Stuck - Advice needed +repp

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12-02-2010, 08:15 PM
kuzkasate

Stuck - Advice needed +repp

Well basically I'm in one of these situations where your bound to loose something.

Well on Valentines day, I'm gonna finish my girlfriend. For a simple reason, which I cannot say, but she deserves so it someones gonna have a crap valentines day. (Let her suffer cos I'm evil :eusa_danc)

So yeah, as I would of had nothing to do on Valentines Day my best friends gf asked me if I wanted to come with her after she went out with my best friend.. the thing is I've really really liked her for nearly 3 years. So obv I said yes and she said she will bring some alcohol and also said "Dont blame me if I do something to you.. like lips you lol"

Thing is, she may of said it as a joke but I know for a fact she will... she was like but I bet you will tell (my best friend) so obv she wanted to.. now she likes me "abit" so what should I do...

Go with her, get drunk and do some snogging? But then I will feel quite snide on my best friend... I'm really stuck because I've liked her for YEARS and its just like... :S

So people help! All advice +repped

EDIT: I ALREADY SAID I WOULD AND SHE SAID SHE WOULD WANT ME TO.. BUT LIKE IM REALLY CONFUSED.
12-02-2010, 08:18 PM
Arch

If you like your bestfriend more then the girlthen don't do it, and if you like the girl more then do it. But tbh there will be more girls and you only have so many bestfriends so for me i wouldnt but its up to you!

Bros before **** (farming **** of course)
12-02-2010, 08:19 PM
kuzkasate

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Originally Posted by Arch

If you like your bestfriend more then the girlthen don't do it, and if you like the girl more then do it. But tbh there will be more girls and you only have so many bestfriends so for me i wouldnt but its up to you!

Bros before **** (farming **** of course)

Yeah but thing is.. hes sort of a shifty best friend. We are only best friends in school but outa we never talk.. and I think he would do the same to me.. but I really really like her. Not only do I love her, but she is also my best friend.. we can talk about anything at all. Thanks anyway +repped

P.S I like farming goes.
12-02-2010, 08:21 PM
Stryderman

Your gonna wait till valentines day to finish with your girlfriend?

That is totally unacceptable, You should do it now either on msn or text or phone or tommorrow. Because if she actually spent money on you when your just absolutely taking the mick then that is just tight.

Sorry but this is the worst post ive seen for ages -rep.
12-02-2010, 08:23 PM
Arch

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Originally Posted by StalinJoseph

Yeah but thing is.. hes sort of a shifty best friend. We are only best friends in school but outa we never talk.. and I think he would do the same to me.. but I really really like her. Not only do I love her, but she is also my best friend.. we can talk about anything at all. Thanks anyway +repped

P.S I like farming goes.

Well if hes shifty then sure I'd prob do it especially since you say you like her loads.

Also i wouldnt do it on valentines day either because her friend you wanna get with might think thats really rude and not want to be with you after.
12-02-2010, 08:24 PM
kuzkasate

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Originally Posted by TheHexGirls

Your gonna wait till valentines day to finish with your girlfriend?

That is totally unacceptable, You should do it now either on msn or text or phone or tommorrow. Because if she actually spent money on you when your just absolutely taking the mick then that is just tight.

Sorry but this is the worst post ive seen for ages -rep.

No, she hasnt spent money on me. And how can you say that is tight when you do not know what she did?

And I will dump her when I feel like it.
12-02-2010, 08:27 PM
Stryderman

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Originally Posted by StalinJoseph

No, she hasnt spent money on me. And how can you say that is tight when you do not know what she did?

And I will dump her when I feel like it.

Because its valentines day.

That is one of the worst things you could do.

Regardless of what she did, Your lowering to her level by doing that, Its disgusting.
12-02-2010, 08:29 PM
kuzkasate

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Originally Posted by TheHexGirls

Because its valentines day.

That is one of the worst things you could do.

Regardless of what she did, Your lowering to her level by doing that, Its disgusting.

I think I'll decide that. How do you know what she did? What if she lowered me? You totally don't know her and what she did so why make judgements? I made this thread, NOT to talk about this because I dont NEED to talk about this.
12-02-2010, 08:31 PM
Stryderman

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Originally Posted by StalinJoseph

I think I'll decide that. How do you know what she did? What if she lowered me? You totally don't know her and what she did so why make judgements? I made this thread, NOT to talk about this because I dont NEED to talk about this.

