Please give me advice on this girl

i REALLY like her but i REALLY havent got the balls to say anything.

what should i say to her? give me a few things to say?

were really good friends and i really dont want to ruin our friendship but id like it to be more than a friendship.

maybe:

Sup mo'fo watcha doing tonite bcuz I wanna get with u if u catch mi drift?!?


or just ask if she wants to go out somewhere on the weekend (not the cinema - it'll be 2 hours of staring at a screen... *woo*) perhaps go shopping together then go to a restaurant for dinner.

she doesnt live where i live though. i live in tring and she lives in cow roast (and thats by aylesbury and thats like 7 miles down the road. the only time i can see her is at school)

and this is really winding me up because this is the first time i REALLY cant tell a girl how much i like her

Yeah those place names mean nothing to me :D

You could jsut ask her at school if she wants to go at the weekend, and you could meet somewhere at xx:xx o'clock.

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Originally Posted by Jamaica

she doesnt live where i live though. i live in tring and she lives in cow roast (and thats by aylesbury and thats like 7 miles down the road. the only time i can see her is at school)

and this is really winding me up because this is the first time i REALLY cant tell a girl how much i like her

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well you should. tring is the best town in the world.

and yeh, ill try and get her to come out when shes at her friends house

like say me and my friend want you to come out

then when were out well dump the other two and go somewhere ;D

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Originally Posted by Mr.Sam

(not the cinema - it'll be 2 hours of staring at a screen... *woo*)

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Whatttt?!?!
First time I went to the cinema on a date, there was not much staring at the screen...

Tbh theres nothing you really can do except maybe hint you like her, then eventually just tell her, and ask her if she feels the same.
Thats what I did anyway, I kinda started to like my best friend, told her, and she said she felt the same.

So yeah. Don't live thinking: what if?

"Hiya I'm Darriszaza"

And just tell her how you feel, she might feel the same way :P

What about asking if you could be more than just friends but also saying that it's fine if she doesn't feel that way as you value her friendship more. Try to do it in a lowkey way so she doesn't get embaressed and give her plenty of room to give her reasons if the answer is no. :)

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Originally Posted by Jamaica

well you should. tring is the best town in the world.

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I thought newcastle was :P haha

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Originally Posted by CamyRFC

First time I went to the cinema on a date, there was not much staring at the screen...

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LOL nice for you

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Originally Posted by Catzsy

What about asking if you could be more than just friends but also saying that it's fine if she doesn't feel that way as you value her friendship more. Try to do it in a lowkey way so she doesn't get embaressed and give her plenty of room to give her reasons if the answer is no. :)

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Yeah I agree :) Don't ever pressurize a girl, if its from deciding to date you to choosing a new pair of shoes. Consequence can be fatal :P

Try asking her one-on-one too? Might be less embarrissing for both of you :)

Just remember this:

What is the worst that can happen?

She says no! That's all.

Think of it this way, you only live once.
So I suppose what's the point wasting it on thinking on what could of happened.
Be prepared, there's all the chance she will say no.
Tbh, some of my close lad mates have asked me out.. I've said yes to some no to others.. but I've never felt awquard around them.
After a while if it doesnt work out how you wanted she will forget about it.
But it's worth the try, don't pressurise her, just be honest and yourself.
Maybe even asking her by email would prevent those awquard silences?

Go for it ;)

i cant even remember the girl i fancied. i guess im well over her LOL

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Originally Posted by BaybeeElin

Think of it this way, you only live once.
So I suppose what's the point wasting it on thinking on what could of happened.
Be prepared, there's all the chance she will say no.
Tbh, some of my close lad mates have asked me out.. I've said yes to some no to others.. but I've never felt awquard around them.
After a while if it doesnt work out how you wanted she will forget about it.
But it's worth the try, don't pressurise her, just be honest and yourself.
Maybe even asking her by email would prevent those awquard silences?

Go for it ;)

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Prove it ;)

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Originally Posted by Ed

Prove it ;)

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Haha, wish I could ;)

let it die people. the thread is OLD.

Then you are buggered?

god, why wont people just leave the thread?

thread closed.