Serious confusion

Right, not all of yu but alot of you have mums who probably do most things for u basic things, your dinner, clean your room all those kind of things. well i ask my mum to do most of the basic things what is completely normal for a mum in my eyes, and my dad acts like a freak about it. How it started was basicially, i said why did u say to grandma today that i sit on my **** all day when i do a paper round 5 days a week to earn money because i know u cant give me. and he goes so what if u do a paper round? u dont do anything for us (as in him and my mum) and i do make a cup of tea clean their cars and make them toast sometimes, but he expects me to keep my mouth shut and do everything my self, which isnt what im meant to do as a teenager!!! He says your sisters did alot more at ur age, and excuse me no they didnt they asked for money and went out and everything, i dont ask for more than 2 pounds!! so i tell him that and then later on i hear him saying to my mum something like i dont care if u earns money he has clothes a computer and loads of accersories and a nice TV, well excuse me i payed for all of that!!!! and my mum is like he is a good boy really tho and my dad is like well ur letting him walk all over u and im not going to. and im like wth? were has this even came from hes all of a sudden been nice to me for ages and suddenly he acts like a complete *****. its so weird and im so confused. anybody got any sujestions other than have a nice chat with him, coz u cant coz he goes while eating something bugger of ur giving me indijestion. i know lol. how stubern.

you dad is going through manopause.

soz but whats the problem?

u do no work in the house really, and u dad has caught on but you think that its all ur mums job to do all the work and as a teenager its not your responsibility to do anything?
:S

NO! I do do work around the house, i empty the dishwasher often, i bring the washing down i make my own dinner alot, i clean around sometimes i do everything up to which my mum says is fine and my dad still has a problem i didnt say i shouldnt do anything.

just tell ur dad that ur mum doesnt have a problem with wot u do, so he shouldnt either. if he doesnt listen, then you cant do much as you cant really change his opinion or convince him to if he doesnt wanna.

my dad used to be like that. i just ignored him and did whatever, mum was happy with that. she'd hated being in the marriage anyway xD

i barely did any jobs around the house. actually, none. 'cept empty the dishwasher like once a week (or less)

Could learn to spell first mate.

yes, because that will solve his problems, moron.

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Originally Posted by Ivake

Could learn to spell first mate.

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Originally Posted by benn!

yes, because that will solve his problems, moron.

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Yes it well, if he can put as much effort into learning how to spell
his dad will soon be all over him saying "wonderful!"


Or, another reason why your dad is like this to you, is:
You have no life, no friends, you do not do a paper round, you just
eat the papers and say you deliverred them, and you have to roll to your
bed.

If your muscular and tall smack him around a bit show him whos who in the house :P

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Originally Posted by Ivake

Yes it well, if he can put as much effort into learning how to spell
his dad will soon be all over him saying "wonderful!"


Or, another reason why your dad is like this to you, is:
You have no life, no friends, you do not do a paper round, you just
eat the papers and say you deliverred them, and you have to roll to your
bed.

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Yes it will*
delivered*
If you're gunna rag on somebody for their spelling.. make sure that you use a spell-checker first.

Also, you've got no right commenting on his life except for what he's told you. From what I read, it's the complete opposite of what you just said.

"You just eat the papers and say you delivered them"
HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHA
GOD, YOU'RE SUCH A COMEDIC GENIUS!

WHOA, WHOA, WHOA, WHOA, WHOA! Omg. The anger built up in me as I read this.

There is no such thing as a 'mother's job'. Anything is anybody's job. You're supposed to clean your room, do chores around the house, etc. It's what a teenager should do to teach responsibility. Do you expect your mom to do everything around the house and all you do is 'make them tea and bread "sometimes"'. No, no, no, no, no. That's not how it works, buddy. You could at least help out, the right thing to do. Yes, you do a paper round, but you still have to help out around the house. A mother isn't supposed to slave around cleaning their children's rooms, etc. Naww.. Nope. Nada. Yes, they can do a few things here and there, but you should help out.

Your dad probably just feels that your mom does way too much and you do way too little and you just need to help out a lot more.

My fingers are hurting, I'm done. My rant is over.

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Originally Posted by Bouncing

NO! I do do work around the house, i empty the dishwasher often, i bring the washing down i make my own dinner alot, i clean around sometimes i do everything up to which my mum says is fine and my dad still has a problem i didnt say i shouldnt do anything.

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I have the exact same problem :)
I tell him to shut the F**k up, and then its all sorted =]
I got a job now, i make my own dinners too and i help a bit around the house and i still get called lazy just try to ignore it, more you think about it the more it will get on your nerves.
;)

How is cleaning your room a 'mothers job'..
Do it yourself you lazy sod.

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Originally Posted by LiquidAciid

Yes it will*
delivered*
If you're gunna rag on somebody for their spelling.. make sure that you use a spell-checker first.

Also, you've got no right commenting on his life except for what he's told you. From what I read, it's the complete opposite of what you just said.

"You just eat the papers and say you delivered them"
HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHA
GOD, YOU'RE SUCH A COMEDIC GENIUS!

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Oh, my bad. a few miss types. Not full:

yes but it goez lyk dis i am a fat nub who getz my mumz to doz everyting for mez cuz i am so fat


Ok? Now shut the hell up Liquid.

problem: ****** of a dad
solution: jeremy kyle show

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Originally Posted by Ivake

Could learn to spell first mate.

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and that would help how? maybe he's dyslexic? maybe he just isn't a strong writer? if you've got nothing to add to the thread, leave.

Well I would suggest talking to your Dad and telling him to shut up and listen, then when you're done let him have his say.

I often ask my mum if she wants help but she always says I'll do it wrong and prefer just to do it herself as it'll be quicker that way :P

Some people really need to have more respect for their parents.

I don't think you can do anything, If he is like my dad who comes home from work when I am not doing anything around the house then he won't see you help your mum and thinks that you don't help at all. I get no pocket money and buy everything I want myself but the evenings I do nothing for myself really so My dad thinks I don't help my mum when I actually help her when she wants me to all day :)

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Originally Posted by Ivake

Oh, my bad. a few miss types. Not full:

yes but it goez lyk dis i am a fat nub who getz my mumz to doz everyting for mez cuz i am so fat


Ok? Now shut the hell up Liquid.

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Okay what? You just made yourself look like a complete jackass.

Hey, whatever floats your boat. ;)

dittooo
my dads like that

im not supposed to do everything around the house!
id just avoid him and dont speak to him unless you have to, works for me.