Girl Help..

Well this what pretty much happened.

We started as friends and within a few months I got very very close to her and we start speaking on msn, texting each other, on the phone and pretty much every day @ skwl. around 3/4 months later I realised that i really loved her soo much. The next week she rang me saying she wanted 2 tell me something but was scared of breaking our friendship

So i assumed it meant she loved me too right? So yeh she told me she loved me and I told her i loved her.. simple? maybe not

We got together and well for around 3/4 months we were together on n off untill 1 day came to me and said "Ive bin hearing things about you and other girl is this true?" I know who she was talking about and there was NOTHING going on between us we were jus friends. So i told my gf that yeh were just friends....

After that the arguements started pretty much everyday until I started to avoid her just so that we wouldnt have arguements but one day she told me 2 make a decision whether I should let her go and just be friends or we could try again

Being as stupid as I was I said just be friends. Its not been 3 months since we broke up and I still love her and I know she still loves me because on Monday she wanted to spend time with me @ dinner so yeh we walked around, I held her hand and then we sat on tha grass where we talked n stuff, tis ws like we were back together just we wernt. Yeh I kissed her and well I miss all of it and I really want her back :(

So If your still here reading this massive essay I just wanna ask
What can I do to hint out I really want to get back with her?


Thanks in advance :)

Ok, You helped me, So think I owe it you. And thanks for ur help btw.

1. If she was holding your hands, She was hinting for you to ask her out.

This is just like me. I asked her out, And she quite planely said yes. Just walk up to her, Get a chat about tv or something she likes going with her, And then Just say 'Can I ask you something' and if she says ye, Just go, Weve been freinds a while, And im willing to try and give it another shot. So, Will you go out with me?'

90% chance she will say yes.
If she says no, Just say,'Oh, Ok' then carry on as normal.Im sure she will say yes.

Good luck ;)

Also, MY idiot of a mate told her Im cheating on her, When im not.

If that ever comes like she hit that one on you, Just say, (Exactly what I said) - No, I love you to much to cheat on you. Then kiss her.

I get confused at the part you say that you where together on and off for 3 months or something. So did you split up a few times?

And the best possible thing to do, just tell her how you feel :)

But face to face.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by yoshimitsui

I get confused at the part you say that you where together on and off for 3 months or something. So did you split up a few times?

And the best possible thing to do, just tell her how you feel :)

But face to face.

---

on and off = sometimes together and sometimes apart. So they did break up once or twice or so.


and do what yoshi says. You dont need to sissy around, just tell her how you feel straight up.

If she's wanting to spend 1-1 on time with you, holding your hands etc, the feelings are obviously the same, probably waiting for you to tell her so she can say I feel the same or something. She obviously still has feelings for you.

Good luck ;p

Thanks for all the help :)

Flirt with her a bit and say to her "I want to tell you something". When she asks what? Then tell her that you love her. Theres a bit of humour in asking that as its the exact same thing she said to you, if she notices.

Hopefully she will tell you the same thing.

Do A Like Big Romantic Guesture, How cute would that be.
She would totally forgive you and be like aww at you aswell.
[:

Yh romance is mint :] loads of girls like that

You could also tell her that you made a mistake and you want to try again?

Or,if your not that good at talking, buy her some chocolates and write a note?

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by yoshimitsui

I get confused at the part you say that you where together on and off for 3 months or something. So did you split up a few times?

And the best possible thing to do, just tell her how you feel :)

But face to face.

---

Agreed

Do the good old "anonymous gift".
Send her some chocolates, flowers, etc. Something she likes, put in a note, grab a poem off the net that resembles how you feel, or write one yourself. If she talks about it, go in for the kill. And when you two are alone, read the poem you put on the note to her.

Good luck. (:

I think you need to tell her how you feel. She might not realise that you love her still so she won't make a move until you do... and you're fretting about it!

I think you should do them both tbh. A gift (like Leah and Acqua said) and talk to her (like yoshi said). You can use the gift as a backup if it doesn't go according to plan! :P

It's hard,

obv being a girl, ive had the same position, uno... being told that u was being cheated on, and all that, your gf was probs jealous or summin :S.

nyways, there is no easy way to tell her u love her, and want to be together, if u is close mates then, it will be hard to get back to where u were is she still is in a bit of doubt.

u need to sit done and talk to her, and tell her, everything was made up, and shes the only1 for u, comfort her, tell her there is no1 in the world you would rather spend your time with :p

then take it easy, dont rush into something just yet, its not worth getting into it and then find out you get the same trouble ;[ it will just hurt even more...

i probs went on a bit, and non of this helped, but yee ;)

hope u can use atleast a lil bit of this xx


Katee <3xx