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Ok yesterday I got over angry.
And I ignored my mum, and just avoided talknig to her.
Today, I felt I had to :S
So I also havent spoke a full sentance to her.
I dont want it to be like this tomorrow but how can i talk to her proply?
I dont want to apologise, and look like a sissy.
Be a big man and apologise. It takes more guts to do that than to carry on ignoring her.Quote:
Originally Posted by Redacted
You wont look like a sissy, you mum will see something more valuable, you admitting that you're wrong and willing to put your love above your 'self image.'
that isn't ******* problems with your mum
grow up and fix it before it's too late.
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Agreed. I don't why you think that apologising would make you a sissy? :SQuote:
Originally Posted by .Sarcastix.
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txt her!!1
Haha I do that a lot of the time when I've really pissed her off although she tends not to reply! :rolleyes::(Quote:
Originally Posted by Metric1
Jack you dont want to mess your life up.
Hug her and tell her your sorry.
When was the last time you told her you loved her?
I suppose that's not reallllyy on topic, but it applies to everyone.
Do you say it enough?
Do you hug and kiss her each night and say 'good night'?
Little things like this can really improve your relationship with your mum.
I don't really reccommend trying the hug and kiss thing on your dad, though, as that's not usually as successful, and may result in you taking a trip to A&E.
But seriously, nobody will understand you like your mum. I think your relationship with your mum is more important than any other person in the world. She'll always be there; even if you do annoy her, ignore her, play your music too loud, leave lights on, come home late- she still loves you.
Let your mum know you love her.
Your mum will never think you're a sissy, she'll just know you care.
Please, everyone take note, you only get one mum.
(With the exception of lesbian marriage, but we'll need a whole new thread for that!)
I'll tell you, you'll regret not giving her daily hugs when she's gone.
It really hit home with me when my mum was being tested for cancer.
Fortunately, she's clear - but that doesn't stop me showing her i love her.
;].
Jay x
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Hug her [:
Seriously, your mum's the last person who's going to think you're a sissy. The only thing to do is apologise for loosing your temper because, hun, you're in the wrong.
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When me and my mum fall out I always apologise even if I think she's in the wrong because I hate to see her unhappy =]
When i fall out with my mum, i ignore her for a bit, then when i go downstairs next time its normally alright without having to say anything. if not i just ignore her more and grunt at her ;]Quote:
Originally Posted by Redacted
but when i was alot littler i used to write letters and make it look like they were put through letterbox lolol
I agree. Just suck it up and apologize. It's your mom.
Decide who is in the wrong here.
You aint a sissy if you apologize. It takes a big person to admit they are wrong, and to fix things.
Of all of the times ive been angry with parents, i cant ignore them and stay mad. All of the things we've done in the past, bad and wong, our parents have stuck by us, not just ignored us. So i think treating them the same is the most decent thing.
Tell your mum how you feel. If shes a good parent she will understand me and my mum can't stand to be upset with each other and eventually it's me or her saying sorry. Look at it this way who upset who the most? If you started off the argument it should be you who appoligises. If she did just forget it let her say shes sorry.
Hope that helps x
Exactly. Even if you don't say anything to her for a couple more days, eventually you'll end up talking as if nothing's happened. So realistically, if she's the one that's in the wrong, she'll apologise to you soon enough. But if you're in the wrong, then you're a sissy for NOT apologising. Harsh truth.Quote:
Originally Posted by Acqua
why would it make you look like a sissy its your mother she doesnt look for tough people, Shes your MUM not your girlfriend