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Why do I all of a sudden have this urge to want/need it and even give some back?
It's like totally overpowering, it stops me sleeping, sometimes eating. It's like there is this huge gap in me.
That might not make sense to many, but I'm sure others have gone through it, hopefully.
cause affection rules, dude. its nice knowing someone thinks highly of you.
I like when somebody runs my back or stomach, it makes me feel loved!
who doesnt want affection anyway? its a wonderful thing:love7::love7:
Yeah, I didn't mean like "oh no one else will want it", I mean, why do I have like a sudden outburst and urge to want it?Quote:
Originally Posted by lachrymose
It's really frustrating. >_>
Uhm, affection affects people. And therefore you're having all these sudden thingy.
Hmm, I think I read somewhere that if a child doesn't get a lot of affection and touch from parents during the ages of 4 to 6, the touch can lead to like instant sexual stimulus (I think that's because your mind treats the lack of touch as a "special" thing, which when induced in the right way can produce the sexual chemical stuff). And the affection, something about lack of it can start to show in late teen years.Quote:
Originally Posted by rocksteaddy
So I guess that sort of explains some things.
yeah maybe thats it dan :P
or am I just being stupid? lmao :PQuote:
Originally Posted by lachrymose
naw dan. it does sound true tho
cmon dan theres nothing wrong wanting it kk.
nahhh, not stupid.Quote:
Originally Posted by Hiro
the only thing i miss bout my most recent relationship was the cuddling up on sofa :(, i think it's worse if you had some then lost it :'(
i think that might be another reason. lonely nights and stuff. (n)Quote:
Originally Posted by buttons
please dont be depressed!
its not that im depressed, its just the attachment and stuff. I guess one could say that I like the idea of being needed, wanted. Maybe I thrive on caring too much.Quote:
Originally Posted by lachrymose
Init I'd rather just have mates that I can curl up with than a proper relationship atm, and like Dan said it's nice feeling like you're needed/wanted.Quote:
Originally Posted by buttons
It's not a weird thing at all mate, I'm the same and I'm like the best person in the whole world so yeah
LOL! don't flatter yourself babe xoQuote:
Originally Posted by FlyingJesus
and dan is fudge not cuddling you anymore? :(
but ino what you mean, im like it atm too. Maybe you just crave a relationship :D
Lmao, a relationship that doesn't stick?Quote:
Originally Posted by LeahRAWRR
I ask for too much at 17, there's only one person I know who wants the same.
yer dan just be patient kk. everything will be fine :D
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