I dont care what she did, Dumping someone on valentines day is disgusting. And especially if your planning to hookup with someone else after, I hope they are just taking you for a ride tbh like your doing with your gf at the moment.
12-02-2010, 08:33 PM
kuzkasate

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Originally Posted by TheHexGirls

I dont care what she did, Dumping someone on valentines day is disgusting. And especially if your planning to hookup with someone else after, I hope they are just taking you for a ride tbh like your doing with your gf at the moment.

Exactly what I am talking about? Let me make that judgement okay... we have hardly been talking for days so its hardly a relationship + all the stuff she did to me BEFORE that and I am not planning to hook up with someone else, I'm just gonna go chill with them, have a few beers and a bit of kissing. Thats what I'm talking about...

Your basically, sticking up for someone you dont know at all and you dont know what they do & did... you cant make judgements like that.
12-02-2010, 08:36 PM
Nicola

Personally I think dumping her on Valentine's is rather pathetic. So you say she did something terrible? Be the bigger man and don't stoop to her level then.

As for your best friend situation I don't recommend kissing your best friend's girlfriend, for pretty obvious reasons :S and you're just going to get a bad rep for yourself.
12-02-2010, 08:38 PM
Stryderman

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Originally Posted by StalinJoseph

Exactly what I am talking about? Let me make that judgement okay... we have hardly been talking for days so its hardly a relationship + all the stuff she did to me BEFORE that and I am not planning to hook up with someone else, I'm just gonna go chill with them, have a few beers and a bit of kissing. Thats what I'm talking about...

Your basically, sticking up for someone you dont know at all and you dont know what they do & did... you cant make judgements like that.

Right so because you havnt talked for days its acceptable to dump someone on valentines day..

I can make judgements like that, You know why? Because whatever she did you are with her now, Meaning you have forgiven her or are just totally gone in the head. Im gonna presume youve forgiven her. ;)

So because shes done some "bad" things to you which you wont even mention.. Your just gonna be a tight £$%£ and finish with her on the one day thats meant to be special to couples.. Yeh nice one.

I now present you with the £$£% of the year award.
12-02-2010, 08:38 PM
kuzkasate

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Originally Posted by Nicola

Personally I think dumping her on Valentine's is rather pathetic. So you say she did something terrible? Be the bigger man and don't stoop to her level then.

As for your best friend situation I don't recommend kissing your best friend's girlfriend, for pretty obvious reasons :S and you're just going to get a bad rep for yourself.

I have my reasons for dumping her on Valentines Day. The main one was that SHE was going to do something on Valentines Day & then dump me herself. The thing thats going on between us is hardly a relationship..

Oh and I was told all this by her friend because she felt sorry for me. So its rather she finishes me and I get owned, or I finish her and she gets owned. ;)

Thanks anyway +repp

EDIT: Need to spread Nicola :(

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Originally Posted by TheHexGirls

Right so because you havnt talked for days its acceptable to dump someone on valentines day..

I can make judgements like that, You know why? Because whatever she did you are with her now, Meaning you have forgiven her or are just totally gone in the head. Im gonna presume youve forgiven her. ;)

So because shes done some "bad" things to you which you wont even mention.. Your just gonna be a tight £$%£ and finish with her on the one day thats meant to be special to couples.. Yeh nice one.

I now present you with the £$£% of the year award.

Not just because she hasn't talked in days! And who the hell said I forgave her? Stop presuming things, the things she did were not only bad, they were low, self-fish disgusting, horrible, vile I cant think of anything else to describe it. She uses people and guess what, she was gonna use me. So thats a way I'm gonna get back on her. Yes but we are not a special couple are we? No we are not. And she probably wont care if I dumped her, because she was gonna do it to me! And guess what, she probably has other "boys" like me she will go to, so yeah, get your facts right.
12-02-2010, 08:50 PM
Stryderman

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Originally Posted by StalinJoseph

Not just because she hasn't talked in days! And who the hell said I forgave her? Stop presuming things, the things she did were not only bad, they were low, self-fish disgusting, horrible, vile I cant think of anything else to describe it. She uses people and guess what, she was gonna use me. So thats a way I'm gonna get back on her. Yes but we are not a special couple are we? No we are not. And she probably wont care if I dumped her, because she was gonna do it to me! And guess what, she probably has other "boys" like me she will go to, so yeah, get your facts right.

