:( WHY?? being to clingy??

Wow this happens to me alot

I get to like a girl, really well

But then get dumped for being to clingy

any tips??

cos i seem to be completely useless lol :eusa_wall

Maybe trying giving them some space and not be to clingy :rolleyes:

Like Lucy said give the girl some space and let her talk to you and don't talk to her all the time. I know it's hard because when your with someone, you want to be with them 24/7. But it gets annoying! So yeah, give girls space and the relationship will probs last longer. Good Luck for next time xD!

Wait about 5 years. Teen relationships are bogus.

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Originally Posted by Skajo

Wait about 5 years. Teen relationships are bogus.

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Aye,

Either you was snogging her 24/7 or holding hands or just being with her alot then i can see


or she didnt have any reasons and like someone else and dumped ya for a better boy.

well if you have to much space you dont want to be really distant so just wait for her to send you a text in the morning and take turns on asking each other to meet up. stuff like that.

Don't tell them you love them after a few weeks, it's also in what you say not just your accents.
Watch what you say, don't say anything too early on that implies you might be together for a while, it's creepy. Don't make assumptions. Don't pretend you know them really well, and don't bring up things they've told you all the time. Say she told you her favourite food, don't go and make it ALL the time, it can make someone very wary nowadays, of someone like that, it looks obsessive. Also, use some common sense, don't make the girl uncomfortable, bloody well look at her face and see if she looks freaked out. Ask them if they mind you saying or doing something - ALWAYS ask.

Some girls really do like them to be clingy, Iv been with some that hate it, some that love it, I dont plan on changing myself, if they dont like it they can talk to me about it (Sorry to add, yes im one of you :) )

make her your bish not vice versa

Don't constantly be wanting to meet up with them or constantly texting them. Let them have space but also don't be too distant.

lol, like me. Anyway, Like everybody else says, Give her space, dont text them all the time ect.

Find someone who actually likes you for you and hence doesnt mind any clingyness. That or take then other advice, pretend to be something you not and get a realtionship to last a tiny bit longer despite it being doomed from the start and not really a lot of fun "/

The last girlfriend I had, dumped me for being clingy, despite her being the one who constantly texted me to go on msn, go to her house, and meet up with her every lunch even if I didn't want to lol.

If your being too clingy, you must be holding her hands a lot, or having your arm around her waiste too much so I would probably stop all of that. Those are the things I think my girlfriend saw as being too clingy.