Hate mum

Grr i hate my mum i wish i didnt she finks im happy and i love her but every single day she makes me feel so small or she does not let me have my veiw if i didnt want to wait till i get a better job till leaving i would of left by now. i wish there was a way for loving my mum ovr ethe years she has made me lie and saidi done something when i didnt do it. Like when i was 7 me and her had a row but you would of fort she would of acted like a adult god i was 7 the next day she told my nan i tried running away and myt mum found me near a bus stop she made me say to my nan i did try to run away but i didnt and 5 years a go i found out she had a affair on my stepdad i wanted to tell him but i dindt want to ruin the family she doesnt know i know. God please if some one has got advice please tell me cos i need toget over it and not to be upset every time i should of lernt by now

I couldn't even read that, but the title is awful, where would you be if it weren't for your mom?

This Obviously Is A Hard Time. But You Still Gotta Consider How Your Mum Feels.

Mum's People Think Can Cope With Having Kids. And In Fact They Can't, Thy Just Don't Wanna Show They Can't Cope.

I Think She's Kinda Showing Her Mum (Your Nan) That She Can Cope With Kids Almost Proving She Can.

The Best Thing You Need Is A Big Sit Down With Your Mum.

Start With How Much You Love Her. Then Tell Her How You Feel.

If This Doesn't Work There Are Annonomyse (Or However You Spell It) Helplines, Even Childline. You Don't Need To Give Your Name Or Your Mums Name And They Have The Best Advice. You Can Even Phone From A Public Phone Box If You Feel Comfortable With This.

Please Tell Me How Evreything Goes.

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Originally Posted by Metric1

I couldn't even read that, but the title is awful, where would you be if it weren't for your mom?

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im sorry you could not read it i was upset when writing but i have got every right of saying i hate my mum alright i would not be here if it wernt for my mum but the way she has made me feel i dont think it is right what you said. when my mum had a go at me i acculy relised i dont love mum and i would of moved out by now if i could live comfutable (cant spell)

and the person who said maybe because of my nan i dont agree alright my nan may not be diffrent from my mum but when it happend today my nan was round and she stuck up for me i have got so close to running way she i sa compulsive lier and i hate her

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Originally Posted by Jay.

This Obviously Is A Hard Time. But You Still Gotta Consider How Your Mum Feels.

Mum's People Think Can Cope With Having Kids. And In Fact They Can't, Thy Just Don't Wanna Show They Can't Cope.

I Think She's Kinda Showing Her Mum (Your Nan) That She Can Cope With Kids Almost Proving She Can.

The Best Thing You Need Is A Big Sit Down With Your Mum.

Start With How Much You Love Her. Then Tell Her How You Feel.

If This Doesn't Work There Are Annonomyse (Or However You Spell It) Helplines, Even Childline. You Don't Need To Give Your Name Or Your Mums Name And They Have The Best Advice. You Can Even Phone From A Public Phone Box If You Feel Comfortable With This.

Please Tell Me How Evreything Goes.

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+rep :)

I completely agree with Jay. Show her your maturity:D

Exactly, you gotta show how mature you are. But i do think she's kind of showing off infront of your nan ;)

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Originally Posted by Metric1

I couldn't even read that, but the title is awful, where would you be if it weren't for your mom?

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I agree with that.
I dont know how you can "hate" your mum really..

But i do guess it sounds like shes showing off. I agree with all the others in the fact that you should show your maturity :)

Exactly, you need childline. They'll help

thanks for ur advice its something im going to have to fix thanks for the people who gave their help

tell her how you feel,
and say that you don't like lying for her.

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Edited by Alkaz (Forum Moderator): Please do not post inappropriately and pointlessly.

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Originally Posted by Kent

spike her drink then when she's down give her a good kick in and let your anger out

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Helpful... :rolleyes:

You don't hat her. You just think you do. The things she makes you do are out of order, tell her, speak to her try and find out why. Get it all sorted. :)

You say you hate your mum but maybe because its because you spend lots of time with her? She sounds somewhat protective and worries about you by the sound of it which is different to wanting to run you life. Can't you sit down and have a chat with her and say you would like a bit more freedom?
Also she obviously made a mistake that hurt you deeply but she probably regrets that too and after all this time perhaps you should let it go and not get angry about it. Thing is just try to imagine if you never saw her again? How would you really feel then?

Generally its a Mum's job to do things which you will never like. The best thing in my opinion would be for you to talk to your mum about how you really feel about the way she treats you. Sub-conciously she may not be aware of how she is making you feel as what she is doing is natural for her to do. Telling her how you feel will give her an insight to how to talk to you about when you do mess up and generally how to treat you. You think you hate your mother but it is frustration at what she is doing really, once you let it out to her it should calm things down between you both and make you feel better.