So if you havnt forgiven her what the hell are you still doing with her..

Be the bigger however old you are and dump her now instead of waiting to do it "when shes gonna dump me" you sound like your about 7.

"I KNOW UR GONNA DO THAT BUT IM GONNA DO IT THE SAME DAY!111"

What you are doing is disgusting, horrible, vile, low and selfish. Whats the difference? Your going to try and make yourself feel better by dumping someone on valentines day just to get revenge..

Im not presuming anything at all. You dont stay with a girl unless you forgive her and if you havnt are you mentally challenged? I dont mean to be rude but seriously what other reasons are you staying with her for.. It cnt be for sex as you havnt spoke in a couple of days and it wouldnt be that if your going to go "chill" with another girl and do some "kissing"..
12-02-2010, 08:53 PM
kuzkasate

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Originally Posted by TheHexGirls

Right so because you havnt talked for days its acceptable to dump someone on valentines day..

I can make judgements like that, You know why? Because whatever she did you are with her now, Meaning you have forgiven her or are just totally gone in the head. Im gonna presume youve forgiven her. ;)

So because shes done some "bad" things to you which you wont even mention.. Your just gonna be a tight £$%£ and finish with her on the one day thats meant to be special to couples.. Yeh nice one.

I now present you with the £$£% of the year award.

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Originally Posted by TheHexGirls

So if you havnt forgiven her what the hell are you still doing with her..

Be the bigger however old you are and dump her now instead of waiting to do it "when shes gonna dump me" you sound like your about 7.

"I KNOW UR GONNA DO THAT BUT IM GONNA DO IT THE SAME DAY!111"

What you are doing is disgusting, horrible, vile, low and selfish. Whats the difference? Your going to try and make yourself feel better by dumping someone on valentines day just to get revenge..

Im not presuming anything at all. You dont stay with a girl unless you forgive her and if you havnt are you mentally challenged? I dont mean to be rude but seriously what other reasons are you staying with her for.. It cnt be for sex as you havnt spoke in a couple of days and it wouldnt be that if your going to go "chill" with another girl and do some "kissing"..

Yes. I am getting revenge... I'm hardly going to leave it? Yes it will make me feel better. Yes I am mentally challenged and I have my own personal reasons why I'm with her, I did it to check a few things before hand. ;)
12-02-2010, 08:57 PM
Stryderman

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Originally Posted by StalinJoseph

Yes. I am getting revenge... I'm hardly going to leave it? Yes it will make me feel better. Yes I am mentally challenged and I have my own personal reasons why I'm with her, I did it to check a few things before hand. ;)

Why not leave it..

Your going to make yourself seem an idiot to other people when they find out how tight you are because you dumped your missus on valentines day. Yeh it might be revenge but alot of girls are gonna look at you like asif.
12-02-2010, 08:59 PM
kuzkasate

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Originally Posted by TheHexGirls

Why not leave it..

Your going to make yourself seem an idiot to other people when they find out how tight you are because you dumped your missus on valentines day. Yeh it might be revenge but alot of girls are gonna look at you like asif.

All my friends know and they ALL say, they would of done the same, if not worse. Other girls wont look at me like that because they know her, they know what shes like and they are supporting me with it.

So now, maybe now, can you imagine the sort of thing she could of done to get that sort response from EVERYONE?
12-02-2010, 09:02 PM
Stryderman

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Originally Posted by StalinJoseph

All my friends know and they ALL say, they would of done the same, if not worse. Other girls wont look at me like that because they know her, they know what shes like and they are supporting me with it.

So now, maybe now, can you imagine the sort of thing she could of done to get that sort response from EVERYONE?

No because i still think your in the wrong, No matter what someone has done you are stooping to their level by doing what your going to do.
12-02-2010, 09:06 PM
kuzkasate

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Originally Posted by TheHexGirls

No because i still think your in the wrong, No matter what someone has done you are stooping to their level by doing what your going to do.

