total confussion

basicially, last week i went to my mates and we invited 2 girls and they were reallly nice lie friendy then in school thenext day she says why dont u nd two of my other mates come round on saturday,so we say yeh. then the day after that she suddenly says yeh so u coming on sat to mine to my mate but DONT let ant (me) come! So im like ***? why we are good friends? where has this come from so she was like just dont come, dont come in my drive. so im like ***? really confused. didnt take it to heart. then next leson i say why were u fine with me last weekend nd nowur not?! and she said coz i dont like u in shool, and i said ur obvs two faced then! so he goes dont talk to me or cme in my drive. me and my mates were really confused coz i did nothing wrong AT SO EVER.then like on her myspace status it says urrg i hate my sworn enemy he can go to hell. so my mate rings me on that saturday and says just come down she will let u in, and she screams NO DONT I HATEHIM I WANT TO KILLHIM URRG I HATE HIM. nd by now my feelings are hurt coz ive done nothing wrong at all. then my mate gets round to her and she says u can come in but dont talk to me. so i cme inand shes rly pssed of. and its rly awquard. so then she goes in her room alone allupset and my mate goes with her and is like whats wrong and she goes i just rlydont want himhere i hatehim. n then i see her little sister go to her dad omg why is ant here omg why? and im like ***...shes talked to her family?! thn we just go and i try to txther but she ignores them. allof them. and still saysto my mates i hate him. now gettin to the full point, ive done nothing wrong at all! we got on rlllly well before she started the hatred for me and ive said nothing bad about her at all!!!!!!!!!so im so confused she hates me with passion for no reason - not normal? any sujestions

Are you embarrassing to have around or something? Usually there's a reason why people are excluded. They're generally boring or don't participate in conversations or anything

not at all! shes never ever been like thisbefore before this we were rlllly good friends. anyway ifthat was the case she wudnt hate me that much!

Um have you said something about her? I guess either you've talked badly about her behind her back and it's got to her, or someone's spreading stuff about you.

no i havnt, and im not sure aboutthat coz he hasnt said if so what has been said!

It just seems odd that you get turned against all of a sudden and especially with the family involved.

She's an attention seeker. She likes drama. Just get on with life and everyone else will figure it out and turn against her too.
Either that or someone's lieing about you, or you've done something you think is alright be she doesn't.

Tell me about it! Im extremely confused.

Well, there are two things I can see I think. One is that someone's lied and said that you said something about her. Another is that she's discovering she likes you more than just a friend. I know it sounds weird now but she'd be going through these weird feelings and judgements in her head which are causing her to act irrationally.

I doubt that she fncies me. shes incredibly flirty to ppl when she likes them

tell your mate to tlk to her..

Or when you find a chance to speak to her alone you ask her what has made her so upset and that your upset because you don't know why. So she should tell you.

lololol some girls huh? :']

shame your a boy, you could have whacked her by now :P

Well i did have suspecians bout her having a crush on you.. and maybe shes embarrissed about it, or doesnt want to have a crush on you so shes tying to kid herself that she hates you instead?

I like the idea of talking to her, if you get friends too involved, then things can go from bad to worse really. if she has a problem with you then she can tell you herself without making a big attention seeking drama out of it.

Girls, girls, girls.

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I'm in like the same situation. My 'friend' doesn't like me and just pushes me around, but he's a guy and I'm not gonna do anything back so I'm just like whatever. I never did anything to him. Nothing. One day we were good, the next day, he hates me. I ask him why, he says I just do, no reason whatsoever. He doesn't have one. Then he says it's cause I'm short :P which is obv wrong. I don't know what it is or what to do.

Just try ignoring her, if it's just the fact she wants attension she myt soon sort herself out if she notices she ain't bothering you.

Or she fancies you and she's one of those girl that get weird? ?

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Well, um.. err.. talk to her.

this girl seems a tad strange. LOL
you should deffo ask her what you have done and tell her if she doesn't like you in school then she needs to grow up.

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damn that was a quick edit

she obviously likes you.
she "hates" you for no reason what so ever?
and i know youll say "shes really flirty with people she likes"
Maybe she actually wants you as her first love or something and dont know how to show it
See how it goes and forget about it.
Your mate should stick by you through anything anyway

Firstly try typing properly so it doesn't take me 10 minutes to read the damn thing.

I guess she's just being stupid and attention seeking or you might have said/done something which doesn't seem a big deal to you but does to her.

She doesn't seem to be worth the hassle. It looks like you have other friends so just stick with them.