I hate myself for liking him so bad

Ive kinda moved on from joe now sort of.
everyone was like you can do better than him.
which i cant see how tbh.
http://file047b.bebo.com/21/large/20...687861005l.jpg
btw sorry if im not aloud to put this on here x.
he seemed to good for me.
and this is why i hate myself
becasue i always like the people who are to good for me
i really like this boy called nick. it just seems perfect to be with him
because we both get along so well with each other + we have alot in common with like music and stuff and its so easy to talk. do you ever see someone and feel like you just want to go up to them and have a good old kiss this is how i feel.
thing is. he split up with his gf about a few weeks ago. + well shes really preety well i think she is. some people ive spoke to about said she was ugly.
and well shes extreamly popular and i think snobby and sad because she wouldnt lower down to my standard and talk to people like me. OH no acorse not.
so im worried if he ever did go out with me i would get well beaten up.
and im worried if i tell him i like him and he dont like me back !?
:(

I think you should continue to talk to nick, test the water with him and try and pick up any signs of flirting or him liking you. Ofcourse flirt with him a bit too, but don't make it too obvious. Don't worry about his Ex, shes his ex for a reason.

Aww, I think it's really sad how you put yourself down like that!

If you really like him, then nothing should get in the way, who cares what other people think and if they talk behind your back etc. then they're lower than you'll ever be

If he doesnt like you then who cares, lifes too short to be worried about things like that :), and I'm sure he'll like you aswell, maybe try flirt with him and get to know him a bit more :P

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Originally Posted by Leaahh.

I think you should continue to talk to nick, test the water with him and try and pick up any signs of flirting or him liking you. Ofcourse flirt with him a bit too, but don't make it too obvious. Don't worry about his Ex, shes his ex for a reason.

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i do talk to him . but not as much as i would like to. im to shy to actually go up to him at school ;/ but i was texting him last night and i wrote to him
'if i went up to you and spoke to you at school id proberly be abused so why do you think i never do x.

he said
' i wouldnt i promise you. any one out to hurt you isnt worth your time'

which i thought was quite sweet but proberly just being friendly.

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Originally Posted by midlight

he split up with his gf about a few weeks ago. + well shes really preety well i think she is. some people ive spoke to about said she was ugly.

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Well of course they say that, you're their friend and that's what girls do...

aw i only just got to speak to him ever so quickly x

Nick says:
*i have to go :( x
*ill text you very soon though :D:D x
*i PROMOISE x
Narissaa (: welldone diversity (: shame about the other acts though. they were all so good! says:
*yay :)
*Promise*
Nick says:
*i dont often promise :D x
Narissaa (: welldone diversity (: shame about the other acts though. they were all so good! says:
*lols
*woo
*i must be special then
*ahah
Nick says:
*speak soon babes xx
*(K)
*:D:D x

Good Luck, I'm sure once you speak to him once in person then you'll start speaking all the time and so on.

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Originally Posted by midlight

i do talk to him . but not as much as i would like to. im to shy to actually go up to him at school ;/ but i was texting him last night and i wrote to him
'if i went up to you and spoke to you at school id proberly be abused so why do you think i never do x.

he said
' i wouldnt i promise you. any one out to hurt you isnt worth your time'

which i thought was quite sweet but proberly just being friendly.

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Originally Posted by midlight

aw i only just got to speak to him ever so quickly x

Nick says:
*i have to go :( x
*ill text you very soon though :D:D x
*i PROMOISE x
Narissaa (: welldone diversity (: shame about the other acts though. they were all so good! says:
*yay :)
*Promise*
Nick says:
*i dont often promise :D x
Narissaa (: welldone diversity (: shame about the other acts though. they were all so good! says:
*lols
*woo
*i must be special then
*ahah
Nick says:
*speak soon babes xx
*(K)
*:D:D x

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he likes you :)

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Originally Posted by midlight

aw i only just got to speak to him ever so quickly x

Nick says:
*i have to go :( x
*ill text you very soon though :D:D x
*i PROMOISE x
Narissaa (: welldone diversity (: shame about the other acts though. they were all so good! says:
*yay :)
*Promise*
Nick says:
*i dont often promise :D x
Narissaa (: welldone diversity (: shame about the other acts though. they were all so good! says:
*lols
*woo
*i must be special then
*ahah
Nick says:
*speak soon babes xx
*(K)
*:D:D x

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he seems to think his x key is a form of punctuation. but yes he likes you. that, or hes a playaaa. and dw about looks, if a guy wont date you because of your looks he doesn't deserve you.

well. i spoke to him last night x
was texting at him at 2pm
and i did the silly thing of telling him liked him better than a friend and
he was like aww i feel privelidged and that
and i said i feel like an idiot because you obv dont like me that way
and he said i dont no you that well YET. but what i do know is that your a really nice girl
(:

aww awesome. well, that's good right? best of luck with it all.

he wants you

I think that when you tell a guy you like them they kinda feel pressured into liking you.. imo though.

Maybe idk
I don't think he likes me because he proberly would if come straight out with it x
If I see him at school I'll let you know x

First of all you should never hate yourself for liking anyone and you shouldn't be worrying about getting beaten up either. People fall in love and sometimes that is wrong.

I fell in love with a lad who had a girlfriend and it got really messy and I ended up being hated when the whole affair got found out but it was worth it because I did it out of love. This boy seems to like you and obviously you like him. Take this off MSN and go face to face.

You should never let fear get in the way of something special. You're young and you're pretty and you deserve the best. Go get it.

Awww thats really nice Mrs.McCall

Yea I think you have no problem Narissa - Good luck and all that

I'm not sure though x it's almost like he loves me when it's not in the real world x
I never really speak to him at school and he never reply to any of my Bebo comments well saying never the one I left and he's replyed to this other girls since so I don't think he likes me that way tbh x this is what I hate x no one will like me because they choose the s**** sort x so idk this happens all the time and I end up getting let downs if I see him tommorow I'll let you know and see what happens x

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Originally Posted by midlight

Maybe idk
I don't think he likes me because he proberly would if come straight out with it x
If I see him at school I'll let you know x

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He's probably being cautious with girls because he just broke up with one.

It's soo obvious he likes you. And boys never come out straight with it they're just weird different like that.
People like other people who are supposedly "better" than them.
Lots of people (including me) like celebrities which we know we will never meet in real life, and in my case are a lot older which, if you think about it is actually very very disturbing.
So you have nothing to worry about, you didn't choose who you fell in love with, it just happened.
Just chat to him in school- so what if people see you, what can they do about it?
Best of luck =D

sounds like a bit of a player actually????????

maybe its only me that thinks that

I don't really think a girl can suggest how the boys feels, 'cos their minds probably work different to ours.

tbh ive just totally given up on him. i cba to waiste my time
hes got some other girl in his name with loads of hearts and they keep flirting with each other so owell.

[africain americain accent]

girllll you neeed to get yo' self a reaaaal ma''n

[/africain americain accent]

Well I hate you too.

ive given up completely. i some times wave to him at school
just cba no more. x i like someone that i dont think i should.
lol. im not gonna bother posting another thread about it.
cause im gonna seem like a hore.