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Hey
I've been with my girlfriend for 8 weeks now, everything seemed to be going great, and we were having fun, then she told me she was in love with me. I thought about it for days, I didnt really think I was in love with her, because shes my first real girl friend, and was my best friend before we started going out. I realised I was in love with her, and told her, and she was ecstatic.
We then planned to yano...;)
But recently we've been arguing alot, and last night I said something I regret and she was reli hurt.
I've said sorry so many times, but she cancelled us meeting up today. She said it would help, us not seeing each other because she thinks we'll just argue. So we didnt see each other today. Talked to her a bit erlier, she said she thinks not seeing each other helped.
So now I'm meeting her on Monday. Hopefully by then we'll be ok, but idk if shes still angry at me or not. She said she loves me and we'll get through anything, but idk, im kinda...scared i suppose.
Well hopefully I can hold her and tell her how sorry i am on monday.

Just wondering, i kno none of u kno her, but just wondering if u think we'll be ok.

You had a break away from each other and she's realised that she still wants to make a go of things. Good luck with it and by the sounds of it, you sound just like a normal couple with fallouts and makeouts. ;)

so maybe you might get some makeout yano... :P

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Originally Posted by Inseriousity.

You had a break away from each other and she's realised that she still wants to make a go of things.

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Nah I think she always did want to stay with me, because she said she loved me with all her heart.
She just wanted some time away from each other so we didnt argue I think.

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Originally Posted by Inseriousity.

Good luck with it and by the sounds of it, you sound just like a normal couple with fallouts and makeouts. ;)

so maybe you might get some makeout yano... :P

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Yeah thats what I tried to say to her, that all ordinary couples and long lasting ones argue, but make it up to each other.

Maybe ;)

I suppose it depends on what you said and what made you say it. If you explain that to her then by the sounds of it im sure things will work out.

If it really hurt her, you should seriously considder why you said it?
even if you were angry or what ever, an insult comes from somewhere ;)
she seems to have forgiven you though, just kiss her, give her a long hug and tell her you love her :D

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Originally Posted by CamyRFC

Hey
I've been with my girlfriend for 8 weeks now, everything seemed to be going great, and we were having fun, then she told me she was in love with me. I thought about it for days, I didnt really think I was in love with her, because shes my first real girl friend, and was my best friend before we started going out. I realised I was in love with her, and told her, and she was ecstatic.
We then planned to yano...;)

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If she was a real girlfriend as you put it wouldnt you be able to say you love her no doubt? If there requires hesitation you may not be right for each other afterall, I think thats where you would be good as mates but not that intimate

We had a break, and i thought about it a lot.
We met up yesterday.
In the time apart I realised how much I loved her, and just when I was about to say to her last night, she said the same thing.
Then we had like the funnest night we've ever had, and didnt do anything sexual, just had a great laugh, and we watched the sunset together :)
So its all good :)

Lol ;)

bit of charm always pleases a girl.

ope everthing goes well.

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Originally Posted by CamyRFC

Hey
I've been with my girlfriend for 8 weeks now, everything seemed to be going great, and we were having fun, then she told me she was in love with me. I thought about it for days, I didnt really think I was in love with her, because shes my first real girl friend, and was my best friend before we started going out. I realised I was in love with her, and told her, and she was ecstatic.
We then planned to yano...;)
But recently we've been arguing alot, and last night I said something I regret and she was reli hurt.
I've said sorry so many times, but she cancelled us meeting up today. She said it would help, us not seeing each other because she thinks we'll just argue. So we didnt see each other today. Talked to her a bit erlier, she said she thinks not seeing each other helped.
So now I'm meeting her on Monday. Hopefully by then we'll be ok, but idk if shes still angry at me or not. She said she loves me and we'll get through anything, but idk, im kinda...scared i suppose.
Well hopefully I can hold her and tell her how sorry i am on monday.

Just wondering, i kno none of u kno her, but just wondering if u think we'll be ok.

