Am I the problem?

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23-01-2009, 11:49 AM
LuckyPopcorn

Am I the problem?

I was speaking to girlfriend on MSN last night and we've only been together for just over 3 weeks. I'm 16 and My Girlfriend is 15, everytime when I see her she's always with her mates.

I have nothing against her friends, but I would really like to spend so time with her. But when I asked if she wanted to come around mine she was like "Uhm what could we do". Therefore I was like Watch a film and stuff go on the computer play guitar hero and have dinner at my house.

What really she shocked me she said "Omg, that'd be so boring"

So I was pretty upset as I was called "Boring" practically from my own girlfriend

I'm not sure if spending time with me is boring or just my self.:(

Anyone give an any advice

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24-01-2009, 07:47 PM
StripedTiger

invite her to the pics and say you can go to yours afterwards and get a take-away for tea. Atleast then your both out and in the house...

if she says that boring then slap her cos tbh, even id love to play guitar hero with my bf to see if i can beat him lol

if she says anything is boring again say something like "okay, well we'll go to yours and play barbies" XD
24-01-2009, 08:01 PM
Twist

Doesn't sound like the 'perfect' girl. Just keep inviting her to things then if it's going nowhere sit down and talk to her about where the relationship is going.
25-01-2009, 12:27 AM
leah

Like I said in the other thread you made, ask her what she wants to do.
25-01-2009, 12:35 AM
x!candi!x

Quote:

Originally Posted by LuckyPopcorn

I was speaking to girlfriend on MSN last night and we've only been together for just over 3 weeks. I'm 16 and My Girlfriend is 15, everytime when I see her she's always with her mates.

I have nothing against her friends, but I would really like to spend so time with her. But when I asked if she wanted to come around mine she was like "Uhm what could we do". Therefore I was like Watch a film and stuff go on the computer play guitar hero and have dinner at my house.

Well who wants to be hanging around on the streets???
She's boring if that's all she wants to do.

And when I have a boyfriend that's all we do!!
Lie in bed watch films, eat food and play games and ..... ;)

Just keep asking her to do stuff and if she keeps saying no then she's a lost cause.
26-01-2009, 08:19 PM
LuckyPopcorn

I have been thats the thing

And all she does just because I smoke weed too
She's always like like "Lets get a bud" =/

I don't mind it but it's jsut boring after-a-while

Even when I asked for her to go to the cinema she goes "I'll think about it" =/
01-02-2009, 01:00 PM
GoldSolid

get her chonged out of her face and then bang her up the wall and then on the kitchen work surface
09-02-2009, 11:51 AM
leah

It's obviously not working out if shes like this with you.
I say dump her.
09-02-2009, 02:34 PM
Immenseman

ask her what she wants to do, it sounds like a good laugh to me. If you were in a decent relationship she'd want to spend time with you anyway thus it's not a good relationship. The question remains kiss or diss? diss!
16-02-2009, 05:34 AM
Meg.

Quote:

Originally Posted by x!candi!x

And when I have a boyfriend that's all we do!!
Lie in bed watch films, eat food and play games and ..... ;)

That's exactly what my boyfriend and I do, and we have a lot of fun just being in the presence of each other.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Leaahh.

It's obviously not working out if shes like this with you.
I say dump her.

I'm with Leaahh on this one.

She seems way too immature to be in a relationship, she's a lost cause. Let her go and move on, there's plenty more fish in the sea.
16-02-2009, 04:20 PM
uje

Hit her with your dads car.

Or just dump her.
16-02-2009, 08:01 PM
Ali

i say you should ask her about it.
if its on msn then its just words and you dont know what context shes saying that in. it could be a joke or something.
if shes younger, even though its just a year, its still significant and she may just be nervous to spend time alone with you in case theres nothing to talk about.
id say talk about funny stuff on msn and then when u see her alone, and theres nothing to talk about you can laugh about the funny things - this also gives you a 'bond' because its a private joke between you (:

hope this helps
25-02-2009, 11:56 PM
CJW93

Quote:

Originally Posted by x!candi!x

Well who wants to be hanging around on the streets???
She's boring if that's all she wants to do.

And when I have a boyfriend that's all we do!!
Lie in bed watch films, eat food and play games and ..... ;)

Just keep asking her to do stuff and if she keeps saying no then she's a lost cause.

