Relationships....

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22-01-2009, 08:34 PM
x!candi!x

Relationships....

Why can't relationships be like the movies??
I mean in all my relationships the lads have been proper ******** they all want the same thing SEX!! and it's like god man don't you ever think about anything else than that and then when it's finally working out you start getting paranoid when he goes to town drinking or something because you think hes going to cheat and they are always ********s when there around there mates and act proper different.

Why don't they work out??
I must be attracted to all the wrong kind of lads..Sorry about the rant lol.

Has anyone ever had like a movie relationship. You know what I mean like head over heels in love don't ever want to even look at anyone else, You would do anything for that other person and they would do anything for you?
22-01-2009, 08:41 PM
Melsia

I like to believe movie relationships exist, but never experienced one, just being optomistic =]
22-01-2009, 08:42 PM
x!candi!x

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Originally Posted by Melsia

I like to believe movie relationships exist, but never experienced one, just being optomistic =]

Same :D Hopefully one day eh?
22-01-2009, 10:33 PM
Swinkid

You obv havnt met me then... xD
22-01-2009, 10:51 PM
PaintYourTarget

I had one of those... actually, does Bang Babes 5 count as a movie?
22-01-2009, 11:17 PM
x!candi!x

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Originally Posted by Swinkid

You obv havnt met me then... xD

:D Big head!!

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Originally Posted by PaintYourTarget

I had one of those... actually, does Bang Babes 5 count as a movie?

Oh yeh definatly!! There what kind of movies I mean!! :P :rolleyes:
22-01-2009, 11:19 PM
Tristan

Why not?
Because obviously everyone (especially girls) are obsessed with good looks. For some reason a heck of a lot always go with the pikeys, and the chavs. But if they're going to do that then it's their fault anyway.

From what I'm getting I can just picture you with people that think they're all that and act and speak like "yeah im ard wot u gna do bout it u *****" - for example.
22-01-2009, 11:23 PM
PaintYourTarget

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Originally Posted by x!candi!x

:D Big head!!

Oh yeh definatly!! There what kind of movies I mean!! :P :rolleyes:

Aha, naw, the girl I'm with at the moment is like that. She makes me well happy and I think we've had one argument since we met over a year ago =]
22-01-2009, 11:28 PM
x!candi!x

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Originally Posted by Tristan

Why not?
Because obviously everyone (especially girls) are obsessed with good looks. For some reason a heck of a lot always go with the pikeys, and the chavs. But if they're going to do that then it's their fault anyway.

From what I'm getting I can just picture you with people that think they're all that and act and speak like "yeah im ard wot u gna do bout it u *****" - for example.

Hey!!! No i'm not like that at all, i'm not obsessed with good looks either I would definatly pick personality over looks any day but dont get me wrong looks are kinda important because I have to be attracted to the person i'm going to be with and anyone who says looks arn't important are lieing. Also I think lads that act like theyre hard are pathetic they don't impress me one little bit. I like guys who have things in common with me wether they be goths,emo,trendy or chav and btw I hate labeling people because I hate being labled. I don't care what group of people that person hangs round with all I care about is the person i'm going to be spending the time with.

Sorry long paragraph but I think I get my point across. :rolleyes:

Paintyourtarget: Aw that is so cute :) I wish you 2 all the best!!
23-01-2009, 12:51 AM
FlyingJesus

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Originally Posted by PaintYourTarget

Aha, naw, the girl I'm with at the moment is like that. She makes me well happy and I think we've had one argument since we met over a year ago =]

She is bare fit tbh, I would except I told you I wouldn't so you wouldn't cry but I was lying irl

I used to have a relationship like this. Typically it's that way for the first month or two then I get bored or something, but one was good for nearly a year then was like BOOM we're gonna be rubbish now and was just a massive mess.
23-01-2009, 10:21 AM
Melsia

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Originally Posted by x!candi!x

Hey!!! No i'm not like that at all, i'm not obsessed with good looks either I would definatly pick personality over looks any day but dont get me wrong looks are kinda important because I have to be attracted to the person i'm going to be with and anyone who says looks arn't important are lieing. Also I think lads that act like theyre hard are pathetic they don't impress me one little bit. I like guys who have things in common with me wether they be goths,emo,trendy or chav and btw I hate labeling people because I hate being labled. I don't care what group of people that person hangs round with all I care about is the person i'm going to be spending the time with.

