Well, these 2 girls who sit behind me think im fit (like everybody else does) One of the girls asked me out but i looked the other way and ignored her cuz i didnt have the confindence, how can i help this?
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Well, these 2 girls who sit behind me think im fit (like everybody else does) One of the girls asked me out but i looked the other way and ignored her cuz i didnt have the confindence, how can i help this?
I Think You Need To Talk To The Girl On Her Own And Ask Her If She Means It And Stuff And If You Like Her The Same Way Obv Say Yes, But Sometimes When People Are With There Mates They Just Do It For Fun.
Good Luck With It =)
This exactly. Anyway, whats the worst that can happen? if you dont act on your feelings, nothing will happen and you'll regret it. Good luck.Quote:
Originally Posted by xSamLouise
watch the Dr Pepper ads, then you'll get the jist of crazy **** that can go down.Quote:
Originally Posted by Stacey.
Did she do it alone?
If not, then i think she did it for fun
Nice to help, but stop raping shift key please.Quote:
Originally Posted by xSamLouise
And ontopic, get her aside and ask her if she meant it, best you can do ;)
u claim ya so fit
so y r ya so shy
lmao makes sense dnt it babe
You don't need to come across as something your not, be yourself.
If your shy, maybe asking her if she was joking would be a bit embarrasing, so see how she acts when your around her.
Maybe text her, Email etc, get to know her better?
Then once you feel comfortable enough with her, and you and pretty certain she's into you, ask her out. :)
Before you even consider the girl you have to look at your confidence issue. Why are you so unconfident? It sounds like you have every reason to be. If you got into a relationship and you didn't have confidence it'll cause all sorts of issues.
Once you've looked at that, then explain to the girl you're an idiot for passing on her and that you like her too but you were worried about getting into a relationship then offer to take her out, get to know her a little bit and see where you're at.
I am not sure how old you are but in any case I'd advise you not to rush into things.
if you think that everyone thinks you're "fit" and you're still not confident, then i don't know what confidence is, haha.
Thats ******** if u was fit ud ave plenty of confidence
PROOF OR IT DIDNT HAPPEN.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mattster
Boost up ya confidence lol.
you should deffinately talk to her,
appologise for ignoring her
tell her you were shy
girls find that dead cute :)
and then ask her out instead ;)
So, let me get this right..you think you're so fit (big-headed?) and you don't have the confidence to talk to a girl?
You may as well give up now..
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Originally Posted by RedStratocas
i totally agree with that lol :)
Yea, I was a bit confused, if everyone thinks your fit,
why are you shy?
girls find shy boys cute though :)
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Originally Posted by LeahBaby--Ox
*some girls.
i know a lot of girls who hate shy guys, cause the girls have such big personalities (or rather a lack of a personality which they hide with being loud and obnoxious) so they cant stand when people dont talk.
Well I was thinking that but if you have problems with talking to her face-to-face give her a note or speak to her when she is on her own and you feel comfortable about it.Quote:
Originally Posted by RedStratocas
It's not just all about the looks though.
You can be amazingly fit but still have a bad personality.
Btw I'm not saying shyness is bad that was just an example.
Loads of people are good looking but shy, use the compliments they give you to boost your confidence !
If you don't react in a good way to their compliments they will stop giving them :)
Don't get too cocky.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mattster