his mum coming around having a go :rolleyes: Thanks for you're advice though I'll rep you tommorow as I've reached my limit today :)

I can understand why you'd find him annoying but maybe you should just tell him that you want to have some wednesdays to yourself for whatever, it sounds to me like he has some sort of issue, as if you're the only person that likes him and he's probably (way too) scared that you don't want to hang around with him or something xD

Say you'll go out once every two weeks, or something.

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Originally Posted by Neil

I can understand why you'd find him annoying but maybe you should just tell him that you want to have some wednesdays to yourself for whatever, it sounds to me like he has some sort of issue, as if you're the only person that likes him and he's probably (way too) scared that you don't want to hang around with him or something xD

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Lol actually I regret saying he's annoying because he's actually a nice guy the thing that is annoying is how I have to ignore the phone and try and avoid his mum in the street =l

Just say you've got work to do :S If he has a hissy fit, then tough.

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Originally Posted by Hitman

Say you'll go out once every two weeks, or something.

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Pre-planning like that wouldn't be a good idea because he might expect to go out one week Dan is doing an assignment or something so if you just call him like on tuesdays when you're free you can arrange to go out on the wednesdays you can be bothered to go out so he wont feel like you're just ignoring him

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Originally Posted by GommeInc

Just say you've got work to do :S If he has a hissy fit, then tough.

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Lol if it was as simple as that I wouldn't need to post it here :P He doesn't just have a hissy fit he tells his mum who gives my mum a hard time and it just turns into a huge thing so ignoring the phone is easier but I then have to avoid his mum =l

just tell him you use your day off too chill?

idk.. its a difficult situation

Just tell him that you cant go out that day because your busy? :S Thats not being mean and i think he'd understand.

Tell him you're gay

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Originally Posted by Dan2nd

Lol if it was as simple as that I wouldn't need to post it here :P He doesn't just have a hissy fit he tells his mum who gives my mum a hard time and it just turns into a huge thing so ignoring the phone is easier but I then have to avoid his mum =l

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Then tell your mum you're busy, so that she can then tell the boy's mum. Besides, that sort of behaviour from the boy and his mum would put anyone off.

Take toms advice.

lost puppy syndrome. I hate people that follow me around. Tell him to **** off!!!