Blank Her or Not??! -Totally Confused!!!-

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14-12-2008, 07:38 PM
MrGazet

Blank Her or Not??! -Totally Confused!!!-

Right,its long but advices r relli appreciated.PLEASE somone:(

Okay,so I got this best mate & wev been best mates for years.So theres 3 of us in the gang, me and my other mate,A & her,B.So we wer very close & all had lorra blast together.But lately things changed since she got herself a bf,C.Her bf dusnt like us and try to control her and didnt let her hang out.He was very controlling and being a freking jerk.He wants her all himself.So me and A was obviously pissed and we had sme arguments before a huge one.Things started to fall apart.It was really gay.So,at the end of the day she chose her bf instead of us.It was relli sick.We tried to just be mates & her wif him but didnt work out.C gav final words to her asking her to choose whether him or us.She chose HIM over US. So,things startedto fall apart too wif me & A,the other mate.He really loves her & was truly hurt & was always lashing out his anger at me.So,things went bad but I'm still best mate wif A.Neways,sumwhere this time of the year,she broke out wif her bf and started running back to us.It was cool but things didnt last long.She blanked us after she went back to him.It was another blow.So me & A were like thts it.NO MORE.Okay so now,she's back & wanting to patch things out wif me.I dunno should I give her a chance.Its relli confusing.She was my best mate.Im relli akward wif her now.Someone been through this or hav eny good advices??MUCH MUCH APPRECIATED!
14-12-2008, 11:41 PM
Middlesbrough

Ill be honest the type of person i am i would tell her she can stick it up her (you know what). Shes done it too many times and tbh she dosent deserve to
be your friend, but im a really harsh person when it comes to it :)
15-12-2008, 12:14 AM
leah

Quote:

Originally Posted by JustGotIngoe'D

Ill be honest the type of person i am i would tell her she can stick it up her (you know what). Shes done it too many times and tbh she dosent deserve to
be your friend, but im a really harsh person when it comes to it :)

I agree, if she cared about you as a friend she wouldn't have ditched you in the first place.
15-12-2008, 12:43 AM
AlexOC

She shouldnt of ditched.

She wouldn't if she viewed you as a true friend.
15-12-2008, 12:45 AM
Ashley

If she's ditched you two for her boyfriend twice and is only now trying to come back, she's not worth your time. Tell her how you feel and that choosing her boyfriend over her best friends hurt you; then move on.
15-12-2008, 12:51 AM
AlexOC

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kaotix12

If she's ditched you two for her boyfriend twice and is only now trying to come back, she's not worth your time. Tell her how you feel and that choosing her boyfriend over her best friends hurt you; then move on.

Don't sound desperate when telling her xD
15-12-2008, 02:51 AM
TAYLOOOOR1

Quote:

Originally Posted by JustGotIngoe'D

Ill be honest the type of person i am i would tell her she can stick it up her (you know what). Shes done it too many times and tbh she dosent deserve to
be your friend, but im a really harsh person when it comes to it :)

Agree'd Tbh :D :D
15-12-2008, 01:02 PM
MrGazet

well i did tell her.i was like.STOP DOING THIS.u came to us only when ur lonely and u broke up wif him.wot do u fink i am?a puppet?wot u did was so rong.she was like i no i messed up badly.she promised me things would turned okay but i heard tht before.i dunno relli
15-12-2008, 01:59 PM
Inseriousity.

She made a mistake. She's admitted it. I don't know why you have to blank someone just because they made a mistake. Sometimes, you're put into awkward positions and I know some people who would definitely pick someone they loved over their best friends. It's not that they're evil, it's just they wanted somebody to love.

If it was me, I'd tell her she's on thin ice atm but you'll try to work it out. It's what best friends do.
15-12-2008, 05:05 PM
jackass

I didn't understand a word you just said.

Please use proper English and then i'll try to make a useful reply.
15-12-2008, 07:29 PM
luce

Don't blank anyone becuase that's not going to get you anywhere and don't have a go at her everyone makes mistakes! So yeah i think just talk to her and ask if SHE'S alright becuase she might be upset yano
15-12-2008, 08:10 PM
MrGazet

Quote:

Originally Posted by jackASS

I didn't understand a word you just said.

Please use proper English and then i'll try to make a useful reply.

Thank you but no thank you.

Everyone,thanks for teh advice,I no peeps got divided options on this.I'm just gna go wif the flow.Hope wer cool
15-12-2008, 09:03 PM
Casual

Should have 3 strikes and you're out :)

gl with it btw!
15-12-2008, 09:43 PM
Imnotpure

Hard to translate your first post, but I read some of it and it sounds like she needs a talking to, so talk to her about it.
15-12-2008, 09:58 PM
Niall!

Quote:

Originally Posted by MrGazet

Thank you but no thank you.

Everyone,thanks for teh advice,I no peeps got divided options on this.I'm just gna go wif the flow.Hope wer cool

******* GRAMMAR, DO YOU KNOW IT?
15-12-2008, 10:08 PM
Blinger1

Quote:

Originally Posted by jackASS

I didn't understand a word you just said.

Please use proper English and then i'll try to make a useful reply.

then don't reply at all.

Give her a chance, its amazing what boyfriends / girlfriends do to there partners (stress wise)
16-12-2008, 10:35 AM
MrGazet

Quote:

Originally Posted by Charrly

Should have 3 strikes and you're out :)

gl with it btw!

thanks :)

Quote:

Originally Posted by Niall!

******* GRAMMAR, DO YOU KNOW IT?

shhh i no cnt be arsed to type PERFECTLY ;)

So,I told mi mate,A bout wot happened & he wasnt very pleased.He was furious at me & was like so u accepted her? and was like Have fun talking to her.
Neway,I think I shud give her a last chance.Sumtimes,I think I'm quite lenient bout this.But yeah,we'r on talking terms now & I can see her efforts in patchin things up.So yeah why not right?
16-12-2008, 10:41 AM
Inseriousity.

You did the right thing... :)
Your friend is still angry that she chose her boyfriend over him. It probably affected him more because he fancied her. Tell him that "you're just sick of all the tension and that you just want things to go back to normal but to do that, you all need to be together. You don't want all the fighting because it just adds another problem that could be easily solved."
17-12-2008, 02:19 AM
Blinger1

Quote:

Originally Posted by Inseriousity.

You did the right thing... :)
Your friend is still angry that she chose her boyfriend over him. It probably affected him more because he fancied her. Tell him that "you're just sick of all the tension and that you just want things to go back to normal but to do that, you all need to be together. You don't want all the fighting because it just adds another problem that could be easily solved."

I agree. He did do the right thing, and if you are only a teenager (say 15/16) i'd say that she doesn't love the dude really but its just a thing you go through :)
17-12-2008, 03:46 PM
MrGazet

Yeah I do hope so anyway.Things could go better but u no wud nvr be the same eh?
Thanks u lot for the advices :D MUCH MUCH APPRECIATED MWAHHXXX :P