Any advice??? :/

Well I've liked a girl for about a year - my mum says that I'm getting to the age when I'm getting into girls :P - and she laughs at my jokes, but because he friend is a total idiot, she keeps like walking away when I speak to her. Then the next day she doesn't laugh at my jokes & she won't talk to me at all. Then the next day she does, then the "cycle" starts again.

I wouldn't mind, but she knows I like her, but then she doesn't give anything away. Her friends (that hate me & I hate them) say she doesn't like me, but then I think, well why does she laugh at everything that I say one day, then the next she isn't.

Has anyone got any advice?

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Originally Posted by Gibs960

Well I've liked a girl for about a year - my mum says that I'm getting to the age when I'm getting into girls :P - and she laughs at my jokes, but because he friend is a total idiot, she keeps like walking away when I speak to her. Then the next day she doesn't laugh at my jokes & she won't talk to me at all. Then the next day she does, then the "cycle" starts again.

I wouldn't mind, but she knows I like her, but then she doesn't give anything away. Her friends (that hate me & I hate them) say she doesn't like me, but then I think, well why does she laugh at everything that I say one day, then the next she isn't.

Has anyone got any advice?

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Well, try talk to her a bit more. And don't listen to her friends, if you say they hate you and you hate them, they will tell you anything. They are probably saying it on purpose to piss you off. Don't believe a word until she tells you herself that she doesnt/does like you. Also, I think it'd be best to talk to her about it. If you find it hard to do irl, wait for fb or msn or something and discuss it then. Be careful not to be mean, just be gentle cos she might get the wrong impression.

Hope this helped!

She's never on MSN/Facebook and at school she's always around her friends and my friends follow me even when I tell them to go away :(

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Originally Posted by Gibs960

She's never on MSN/Facebook and at school she's always around her friends and my friends follow me even when I tell them to go away :(

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Ah! I know that feeling lol. Hmm, well could you next ring her on her phone or text her? Surely there is a moment when shes alone, as soon as you see her alone, leg it to her. Or when you make eye contact, just like wave her over and tell her to come here so the others dont see it and when she starts approaching, slowly walk away and then talk.

Buddy you've got to remember that you're at an age where your not even in your teens yet. As cliché as it sounds, you can't actually have a proper relationship until your much older. When I was your age I was into girls aswell - but they couldn't care less.
Keep at it if need be, but don't expect anything yet. Your just a "wee laddie".

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Originally Posted by danzooo

Buddy you've got to remember that you're at an age where your not even in your teens yet. As cliché as it sounds, you can't actually have a proper relationship until your much older. When I was your age I was into girls aswell - but they couldn't care less.
Keep at it if need be, but don't expect anything yet. Your just a "wee laddie".

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That's what she said :L

On a series note that guys right, girls don't really give a crap (well the majority) unless it's like a social thing to gain "popularity". That's my experience.

Firstly your still young (I don't know how I can talk but yeah) and have your whole life ahead of you. Your still in primary too :P - Try to be mates with her, I find if you just talk to her some days acting like MATES she'll get the impression you seriously/really like her. If you just start practically stalking it won't go down well, just treat her like a friend.

It doesn't matter what your and her friends do or say. If your serious about liking her then it shouldn't matter and if you're there for her and her only then keep going for it no matter what. Thats something I can't do and I'll regret it later on.

If she has any common sense she'll realise how you feel. Sometims just hint ''Are you on MSN tonight?'' me and this guy do that to each other a lot.

Good Luck :D

get wasted together and express your love through physical, sexual actions.

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Originally Posted by Metric1

get wasted together and express your love through physical, sexual actions.

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Originally Posted by Shazzy

Firstly your still young... Your still in primary too :P...

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Lmao, legend. On a more serious note, Metric's advice is pretty solid.

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Originally Posted by Metric1

get wasted together and express your love through physical, sexual actions.

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He's 11 babes...

well you could always ask her................

if not pm me for roofies

Why did I get a -rep for that :S

It isn't love when you're so young, putting this bluntly (as people should) get over it. I guarantee when you're older you will have plenty of heartache - why waste time getting it now over silly little crushes that mean nothing. By the sounds of it friends is as far as it will go anyway.

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Originally Posted by Wig44.

It isn't love when you're so young, putting this bluntly (as people should) get over it. I guarantee when you're older you will have plenty of heartache - why waste time getting it now over silly little crushes that mean nothing. By the sounds of it friends is as far as it will go anyway.

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Yes, but tbh, hes still young atm and doesnt realise that yet. Go back to the time when we were his age, we didnt listen to this advice! We all still wanted a relationship at that age and we thought it was serious.. so yano.

Anyway, try your best to get her on her own. Talk to her & maybe give little hints ;)

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Originally Posted by Mr Selena Gomez

On a series note that guys right, girls don't really give a crap (well the majority) unless it's like a social thing to gain "popularity". That's my experience.

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That's a huge sweeping generalistation, as I could easily say that in my experience all boys are commitment phobes and are only interested in pleasing themselves.

But like everyone else said, you really need to talk to her, as you say it may be difficult but if you like her you need to know as it will give you peace of mind.

give up that girls a skank

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Originally Posted by Gibs960

Well I've liked a girl for about a year - my mum says that I'm getting to the age when I'm getting into girls :P - and she laughs at my jokes, but because he friend is a total idiot, she keeps like walking away when I speak to her. Then the next day she doesn't laugh at my jokes & she won't talk to me at all. Then the next day she does, then the "cycle" starts again.

I wouldn't mind, but she knows I like her, but then she doesn't give anything away. Her friends (that hate me & I hate them) say she doesn't like me, but then I think, well why does she laugh at everything that I say one day, then the next she isn't.

Has anyone got any advice?

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maybe she laughs because shes generally flirty & freindly not because she wants your ****


tell her how you feel, if she's a ***** about it then move on

dont put her in a position where she has a choice as you will make her feel like **** if she wants to say no

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Originally Posted by Soy

maybe she laughs because shes generally flirty & freindly not because she wants your ****


tell her how you feel, if she's a ***** about it then move on

dont put her in a position where she has a choice as you will make her feel like **** if she wants to say no

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I agree, in these situations if you give women a choice you are making a mistake! :P

Oh and by the way, dont act all nice infront of her and stuff, dont like her servant. She'll end up taking advantage and itll make you look low. ;)