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MMMKAY SO basically im usually pretty good with girls but for some reason this time im not. Basically i really like this girl and i have for awhile. I'm also like 99% sure she likes me aswell. We talk everyday and also text eachother all the time when we arent toghter but i cant seem to ask her out like i've had girlfriends before but for some reason i just can't figure out how to ask her out or what to do? So my question is why is this happening, how can i over come it, and whats the best way to ask her out.


Might sound stupid but its really weird never happens to me and now it is. (I usually look at threads like these and just laugh and it sucks happening to yourself cuz now i feel dumb)

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Lol who writes these threads... Haha I'm a joker ay ;D

Erm, best thing to do is to just come out with it surely? Do not text it, ask in person. Best way. And erm, maybe like joke about it if that makes sense. Like when ur with her by urself just like ask 'why aren't we going out yet?' trust, it'll work

I know how you feel about the last part.

but anyways. to ask her out, just act natural. be yourself. if she says no, don't freak out or beg. usually the girl does like you back, especially if she's acting like it. many girls are open about their feelings like that. just go for it!!!!!! =] just say something like 'hey, I really like you, do you want to go out with me sometime?' hope this helps!

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Originally Posted by kk.

Lol who writes these threads... Haha I'm a joker ay ;D

Erm, best thing to do is to just come out with it surely? Do not text it, ask in person. Best way. And erm, maybe like joke about it if that makes sense. Like when ur with her by urself just like ask 'why aren't we going out yet?' trust, it'll work

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I would never text it or msn that would be terrible haha. We also do sorta joke about it but yeah i dunno :P

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Originally Posted by ,Lexiilu

I know how you feel about the last part.

but anyways. to ask her out, just act natural. be yourself. if she says no, don't freak out or beg. usually the girl does like you back, especially if she's acting like it. many girls are open about their feelings like that. just go for it!!!!!! =] just say something like 'hey, I really like you, do you want to go out with me sometime?' hope this helps!

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Seems easy enough but i just cant figure out the best time or place/i get nervous when im about too usually.



I've +rep'd you ,Lexillu but i gotta spread for kk.

No worries, I don't give advice for rep :P

if you always joke, then maybe just the next time be more serious after you've joked, it's a good way to get into the conversation, and it will work.. Trust me lol

good luck whatever you decide!

Alright i think I'm gonna attempt it next week after my exams :P

just tell her you like her if you're so sure she likes you back, if she says she likes you too kiss her and ask her to the cinema or something.

I know but i mean i guess i just get shy well not really shy i have no problems talking to her but when I'm about to ask or something i just don't i guess i get nervous or something?

where should i ask her i mean at school or just tell her to come over ?

when youre alone with her probably

Usually in the past i've done it at school? So should i just do it there or should i ask her to come to my place or go for a walk or what do you think would be best?

i dunno, maybe like, if youre ever alone at school. I still say go for the joking to serious method tho ;D

lmao so basically
- Why aren't we going out yet (jokingly)
= I'm not sure
- So why don't we?
= OKAYYYYYYYYYYYYYY

is that the plan then ?

yehh along those lines. it will work, i think. maybe we should ask a girl, although they prob wont know unless theyve been in that situation

whip your parts out say "it's yours if you want ;)"

with the wink!


Yes, do exactly that.

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Originally Posted by kk.

yehh along those lines. it will work, i think. maybe we should ask a girl, although they prob wont know unless theyve been in that situation

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If it comes up ill try it but im not gonna go outta my way to do it jokingly :P

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Originally Posted by Blinger

whip your parts out say "it's yours if you want ;)"

with the wink!


Yes, do exactly that.

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Yeah but that won't really help my asking her out situation

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Originally Posted by Blinger

whip your parts out say "it's yours if you want ;)"

with the wink!


Yes, do exactly that.

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pretty sure thisll work too. Ive tried it myself and worked a charm

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Originally Posted by Arch

If it comes up ill try it but im not gonna go outta my way to do it jokingly :P

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Theres no point holding back imo. Just ask her, but not when you are talking about something like death/something depressing or some **** like that.

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Originally Posted by Arch

Yeah but that won't really help my asking her out situation

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It will work!

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Originally Posted by kk.

pretty sure thisll work too. Ive tried it myself and worked a charm

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O rly?

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Originally Posted by Blinger

Theres no point holding back imo. Just ask her, but not when you are talking about something like death/something depressing or some **** like that.



It will work!

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I mean i can pull down my pants but she'll prob just get angry, i don't wanna blind her

She's either really small, or you're just really big. Of course she could be kneeling down but then I suppose you'd be past the awkwardness of being in a relationship

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O rly?



I mean i can pull down my pants but she'll prob just get angry, i don't wanna blind her

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Just don't poke her in the eye. oh-lololol! im so funneh!

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She's either really small, or you're just really big. Of course she could be kneeling down but then I suppose you'd be past the awkwardness of being in a relationship

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I've done stuff with her before i didn't find that awkward but i mean i cant ask her out ill die.

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Originally Posted by Blinger

Just don't poke her in the eye. oh-lololol! im so funneh!

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HA HA HA OMG U ARE SO FUNNNNNEHHHHH hehehehelolololol

No but serious that was pretty good

In that case it's surely a lot easier ;l ask her whilst youre doing stuff LOL

i guess thats an idea although it will most likely not happen