Sorry long paragraph but I think I get my point across. :rolleyes:

Paintyourtarget: Aw that is so cute :) I wish you 2 all the best!!

Well Said!

Looks are inportant, but not the most important thing in a relationship. In movie relationships actors are always good looking and have a good personality which doesn't happen much irl- Good lookig guy's heads are up their own arses and good personalitied guys aren't that good looking.
23-01-2009, 11:25 AM
Pyroka

Your problem is, that the guys that you're looking for are either shy or they don't think they're good enough for you. I can't see anything wrong with you, you seem a nice girl who has her priorities right.

I'd just wait and see what life brings you really, it won't be long till you do meet someone who cares about you more than they do the next ****. :P
23-01-2009, 05:29 PM
FlyingJesus

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Originally Posted by Melsia

Good lookig guy's heads are up their own arses and good personalitied guys aren't that good looking.

What you on about I'm fit and great
23-01-2009, 05:40 PM
PaintYourTarget

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Originally Posted by FlyingJesus

What you on about I'm fit and great

agreed.
23-01-2009, 09:17 PM
RedStratocas

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Originally Posted by FlyingJesus

What you on about I'm fit and great

yeah but she probably knows youre out of her league so you dont count.

ive been with my girlfran 14 months. been pretty good, i dont think they can make a movie about us but weve only had a few rough patches.

and i hate it when girls say that they didnt realize how much of a jerk a guy is until theyre dating them. seriously, i can always tell if a guy is a complete ass almost instantly.
24-01-2009, 12:11 AM
x!candi!x

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Originally Posted by FlyingJesus

What you on about I'm fit and great

BIG HEAD!! :rolleyes:

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Originally Posted by RedStratocas

[B.
and i hate it when girls say that they didnt realize how much of a jerk a guy is until theyre dating them. seriously, i can always tell if a guy is a complete ass almost instantly.[/B]

Guys can only tell because theyre male themselves just as girls can tell more about another girl than a lad can.
24-01-2009, 12:23 AM
Melsia

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Originally Posted by FlyingJesus

What you on about I'm fit and great

Exactly what im on about, lmao. Good looking guys think they're amazing!
24-01-2009, 12:25 AM
FlyingJesus

Yeah but I am lol :S so surely that's just being truthful not arrogant
24-01-2009, 12:27 AM
x!candi!x

^^^

You sure about that?? :D
24-01-2009, 12:35 AM
brandon

There are some attractive people out there with good personalities, I would say myself if I dare. You just haven't found one yet. Keep digging and maybe you'll find the buried treasure. Or maybe that buried treasure is no where to be found.
24-01-2009, 12:36 AM
FlyingJesus

Fairly sure, only God will know the reason, but I'm sure he must have had a plan and that's why I'm so great
24-01-2009, 12:39 AM
x!candi!x

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Originally Posted by FlyingJesus

Fairly sure, only God will know the reason, but I'm sure he must have had a plan and that's why I'm so great

Lmao every time you speak to me are you going to quote Bon Jovi!! :P

BECAUSE YOU WERE BORN TO BE MY BABY AND BABY I WAS MADE TO BE YOUR MAAAAAAN. :D
24-01-2009, 12:40 AM
Ramones

its pretty funny how the forum subtitle and thread title are the same dont you think?!??!!?
24-01-2009, 12:42 AM
x!candi!x

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Originally Posted by Ramones

its pretty funny how the forum subtitle and thread title are the same dont you think?!??!!?

