ARGH - ANNNOYING PROBLEM

Right just need to get this off my chest.

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My best mate (Jess) and her younger sister (Lia) on the bus right there was a run-in where this lad on the bus called Sam brought paper on. Anyway when we set off the paper throwing started. Me, jess and lia were just sat at away from it just talking and doing our own thing while they threw paper around. It soon started coming our way, hitting us, and I was starting to get ajitated. I got up told them to 'shut up' or those words near enough and sat down (I sound like a soft **** but I just cba that day) anyway they started throwing at Lia because for some reason they're not kean on her I think because they annoy her and she like nips them and they are like OWW and then they hate her, so they started throwing paper at lia and then my bro's 'best' mate Tom chucked a bottle at Lia. By this point Lia was really upset and started to cry (mainly from anger) and then it comes back home where my bro tells my mum. I stick up for Jess and Lia because I like Lia, she's good mate to me and Jess, my best mate so yeah and then I just hate my brother most of the time because he's an absolute **** to me. So the next day, Lia when in and reported them for bullying, as she should, because it was and people on the bus found out and were like LIA WHY DID YOU REPORT US, she denied it because she didn't want it to continue and that bit was that. It then came home again and my brother telling my mum more stories. Anyway, today just a normal day, Lia and Jess still hating my brother and all them but I asked Lia what she thought of jack and she replies with " A big fat slob who sits around all day thinking he is hard when he's a puff " and then my bro overread it, told my mum and now my mum is like "Lia needs a slap for that" and i'm like "NO, SHE DOESN'T, SHE SAID IT BECAUSE OF WHAT JACK DID AND SAID TO LIA". My mum now thinks they're really bad and it's falling back onto me and Jess, when in actual fact, all 3 of us are pretty much innocent, me and Jess for sure. I am sticking up for Lia and Jess because I know what is what but because my brother doesn't like them either, he's telling the negative side when i'm actually telling both sides. As my bro is my mum's son, she sticks up for him and says Lia need's a slap etc. I stick up for them, so just had a shouting row with my mum and told her to shut up and get out because I really can't be bothered with her butting in from what my bro said and telling me stuff that should be done when I know the full story and she just knows dribs and drabs of the story, I tell her to stop butting in but she still does it. So I'm really angry now (High temper easy) because I can't be bothered with my mum just butting in half way through not knowing a thing. Just want to know what to do. I don't want Lia, Jess and Jack (my bro) to be mates because it won't be right and I can't see it happening. Jess and Lia are very good and nice people just don't want to have mates like some of these, which you all know. I don't like them either

Anyway mainly to get it out of my head and off my chest because I couldn't think straight about what's going on so i've typed it out. :@ Feel a bit better now it's out. If you want to post your opinion's, feel free.

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What? :S

i got bored after about 5 lines, but yeah i agree :eusa_clap

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Originally Posted by Ramones

i got bored after about 5 lines, but yeah i agree :eusa_clap

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You're right, you didn't read it because there's nothing to agree with exactly. -rep. pointless post :@

Omg that sucks ... maybe you should just have a chat to your mum when your brother isn't around and tell her exactly how you feel about whats going on in a calm way instead of shouting =]

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Originally Posted by Dan2nd

Omg that sucks ... maybe you should just have a chat to your mum when your brother isn't around and tell her exactly how you feel about whats going on in a calm way instead of shouting =]

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No, I can't. I really can't be doing with talking she's like a kid, always wants her say it in and like gets stressed ERGH. NOT the person you'd want to speak to

I'd just sit tight and let them get on with hating each other, it will all be forgotten in a few weeks or so. My mates mams like that butting in when she knows **** all (not going to bother going into it) but yeah, just bite your tongue for a few weeks or so and try not to mention anything about it, I would carry on and stick with your mates side of the arguement over your brothers as he shouldn't of been doing that to her in the first place.

