Hmm.. I think I made a mistake. +REPP

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26-04-2010, 07:08 PM
kuzkasate

Hmm.. I think I made a mistake. +REPP

Well a few days ago, I got kinda moody with a really close girl-mate and we were very close and very happy. Recently, something occured which, tbh was my fault. We had an arguement over it and she ended up saying sorry (even though it was all my fault) and I felt that, it was her fault, when it was clearly mine so I kept on telling her to ***** off and not to talk to me cos I cba with her anymore. She was very upset and kept on saying "please, forgive me, lets sort this out" so I carried on being my moody self and in the end she said that she wasn't going to give up and that she would carry on.

Now, thinking it over, I've realised what a complete **** I am. And I totally regret it.. the thing is, how do I go about telling her I'm sorry, because I can't just say "Hey, look im sorry k" thats just daft. I want her to actaully see, that I am genuinely sorry. All ideas +repped
26-04-2010, 07:10 PM
galaxy377

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Originally Posted by StalinJoseph

Well a few days ago, I got kinda moody with a really close girl-mate and we were very close and very happy. Recently, something occured which, tbh was my fault. We had an arguement over it and she ended up saying sorry (even though it was all my fault) and I felt that, it was her fault, when it was clearly mine so I kept on telling her to ***** off and not to talk to me cos I cba with her anymore. She was very upset and kept on saying "please, forgive me, lets sort this out" so I carried on being my moody self and in the end she said that she wasn't going to give up and that she would carry on.

Now, thinking it over, I've realised what a complete **** I am. And I totally regret it.. the thing is, how do I go about telling her I'm sorry, because I can't just say "Hey, look im sorry k" thats just daft. I want her to actaully see, that I am genuinely sorry. All ideas +repped

Do You Cry Often ? If Not Make Her See you Cry Over It And Say Sorry To HEr And All... ?
26-04-2010, 07:14 PM
kuzkasate

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Originally Posted by galaxy377

Do You Cry Often ? If Not Make Her See you Cry Over It And Say Sorry To HEr And All... ?

I dont cry that often.. and wouldn't crying make me look abit like a wimp lol? Anyway, thanks +repp
26-04-2010, 07:28 PM
Nixt

Take her out - arrange a day out together to express how sorry you are :)
26-04-2010, 07:33 PM
Nicola

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Originally Posted by Garion

Take her out - arrange a day out together to express how sorry you are :)

This.

Take her out and apologise to her face. If she means a lot to you make sure you mention that aswell!
26-04-2010, 07:39 PM
kuzkasate

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Originally Posted by Garion

Take her out - arrange a day out together to express how sorry you are :)

Hmm.. good idea :)

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Originally Posted by Nicola

This.

Take her out and apologise to her face. If she means a lot to you make sure you mention that aswell!

Yeah, I want to do it face to face, but idk what to say :/ +repp to the bothh of youu
26-04-2010, 07:46 PM
Nicola

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Originally Posted by StalinJoseph

Hmm.. good idea :)

Yeah, I want to do it face to face, but idk what to say :/ +repp to the bothh of youu

Just tell her how sorry you are and that it really wasn't her fault and you feel really bad about it all.
26-04-2010, 07:48 PM
kuzkasate

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Originally Posted by Nicola

Just tell her how sorry you are and that it really wasn't her fault and you feel really bad about it all.

Hmm yeahh.. but its also the thought of not seeing/speaking to her and not being how we used to be.. made me upset.
26-04-2010, 08:00 PM
Shar

What Garion and Nicola said, and just say sorry and mean it really :)
26-04-2010, 08:01 PM
dbgtz

actions speak louder then words, saying that do not buy anything amazing.
for example go to the beach and buy her like an ice cream or something :L it sort of sets like a nice scene that you'll take proper time out of your life in order to apologise rather then sending a 2 second text saying "soz"
26-04-2010, 08:04 PM
Inseriousity.

"Sorry, I've been a jerk" lol just me who'd be blunt and get straight to it then but that's always been my approach lol
26-04-2010, 08:14 PM
kuzkasate

Thanks everyone, ill probs do it tommorrow :) +repped everyone but selena, i gotta spread sorryy ;)
04-05-2010, 11:33 AM
itsMIKEYY

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Originally Posted by StalinJoseph

wouldn't crying make me look abit like a wimp

not at all, it just shows you have emotion and that you're truly sorry.

Write something down in a letter/e-mail/text and explain how much of a muppet you were and how you realised it was your fault, just don't hold back and let her know how you feel.