Fair enough thats your opinion, but in my opinion, I am not. She WOULD do the same thing to me... I told you, she was planning it.. so why would I take that? When I could just do what I wanted to :S
12-02-2010, 11:05 PM
wiktoria

Dumping someone on Valentine's Day is like the meanest thing ever :S:S
12-02-2010, 11:07 PM
ChickenFaces

Dumping someone on Valentines Day is horrible! Don't do something... Actually don't even think of doing something so mean because it will bite you in the bum someday.
12-02-2010, 11:09 PM
LuciieOx

dumping sum1 on valentines is mean & why ask 4 advice if ur nott gnaa takeeee it anyway ;s ;llllllllll
12-02-2010, 11:11 PM
ILoveYouXoim

wrong

Dont dump that girl on valantines day that is sick and wrong and going out with your friends gf is wrong
12-02-2010, 11:16 PM
dbgtz

I know someone who dumped his girlfriend on her birthday, he hasn't had a girlfriend and really been loved by girls since, he's a penis who no one likes.
12-02-2010, 11:30 PM
United-Clowgon

One of the reasons why you created this thread is get opinions/advice from us and yet, you are being an arrogant ass and not listening? Dear me.

Why dump her on Valentines day? What point are you trying to prove? Dump her now, get it over and done with, because you're just acting like a spoiled brat and if you're girlfriend cheated on you, this could be one of the main reasons why she did such thing.
13-02-2010, 01:54 AM
-K8T!E-

I have to agree with everyone else, no matter what she did, dumping her on valentines day is a horrible thing to do. I can see how you're tempted seeing as she was horrible to you but do the decent thing and end it before valentines day.
13-02-2010, 03:27 AM
Stefy09

If you dump her on valentines day then i hope she kills you on halloween
13-02-2010, 04:28 AM
Richie

dump her today at least your some douche if you dump her tomo
13-02-2010, 06:51 AM
Arch

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Originally Posted by Stefy09

If you dump her on valentines day then i hope she kills you on halloween

OMG lmao i dont know why but i found that so funny haha +rep if i can

but ye dont ?
13-02-2010, 08:47 AM
Blinger1

Do it tbh. Who cares when you dump her? Valentines day is a load of tosh. Just a way for companies to make more cash...
13-02-2010, 03:16 PM
kuzkasate

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Originally Posted by ChickenFaces

Dumping someone on Valentines Day is horrible! Don't do something... Actually don't even think of doing something so mean because it will bite you in the bum someday.

I wouldn't mind...

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Originally Posted by LuciieOx

dumping sum1 on valentines is mean & why ask 4 advice if ur nott gnaa takeeee it anyway ;s ;llllllllll

Because I created this thread not to get advice about this. I DIDNT WANT ADVICE ABOUT THIS.

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Originally Posted by mrselenagomez

I know someone who dumped his girlfriend on her birthday, he hasn't had a girlfriend and really been loved by girls since, he's a penis who no one likes.

shame. funnily enough all my friends support me

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Originally Posted by United-Clowgon

One of the reasons why you created this thread is get opinions/advice from us and yet, you are being an arrogant ass and not listening? Dear me.

Why dump her on Valentines day? What point are you trying to prove? Dump her now, get it over and done with, because you're just acting like a spoiled brat and if you're girlfriend cheated on you, this could be one of the main reasons why she did such thing.

Like I said, your giving me advice I never asked for. Why give me all this when I didnt ask for it?

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Originally Posted by Blinger

Do it tbh. Who cares when you dump her? Valentines day is a load of tosh. Just a way for companies to make more cash...

Exactly. My soon to be ex is a total :rude: anyway.

So all you people moaning about why are you not taking the advice and being arrogant well I didnt ask for advice on this, if you bothered to read it you would know which advice I need.
13-02-2010, 03:19 PM
Stryderman

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Originally Posted by StalinJoseph

I wouldn't mind...

Because I created this thread not to get advice about this. I DIDNT WANT ADVICE ABOUT THIS.

shame. funnily enough all my friends support me

Like I said, your giving me advice I never asked for. Why give me all this when I didnt ask for it?

Exactly. My soon to be ex is a total :rude: anyway.

So all you people moaning about why are you not taking the advice and being arrogant well I didnt ask for advice on this, if you bothered to read it you would know which advice I need.