Hope this helps :)

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Originally Posted by e5

No, I can't. I really can't be doing with talking she's like a kid, always wants her say it in and like gets stressed ERGH. NOT the person you'd want to speak to

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That sucks, I know sometimes when my mum takes my sisters side in arguements and she ends up just shouting 'DON't WANNA KNOW DOn'T WANNA KNOW' and I feel fgs just like a kid but in the end we always have a chat about it and make up =]

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Originally Posted by verda

I'd just sit tight and let them get on with hating each other, it will all be forgotten in a few weeks or so. My mates mams like that butting in when she knows **** all (not going to bother going into it) but yeah, just bite your tongue for a few weeks or so and try not to mention anything about it, I would carry on and stick with your mates side of the arguement over your brothers as he shouldn't of been doing that to her in the first place.

Hope this helps :)

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I'm probably going to have to do that. :( I sort of thought of doing that.

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You're right, you didn't read it because there's nothing to agree with exactly. -rep. pointless post :@

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He is saying you need to paragraph your text, im gonna read it now.

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Tell your mum the full story when your brother is not arround. She might understand more then :)

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Originally Posted by Tom743

He is saying you need to paragraph your text, im gonna read it now.

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OK but wasn't exactly the thing that needed paragraphing imo. and ty for reading it

Too long for my eyes. Can i just say wow thats awful :O!

I have no idea how some people on this forum even pass their SAT exams with how little they read when it comes to a medium sized chunk of text. A book will frighten them.

Anyway, I read that all and no offence to your brother but hes a mummy boy :P I dont think it is best for them al to hate each other, but it wouldnt be for the best to become friends straight away neither. Maybe if you try get your brother to apologise to lia, and lia to apologise for calling him i guess.
That should dissolve some hard feelings?

From my experiences, a lot of boys pick on girls they fancy. So they could either dislike her or fancy her i guess. but im not there to witness :P

I agree with some of the others, even though SOME people see you as a child, you wont get much respect for storming around losing your temper. Get your brother out of the way and tell your mum the full story. She cant but out because its her children getting hurt, and as a normal mum would tell you, your kids mean the world to you and you want to protect and help them. Even with little things :)

so yeah, talk to your mum, try make peace in the war camp :P and ask your brother 1-to-1 if he dislikes lia or if he does like her

Tbh, those boys are pathetic, and your brother is being Pathetic sticking up for them over you Just to look cool.
you should make your mum feel guilty for taking his side, Like shout, parents shouldn't have favourites!
Or maybe explain to her about how lia was crying because of your brothers Behaviour.

Wow. That's crazy. I would just let it go and not even bother with them because it doesn't really matter. I'd just focus on resolving the situation.

How old is Lia? For your mum to turn round and say she deserves a slap is pretty out of order!
She sounds like a women on my estate whose always buting in to her kids lives in a major way.
By the sound of it your brother and your friends arnt ever going to get on so id just tell them to keep there distance from each other and be civil.

Elliott, now you have got the stress out of the way just sleep on it. You will feel better in the morning and be able to be more rational about it. :)

i'd knife those kids init

i think i managed to read turkey slap...
Maybe re paragraph your text please :)

Your mum doesnt seem very nice, she's like taking sides?

Thats mean tbh,

i dont think there is alot you can do ;[ something like that happened to me once, you just have to sit back :( ino it hurts to see your mates upset, but if u get into it, can sometimes make things worse,
your brother seems like a rite t***. No offence,

i think u just need to try your best, and try and make your mum see that she's getting bullied, not being the bully.
(if that makes any sence)

Wow my eyes hrut.

Anyway, tell your mum your side fo the story without your brother there, or get him into trouble, all I can advise.

are these lot older or younger than you (ur bro and his mates)

Why not ask your mum whys she taking sides? Mum's shouldn't do that. When My mum/dad does that i say stop favourtising him! My mum usually gets upset and says Im not im just seeing it from his point of view. You should actualy sit your mum down and talk to her about it.

It's out of order for her to say she will give lila a slap. You should tell your mum from lilas point of view, just sitting in the bus and getting all that banta!

Good thing reporting it though! If you hate your brother then just silence him out that always works for me!