He touches your penis
26-02-2009, 04:52 AM
MrGazet

nah mate shes the problem.Maybe she's scared/awkward to spend time with you?It's only been 3 weeks and shes only 15.You should try to bond with her more and seeing u talk to her much on MSN, try to get her from there.Probs,when she's comfortable enough with you,she would spend time with you.Keep inviting her to do things and ask her wot would she like to do.If still things remain the same,I guess you'll have to let it go mate
26-02-2009, 05:38 PM
mike475

jump her, but dont let her know its you.
then when shes all battered and beaten up, you can care for her and look after her.

works every time :)
06-03-2009, 09:40 PM
.Zi

Quote:

Originally Posted by Leaahh.

It's obviously not working out if shes like this with you.
I say dump her.

I'm with Leah, but maybe its that she dosen't like Guitar Hero and things, say pick a movie and we will see it and then shee chooses?

If shes just like "Thats boring" Then i'm going with Leah!
07-03-2009, 02:10 PM
iDenning

Quote:

Originally Posted by mike475

jump her, but dont let her know its you.
then when shes all battered and beaten up, you can care for her and look after her.

works every time :)

Coming from a professional there...
I say just give her habbo thrones, shell be happy :) lol
09-03-2009, 08:16 AM
Togepi

Wth

Boring?
and you're 16?.. I'm 19.
If i had a gf.. i'd invite her over to play cod5. ;D!?
Now how boring does tha' make me sound.
I actually thought it sounded cool.. :( i'd love girl to invite me over to play cod!? do these women exsist?.
I can imagine it now...
"Hey Hun...? Fancy coming around go on habbo 2gether"
I wouldn't go out with someone who wasn't interested tho, personally in what i liked. im guessing you like games 'n' stuff?
16-05-2009, 12:37 PM
Orbeus

Quote:

Originally Posted by LuckyPopcorn

I was speaking to girlfriend on MSN last night and we've only been together for just over 3 weeks. I'm 16 and My Girlfriend is 15, everytime when I see her she's always with her mates.

I have nothing against her friends, but I would really like to spend so time with her. But when I asked if she wanted to come around mine she was like "Uhm what could we do". Therefore I was like Watch a film and stuff go on the computer play guitar hero and have dinner at my house.

What really she shocked me she said "Omg, that'd be so boring"

So I was pretty upset as I was called "Boring" practically from my own girlfriend

I'm not sure if spending time with me is boring or just my self.:(

Anyone give an any advice

I WOULD LEAVE AND FLIRT WITH SOMEONE ELSE I MEAN, SHE WOULD BE SO JEALOUS AND THEN SHE WOUDN'T OF WANTED TO BREAK UP WITH YOU!! Orbeusxx

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17-05-2009, 10:27 AM
Sxejess

She sounds more boring to me :p I go to my bfs and I play games with him and we watch movies and stuff like that and I don't get bored :o How can you when you are practically trying to win the game but you can't :p

Ask her what she wants to do 2bh but if she says you choose then thats stupid. I'd leave her if she was like that 2bh.
17-05-2009, 01:55 PM
Mrs.McCall

I think the issue here is regarding romance. Perhaps she wanted to do something more fun like go out somewhere? I think others are right, I think you should ask her what she wants to do.

My idea of a perfect night doesn't involve Guitar Hero. I like to be taken out, go the cinema, have a meal somewhere. Something different to what I can do at home.

Be more spontaneous with her. I don't think she was calling you boring because she wouldn't still be with you.
17-05-2009, 06:21 PM
Jam

Quote:

Originally Posted by Orbeus

I WOULD LEAVE AND FLIRT WITH SOMEONE ELSE I MEAN, SHE WOULD BE SO JEALOUS AND THEN SHE WOUDN'T OF WANTED TO BREAK UP WITH YOU!! Orbeusxx

You bumped a two month dead thread. Well done, here's a 'Unable to use a forum correctly' badge.
25-05-2009, 11:31 PM
ItsDave

From what you've said it doesn't sound as if you two are very compatible. If you two were happy together she shouldn't have to bring her friends, instead just cuddling together in the bedroom, or sitting together listening to music, y'know simple things. It sounds like you need someone who's alot nicer.