Then dont state when your going to do it as it will blatently cause arguments and people are giving you advice about it, your just deciding not to take it. Them saying dont dump her then is actually advice if you didnt want advice on it you shouldnt of written that in the original post.
13-02-2010, 04:05 PM
buttons

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Originally Posted by TheHexGirls

I dont care what she did, Dumping someone on valentines day is disgusting. And especially if your planning to hookup with someone else after, I hope they are just taking you for a ride tbh like your doing with your gf at the moment.

disgusting? puhlease.

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Originally Posted by StalinJoseph

Not just because she hasn't talked in days! And who the hell said I forgave her? Stop presuming things, the things she did were not only bad, they were low, self-fish disgusting, horrible, vile I cant think of anything else to describe it. She uses people and guess what, she was gonna use me. So thats a way I'm gonna get back on her. Yes but we are not a special couple are we? No we are not. And she probably wont care if I dumped her, because she was gonna do it to me! And guess what, she probably has other "boys" like me she will go to, so yeah, get your facts right.

yeah so you know how she uses people yet you go date her in the first place? i don't think so.

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Originally Posted by TheHexGirls

So if you havnt forgiven her what the hell are you still doing with her..

because pretending to forgive people then hurting them when they last expect it is funny. not even being sarcastic but some bint slapped me, so i pretend to forgive her to get HER to trust ME, then she got it back twice as bad so yeah. it's a brilliant idea, i see where he's coming from. just not why he dated her in the first place knowing what she was like.

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Originally Posted by Wikyish

Dumping someone on Valentine's Day is like the meanest thing ever :S:S

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Originally Posted by ChickenFaces

Dumping someone on Valentines Day is horrible! Don't do something... Actually don't even think of doing something so mean because it will bite you in the bum someday.

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Originally Posted by LuciieOx

dumping sum1 on valentines is mean & why ask 4 advice if ur nott gnaa takeeee it anyway ;s ;llllllllll

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Originally Posted by ILoveYouXoim

Dont dump that girl on valantines day that is sick and wrong and going out with your friends gf is wrong

omg yeah it is so so mean i'd much rather someone torture my dog infront of me than be dumped on valentines day :@:@:@ how dare he even think of doing something like this :S:S:S YOU ARE SICK AND WRONG!!!!!!

back to the matter in hand : your friends girlfriend is a ****. why bother going for her? if she's going to cheat on her friend with you then she wouldn't hesitate to cheat on you if you ever got together. and it looks to me like she doesn't want you and is going to go back with him (hence the "you'll tell him") plus she's not willing to finish with him for you. i don't care if you like her, you clearly can't pick a good girl. why not get revenge on this one too? show your friend (even though he's not really your friend but whatever) the things she was saying and just say you were going along with it to show how much of a **** she really is. if you don't you're just going to get played and look like an absolute loser, just for one snog? then everyone will see you as a jerk. its not worth it ^_^
13-02-2010, 04:16 PM
Smits

*REMOVED*. Not only does he name himself after a russian terrorist, but he considers ******* over a 'best' friend.

*REMOVED* are you to plan a revenge and work out exactly when your going to finish this girl. It should of already been done.

ANd why would anybody consider stealing a supposed best friends girlfriend.

Edited by Nicola (Forum Moderator): Please do not be rude or insult other forum members.
13-02-2010, 04:50 PM
United-Clowgon

The guy is right. What friend you are. If i was you're friend and you mess with my girl, you would rue the day you did it.
13-02-2010, 05:57 PM
kuzkasate

Thanks buttons +repped

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Originally Posted by Smits

*REMOVED*. Not only does he name himself after a russian terrorist, but he considers ******* over a 'best' friend.

*REMOVED* are you to plan a revenge and work out exactly when your going to finish this girl. It should of already been done.

ANd why would anybody consider stealing a supposed best friends girlfriend.

Edited by Nicola (Forum Moderator): Please do not be rude or insult other forum members.

Read my -rep comment. I'm not considering anything and my supposidly best friend would probably do the same. And I will finish this girl when I went and how I want.

And I am not considering stealing anyones girlfriend.. its a kiss fgs.

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Originally Posted by United-Clowgon

The guy is right. What friend you are. If i was you're friend and you mess with my girl, you would rue the day you did it.

Funnily enough he would probably do the same. And he really doesn't care... he hardly likes the girl. Hes trying to get some sex with her, but its not working because shes not a ***.