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This person asked me out two days ago, we've been friends for a while. A load of people found out today and in my last unit everyone was taking the Mick, laughing or telling me to dump him. Apparently he's a nerd but he's really not.
I don't want my rep to go down even more but that's really tight to dump someone because of what people say. I've done that not long ago.
You have to think about it this way..
Do you actually like this guy? If so, stay with him, if not, break up with him.
It's extremely out of order to dump someone because of your 'reputation' around school.
Ikr Meree but what i'm saying I'm around 10th most hated which is if o do continue it'll probably be a new #1
You're not going to get any more or less hated whatever your decision, and if you'd dump someone you like due to what some people say then it's no wonder you're 10th most hated.
You shouldn't break up with someone just because of 'status'.
Who cares what people say about you, you're yourself, no-one can change that and if you love this guy, you have the right to love him, no matter what people say.
People shouldn't be involved within a relationship, so don't go around doing what people tell you because if you do that, you'll get nowhere in life.
Just think about it, do you love this guy? or do you just want to lower yourself down and break up with someone because of what 'position' you are in school.
you shouldnt be asking other people whether you should dump him or not. make it your choice not everybody elses. it seems the problem with you is you're trying to be friends with everyone, you will never be friends with everyone, it's impossible. if you like him, keep it going, but don't play him.
your "rep" will go down even further if you dump him : /
you should break his heart then lol about it in years to come
that was a joke btw
do whateva u thinks best use ur brain not ur heart
If you like him keep him, but its only been 2 days...
ahahahahahah just stay with him if you like him.
there was a reaaaaaaallllyy nice guy at school who asked me out but he was quite big, i said no cause i'm shallow and wanted to keep my 'rep' thinking i was too good for him.
2 years later i'm going to college, see a reaaaaaaaally fit guy and find out it's him, now he's the one too good for me (y)
at least "nerds" can have a decent conversation, are intelligent and interesting ;o
also being hated is quite fun :)
I dumped him - nicely though, I explained everything. But he got my best friend to have a big convo persuading me to go out with him. Just found that part out. Oh the joy - I was nearly persuaded
aww I love you Shazzy <3
but now you can figure out whether you really loved him or not :)
now you can date me and have 15 rep points ;)
well if I got here in time, I'd have said dump him (not cos im jealous :p) but cos you obviously care more about your reputation rather than him which didn't seem to me like a proper relationship :D
why would you want to be popular with people who clearly arent your real friends if they're loling at who your going out with? if you really liked this guy you wouldnt care what people said, so its probably a good idea you guys split up.
when i was younger, like only a few years back i used to be like you and be like trying to be 'in' with the """"cool kids""". but then i came to realise that they're (usually) not good people and its better just to be yourself. for example in this situation turns out you dumped this dude so that you wouldnt be less popular. i hope that soon, like i did, you will find out who your real friends are and just grow to not care what people like that think cos its really not important.
sozz for my probably off topic little essay to you but i think its kinda relevant and i hope it helped :P
Think of it this way: Guessing that you're in the older years of secondary school, in no more than two or three years you won't even know the majority of the people telling you to break up unless you're close friends with them.
If popularity at your school is really that much of a problem then why not arrange to be with him just after school where nobody else should be sticking their business.
And the obvious: if you don't really like him then let that be the decider.
QFT.Quote:
Originally Posted by buttons
Don't be an idiot, just stay with the guy.
maybe she doesnt want toQuote:
Originally Posted by OMG_SHANE
gd job on ur 100 posts btw.
that is true, and in the end they will be the best and rule the worldQuote:
Originally Posted by buttons
and to thread maker, you're stupid imo for telling him to **** off
I'm really disappointed that you'd leave somebody because of the petty remarks of others. When it comes to your relationship, the only feelings and opinions that should matter are yours and his. If people are being morons about it then they're just that, and you probably want anything to do with those people anyway.
get out mike she's mine :|Quote:
Originally Posted by Inseriousity.
Shazzy, it's not about what others think, it's about what you think was right :)
lol shaz good choice, relationships suck remember that.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shazzy