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A relationship with arguments is a healthy relationship - you are both progressing a healthy relationship with one another unless you both argue too much.

like everyone has said, Its absolutely normal to argue and girlfriends or boyfriends are the easiest people to piss off because you are with them most of your free and so anything and everything you say to them they will take seriously. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and some days if you met us you would think we are big enemies. Sometimes all it takes is a sorry and hug and you both move on. Trust me she is going to say some things that really upset you in the future but its normal because you trust each other and thats probably one of the biggest factors of why couples argue ALL the time!

Good luck, its good that you have realized you were in the wrong, just let her know that you know and that your sorry and you'll both be fine. Remember she still wants you and came back even though you upset her...just dont get a god complex about her coming back lol

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Originally Posted by Andeeh

Lol ;)

bit of charm always pleases a girl.

ope everthing goes well.

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Thanks :)

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Originally Posted by BlueEyedSarah

A relationship with arguments is a healthy relationship - you are both progressing a healthy relationship with one another unless you both argue too much.

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Yeah, we argue mainly over stupid things reli.
I'm just a bit insecure, and I think any guy shes friends with she might leave me for. Because I don't think I'm good looking, and stuff like them.
But she says she wants to be with me forever, and she loves me, so I'm trying to stop thinking like that.

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Originally Posted by danny-dylan

like everyone has said, Its absolutely normal to argue and girlfriends or boyfriends are the easiest people to piss off because you are with them most of your free and so anything and everything you say to them they will take seriously. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and some days if you met us you would think we are big enemies. Sometimes all it takes is a sorry and hug and you both move on. Trust me she is going to say some things that really upset you in the future but its normal because you trust each other and thats probably one of the biggest factors of why couples argue ALL the time!

Good luck, its good that you have realized you were in the wrong, just let her know that you know and that your sorry and you'll both be fine. Remember she still wants you and came back even though you upset her...just dont get a god complex about her coming back lol

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Yeah whenever an argument has started recently I've just said that I dont want it to go any further.
Say I'm sorry, tell her I love her, a hug, kiss, then just try and think of something funny to say.



Bit O.t. but not really.
We were planning something for next Sunday, just so i dont get loads and loads of qs, we were planning on both giving each other oral lol.
So I was texted her, and she wanted me to explain exactly what wud happen (:S lol) So i did, she said she was reli reli looking forward to it, and we went to sleep happy :)
Next morning, (Today) I got a text wen i was getting ready saying that her mum red her texts :l
Omg, I thought she would stop her from seeing me, but all her mum said was that she should reli delete her texts, and we were to use protection wen we yano. A relief, but I dont think I'll be able to look her mum in the eye agen lol :rolleyes:

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Originally Posted by CamyRFC

Hey
I've been with my girlfriend for 8 weeks now, everything seemed to be going great, and we were having fun, then she told me she was in love with me. I thought about it for days, I didnt really think I was in love with her, because shes my first real girl friend, and was my best friend before we started going out. I realised I was in love with her, and told her, and she was ecstatic.
We then planned to yano...;)
But recently we've been arguing alot, and last night I said something I regret and she was reli hurt.
I've said sorry so many times, but she cancelled us meeting up today. She said it would help, us not seeing each other because she thinks we'll just argue. So we didnt see each other today. Talked to her a bit erlier, she said she thinks not seeing each other helped.
So now I'm meeting her on Monday. Hopefully by then we'll be ok, but idk if shes still angry at me or not. She said she loves me and we'll get through anything, but idk, im kinda...scared i suppose.
Well hopefully I can hold her and tell her how sorry i am on monday.

Just wondering, i kno none of u kno her, but just wondering if u think we'll be ok.

