okay so.

right.

so, for the last few days, i've constantly been out with this girl, she had a boyfriend but his a cheating ass, he didn't treat her right at all, went around sleeping with other girls - etc.

So, since saturday, i've been with her a lot, i mean, out drinking, smoking and just helping her out and getting to know if she likes me - her cusen thinks that we'd be a good pare.

On monday she found the boyfriend and he said to her "it's over, i found another girl" how harsh is that?

so as I said, I've been with her a lot, tuesday night/wed morning, we awas drinking, i unfortunally was sick :-( but on her steps to her front door.

she walked me up home and gave me a hug.

What do I do? I'm going to give her tiem to get over things.. I've been waiting for 3/4 months to actually get a chance cus you know..

Seems pretty obvious

tell her how you feel if she's not interested move on

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Originally Posted by Soy

Seems pretty obvious

tell her how you feel if she's not interested move on

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I think hes asking more when to do it. I think your in a great position. As a close freind you should be able to tell how she feel if she talks about her feelings to you. If she says you know, she still loves him, its clear not to ask her out. Don't do anything yet, but talk to her about him, help her get over him if you need to. If she stays with him even though he cheated, she probably has alot of love for that guy, I wouldn't ask yet.

Do it now, you could atleast be like the rebound :)

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Originally Posted by Browney

I think hes asking more when to do it. I think your in a great position. As a close freind you should be able to tell how she feel if she talks about her feelings to you. If she says you know, she still loves him, its clear not to ask her out. Don't do anything yet, but talk to her about him, help her get over him if you need to. If she stays with him even though he cheated, she probably has alot of love for that guy, I wouldn't ask yet.

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she hates him

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Originally Posted by Shibz22

Do it now, you could atleast be like the rebound :)

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That is the WORST advice ever.

Tell her how you feel, don't make it go on for ages wondering what to do, trust me.
Just get it over with and you will feel better whatever the outcome is.

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Originally Posted by Jackbee

Tell her how you feel, don't make it go on for ages wondering what to do, trust me.
Just get it over with and you will feel better whatever the outcome is.

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I think so, i'll give her some time on her own for now and on Friday i'll tell her to come out again.

I think that's the best idea.

by the way guys, I've left you all +rep.

Leave it a couple of weeks try and help her through it and spend as much time possible with her x then if she don't say anything say it to her x

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Originally Posted by midlight

Leave it a couple of weeks try and help her through it and spend as much time possible with her x then if she don't say anything say it to her x

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I'm thinking of leaving it fullstop, I've waited too much time and it will never happen.

Wow you're getting her drunk and still haven't done anything what's up with that

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Originally Posted by FlyingJesus

Wow you're getting her drunk and still haven't done anything what's up with that

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I'm mature enught to not do anything like that thank you very much.

I'm going to go get her a box of cocchlates just to say sorry to what I did :(

Yes you're right, sex is such an immature thing. Hiding your feelings and forcing yourself to stay around while she's off with other boys is a far better plan. Gosh if only I'd never made a move on any of the girls I've liked, I could have been a mature virgin with no confidence :( damn my life choices

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Yes you're right, sex is such an immature thing. Hiding your feelings and forcing yourself to stay around while she's off with other boys is a far better plan. Gosh if only I'd never made a move on any of the girls I've liked, I could have been a mature virgin with no confidence :( damn my life choices

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I'd prepher to be sober then attempt to have sex with her thank you.

Personally, I would leave it a while as the last thing you ever want to be is a rebound especially as she has not long come out of a relationship, regardless of how much she may like you. Let her clear her head and sort out how she may feel and it has a better chance of working out for both of you :) and lowers the chance of one or both of you getting hurt.

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Originally Posted by Starburst..x

Personally, I would leave it a while as the last thing you ever want to be is a rebound especially as she has not long come out of a relationship, regardless of how much she may like you. Let her clear her head and sort out how she may feel and it has a better chance of working out for both of you :) and lowers the chance of one or both of you getting hurt.

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yeah, true..

