WHAT DO I DO? :(

OK.
There's this girl I really like, and we're good friends, but I'm not sure what to do.

We have a bit in common, but I don't know if she likes me back.

I'm finding out what she thinks about me by the means of her friends, but she doesn't seem to be coming on messenger.

I think if she says no she won't be funny about it and we could just carry on the way we were, but I'm not sure.

Also, I've never had a gf before :$ so I don't know ANYTHING. I don't think she's ever had a bf before, so I think we're even :s.

Any help appreciated.

Play it cool, tell her how you feel and use protection.

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Originally Posted by Criminal

Play it cool, tell her how you feel and use protection.

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It's not time for protection yet :O!

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Play it cool, tell her how you feel and use protection.

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Hm relationships are not just for sex you know. Thats also taking things a bit too soon.

Talk with her see what she fells for you. Then take things from there.
Im sure everything will be fine for you.
Good Luck!

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Originally Posted by PriceTags

It's not time for protection yet :O!

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Its always time for protection.

Listen just ask her. If you like her then say to her i like you, do you like me? And if she says no say okay then just talk to her normally to show there is no tension between you two. And if she says yes, say, enough to get with me? And go on from there.

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Originally Posted by Emirates

Its always time for protection.

Listen just ask her. If you like her then say to her i like you, do you like me? And if she says no say okay then just talk to her normally to show there is no tension between you two. And if she says yes, say, enough to get with me? And go on from there.

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OK. Taaa! :S

Do you not understand it?

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Originally Posted by Emirates

Do you not understand it?

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I'm getting you. I'm just thinking of how I can drop it into our normal conversation about Ikea, Spanish and general moaning in form. I'm v. shy :D.

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Originally Posted by Criminal

Play it cool, tell her how you feel and use protection.

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I doubt he'll jump straight into bed if he's never had a girlfiend before. He may have never even kissed a girl yet.

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Originally Posted by Milennia

I doubt he'll jump straight into bed if he's never had a girlfiend before. He may have never even kissed a girl yet.

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It's all true.
I'm proud of being a superduper virgin :D!

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Originally Posted by PriceTags

It's all true.
I'm proud of being a superduper virgin :D!

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So you should be, no need to go jumping into bed with every girl you see. (STD here you come)

But yea, next time you see her pluck up the courage to ask her. Tell her you don't want to ruin your friendship but latley you feel lie their is something between you and what does she feel?

No need to be shy, she wont have 'cooties', just go for it:D

Make sure you let us know how it went.;)

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Originally Posted by PriceTags

It's all true.
I'm proud of being a superduper virgin :D!

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So you should be :). If I could go back and change it then I would. I wish I'd done it with someone I actually liked :(. Just don't make the same mistake I made.

Yes, there is too much teenage pregnancy.
Don't add somebody else to the list, lol.

if u like a girl dont show that u like them just make em laugh and listen to what they have to say. they digg it.

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Originally Posted by GhostFace-

if u like a girl dont show that u like them just make em laugh and listen to what they have to say. they digg it.

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Yes, but at some point you have to let them know you like them, otherwise they may just think you are a 'great friend' and he doesn't want that!

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Originally Posted by PriceTags

I'm getting you. I'm just thinking of how I can drop it into our normal conversation about Ikea, Spanish and general moaning in form. I'm v. shy :D.

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Say to her, i have something to tell you. If your shy, write it on a note and pass it too her.

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Originally Posted by Muniflex

So you should be, no need to go jumping into bed with every girl you see. (STD here you come)

But yea, next time you see her pluck up the courage to ask her. Tell her you don't want to ruin your friendship but latley you feel lie their is something between you and what does she feel?

No need to be shy, she wont have 'cooties', just go for it:D

Make sure you let us know how it went.;)

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Dont say i dont want to ruin the friendship cos she will feel pressured into saying yes rather than her feelings because she doesnt want to ruin it.

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Originally Posted by GhostFace-

if u like a girl dont show that u like them just make em laugh and listen to what they have to say. they digg it.

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No, i wouldnt do that as yes they like it but she may think oh all he wants is a friendship. Just ask her or youll regret it

Ok say it more like.... I don't want it to affect our relationship, sounds better.


Plus you speak spanish? Tell her in spanish, la lengua de amor...


EDIT: Emirates, i just read the post in ure sig and well done, someone needed to say something to him.