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When you first see her, just go straight upto her hold her tight and say i love you. It will be all okay then

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Originally Posted by CamyRFC

Hey
I've been with my girlfriend for 8 weeks now, everything seemed to be going great, and we were having fun, then she told me she was in love with me. I thought about it for days, I didnt really think I was in love with her, because shes my first real girl friend, and was my best friend before we started going out. I realised I was in love with her, and told her, and she was ecstatic.
We then planned to yano...;)
But recently we've been arguing alot, and last night I said something I regret and she was reli hurt.
I've said sorry so many times, but she cancelled us meeting up today. She said it would help, us not seeing each other because she thinks we'll just argue. So we didnt see each other today. Talked to her a bit erlier, she said she thinks not seeing each other helped.
So now I'm meeting her on Monday. Hopefully by then we'll be ok, but idk if shes still angry at me or not. She said she loves me and we'll get through anything, but idk, im kinda...scared i suppose.
Well hopefully I can hold her and tell her how sorry i am on monday.

Just wondering, i kno none of u kno her, but just wondering if u think we'll be ok.

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just buy her something lol

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Originally Posted by Born_To_Live

When you first see her, just go straight upto her hold her tight and say i love you. It will be all okay then

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Yeah this happened during the 2 week holidays we had, nd she didnt want to c me, so i cudnt :/

But when we went bk to skl on monday jst gone i did.
Things are ok now i think :)

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Originally Posted by Interact

just buy her something lol

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Lol I was going to do that, but i dnt reli have any money, the only money I have is to buy GTA4!!!

Lol im ko, my gfs more important :)

Lol aww at the sunset thing [:
and LOL fgs don't say i would have got you something but Im saving for a game
I don't think it would go too smoothly.

Lol, it was nice :)

Yeah lol, i was ko (kiddin on).
I'm saving up to buy her some nice jewellery or something :)

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Originally Posted by CamyRFC

Thanks :)
We were planning something for next Sunday, just so i dont get loads and loads of qs, we were planning on both giving each other oral lol.
So I was texted her, and she wanted me to explain exactly what wud happen (:S lol) So i did, she said she was reli reli looking forward to it, and we went to sleep happy :)
Next morning, (Today) I got a text wen i was getting ready saying that her mum red her texts :l
Omg, I thought she would stop her from seeing me, but all her mum said was that she should reli delete her texts, and we were to use protection wen we yano. A relief, but I dont think I'll be able to look her mum in the eye agen lol :rolleyes:

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Rofl. She got 1 damn nice mum! me and my gf were joking around saying stuff like that, Her mum read the messages and now her mum doesnt want her to be with me. We still are tho, best part is the risk innit xP haha.

Shes reli not that good a mum, she made my gf split up with me wen we first started to go out, she listens to everything her mum says :l

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Originally Posted by CamyRFC

Bit O.t. but not really.
We were planning something for next Sunday, just so i dont get loads and loads of qs, we were planning on both giving each other oral lol.
So I was texted her, and she wanted me to explain exactly what wud happen (:S lol) So i did, she said she was reli reli looking forward to it, and we went to sleep happy :)
Next morning, (Today) I got a text wen i was getting ready saying that her mum red her texts :l
Omg, I thought she would stop her from seeing me, but all her mum said was that she should reli delete her texts, and we were to use protection wen we yano. A relief, but I dont think I'll be able to look her mum in the eye agen lol :rolleyes:

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LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Good luck with her :).

Was it because you's lost the UEFA Cup? :P

Nah seriously, a girl's mind is something us guys will never understand. What you said might not have been much of an insult if it was said to you but girls take insults more personally. Just keep telling her how sorry you are on Monday and I'm sure everything will be okay.

Good luck mate.

Ull be perfectly fine :D

But gl with it all :)

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Originally Posted by Cod

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Good luck with her :).

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Lol thanks.

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Originally Posted by superfly-dan

Was it because you's lost the UEFA Cup? :P

Nah seriously, a girl's mind is something us guys will never understand. What you said might not have been much of an insult if it was said to you but girls take insults more personally. Just keep telling her how sorry you are on Monday and I'm sure everything will be okay.

Good luck mate.

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Lol, this was like a month ago lol, were ok now, i think.

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Originally Posted by lewis-moody

Ull be perfectly fine :D

But gl with it all :)

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Meh were still arguing.
But cheers.