I went out tonight with her, she started talking to me... I gave her some chocchlates to say sorry to her. She came to my work :)

actually, to follow up on that. she doesn't want to let me go, I tried to avoid her and so did she to me and she does come back i mean, i don't know but we can't let each other go cus we always end up texting, talking, being out and stuff or at work.

Well it shows that she obviously likes you, so maybe just take it slow as in go out together i.e cinema, shopping etc and get used to having eachother as company and let it develop from there. That way there is not the pressure of having to be a couple so quickly and making things seemed rushed, but your still an 'item' and enjoying eachothers company :)

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Originally Posted by Soy

Seems pretty obvious

tell her how you feel if she's not interested move on

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exacally :)!!

Just keep on texting and going out and that, sooner or later something will happen if you both like eachother. Maybe if she gives you a sign she likes you, or flirts you tell her.

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Originally Posted by Leaahh.

Just keep on texting and going out and that, sooner or later something will happen if you both like eachother. Maybe if she gives you a sign she likes you, or flirts you tell her.

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I think she likes me, I really do - but I don't want to ask her

she said to none of my friends "I really like him" and I wanted to know who it is! :(

Awe glad to see it's working out x
I think it's time to make a move x x

Let her come to you, but If you want to date her then you should like, give her some time. 2-3 weeks are probably good.

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Originally Posted by HabbaJabba

Let her come to you, but If you want to date her then you should like, give her some time. 2-3 weeks are probably good.

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yeah, i think so - I just spent some more time with her today... then took her to work (:

now I am thinking if I should do it. becasue her cusen told me that "she really liked someone" as stated before... I am really hoping it's me.

mmhm well okaii.. if you hang out with her daily and yahh that would mean she likes you.. if she didn't like you she wouldn't be hanging with u... and its very cute and nice that you comforted her when she got dumped.... :)good job :P

She told your friend that because she's waiting for you to ask her. Just ask her.

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Originally Posted by blanky12!

yeah, true..

I went out tonight with her, she started talking to me... I gave her some chocchlates to say sorry to her. She came to my work :)

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If she come to your work she defo likes you.

When telling her everything just make sure she knows that nothing (your chats etc) will change (as in becoming worse). Explain that you will still be there for her as a mate. Because alot of girls won't go out with someone they really like because they don't want to ruin their friendship with them :P

Leave it a while so she can get back on her feet but don't wait too long or she'll find someone else. When you're ready give her some flowers and tell her how you feel (girls are more likely to say yes if you give them expensive things).

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Leave it a while so she can get back on her feet but don't wait too long or she'll find someone else. When you're ready give her some flowers and tell her how you feel (girls are more likely to say yes if you give them expensive things).

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nah she is not the type of girl to take flowers...but i think after this weekend i will deffo do it.

I agree with Tom, she was drunk and you never even took advantage? Loser.

Also, being sick on her front door isn't the best way to tell her you like her.

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Originally Posted by Niall!

I agree with Tom, she was drunk and you never even took advantage? Loser.

Also, being sick on her front door isn't the best way to tell her you like her.

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I didn't that's why I brought her soem cochlates.

edit: You called me a loser for not taking advantage? That's quite sick actually... I would never take advantage of a girl even if I am drunk or not.

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Originally Posted by blanky12!

I didn't that's why I brought her soem cochlates.

edit: You called me a loser for not taking advantage? That's quite sick actually... I would never take advantage of a girl even if I am drunk or not.

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And that's why you're a virgin and I'm not.

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Originally Posted by Niall!

And that's why you're a virgin and I'm not.

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If that's what you think - but back to the point... It's sick.

What puzzles me about you is that your constantly posting these threads about different girls, mentioning in all of them how you're spending all this time with them, might love them. It just doesn't sit right. Saying that, I do find your threads entertaining, trying to decode your dyslexic tendencies.

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Originally Posted by RockyHorror

What puzzles me about you is that your constantly posting these threads about different girls, mentioning in all of them how you're spending all this time with them, might love them. It just doesn't sit right. Saying that, I do find your threads entertaining, trying to decode your dyslexic tendencies.

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What RockyHorror Is trying to say Is;

Have you tapped that ass yet?