Lol well it is about relationships ;)
24-01-2009, 12:58 AM
Ramones

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Originally Posted by x!candi!x

Lol well it is about relationships ;)

you could of called it something more interesting like 'OMG READ THIS IMMEDIATELY BBZ' and everyone would of been much more interested. But to be fairr, all of the relationships iv've been in, one of us has liked the other more than they liked the other. I think a majority of people will never find a partner where they are both crazy about each other like the notebook, which is immense. I think later in life people realise it's about compromise.
24-01-2009, 01:01 AM
x!candi!x

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Originally Posted by Ramones

you could of called it something more interesting like 'OMG READ THIS IMMEDIATELY BBZ' and everyone would of been much more interested. But to be fairr, all of the relationships iv've been in, one of us has liked the other more than they liked the other. I think a majority of people will never find a partner where they are both crazy about each other like the notebook, which is immense. I think later in life people realise it's about compromise.

Yeh that is true!. I'm not going to comprimise though lol :)
24-01-2009, 01:42 AM
Middlesbrough

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Originally Posted by PaintYourTarget

I had one of those... actually, does Bang Babes 5 count as a movie?

More like banging *REMOVED*

Edited by Yoshimitsui (Forum Super Moderator): Please do not avoid the filter.
24-01-2009, 01:51 AM
Swearwolf

girls usually only go for gd lookin guys. thats cos if theres a group of guys, n the 1 that just hangs back not standin out n aint good lookin is the 1 with the personality u want, but girls never go for tht 1 do they... so i suppose u miss out

on a lighter note, im that guy... but someone found me :D been together a year n 2 months now
24-01-2009, 02:27 AM
x!candi!x

POUR SOME SUGAR ON MEEEEEEEE.....OOH IN THE NAME OF LOVE :)
24-01-2009, 02:30 AM
Swearwolf

DEF LEPPARDZ?!??!
24-01-2009, 02:32 AM
x!candi!x

Oh Yehhhhh! :P
24-01-2009, 06:56 PM
StripedTiger

Hmm some guys are like that, others arnt.

I know loads of guys who like to just be with their girl and just spend time with them, and it isnt about sex. But i've met some guys who do think its all about sex.

you've probs just had a stroke of bad luck ?
24-01-2009, 06:58 PM
cocaine

lol girls always say that but then most of them go for badboys who will just use them.
24-01-2009, 07:10 PM
buttons

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Originally Posted by x!candi!x

Has anyone ever had like a movie relationship. You know what I mean like head over heels in love don't ever want to even look at anyone else, You would do anything for that other person and they would do anything for you?

yeah so i thought lol well i thought it was all perfect and it was like oh i just wanted to be with him forever idk i could never explain it it was such a weird but good feeling like never ever wanting to be away from him and i thought it was the same back but obviously not :(

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Originally Posted by FlyingJesus

I used to have a relationship like this. Typically it's that way for the first month or two then I get bored or something, but one was good for nearly a year then was like BOOM we're gonna be rubbish now and was just a massive mess.

yeh same i had a good one for roughly a year without the break-ups but relationships before and after that i just got bored after like ... a week? just wasn't the same.

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Originally Posted by brandon

There are some attractive people out there with good personalities, I would say myself if I dare. You just haven't found one yet. Keep digging and maybe you'll find the buried treasure. Or maybe that buried treasure is no where to be found.

yes, that would be me!!!! kidding, the only attractive and good personality guys i've met are online, none irl :@:@. i've only been with *****rs (my one 'true luv' woz one!!! was funny tho) or fit brain dead guys:rolleyes:

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Originally Posted by MadGuitarist

girls usually only go for gd lookin guys. thats cos if theres a group of guys, n the 1 that just hangs back not standin out n aint good lookin is the 1 with the personality u want, but girls never go for tht 1 do they... so i suppose u miss out

but if there's an ugly person there is no way you're gonna get to know their personality. I've said it before, i aint gonna strike up a conversation with an ugly guy therefore i won't know/give a **** about what kinda personality they have. Saying that tho, i have dated some *****rs, only cause they make me laugh + are usually like bad boys or something ^_^ i guess that's where i go wrong tho, not giving people chances :P

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Originally Posted by cocaine

lol girls always say that but then most of them go for badboys who will just use them.

& protect them...
25-01-2009, 11:04 AM
leah

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Originally Posted by FlyingJesus

What you on about I'm fit and great

LOOOL whatever trevor

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Originally Posted by x!candi!x

BIG HEAD!! :rolleyes:

he doesn't have a big head, he has a huge chin. :P