Ever cheated on anyone?

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29-09-2010, 07:26 PM
Sharon

Ever cheated on anyone?

No I haven't

truthful time tbh
29-09-2010, 07:33 PM
Apple

Nope I can honestly say that I haven't. I remember being on a school trip a few years ago and really liking someone so I ended up texting my girlfriend and finishing her, in the end it got me nowhere because the girl I was close with didn't like the fact that I had finished my girlfriend for her. I could of just not told her about my girlfriend but I'm not like that, was honest/truthful and I got it thrown back in my face. :(
29-09-2010, 07:33 PM
Samantha

No not really, only had two proper relationships though.
29-09-2010, 07:44 PM
Yupt

Nope, never.

I had to tell my best friends girlfriend ,who is also a very good friend of mine, that he was cheating though, hardest thing i've ever done tbh.
29-09-2010, 07:52 PM
Special

no, i'd leave my partner before i get with someone else
29-09-2010, 07:58 PM
buttons

yeahhhh the first as revenge for him cheating on me but i was ~in love~ we could work it out:rolleyes::rolleyes:

my ex with his cousin because he was hot and ~~barely turned legal~~ it was worth it

idc about being loyal at this age anyway & i don't want to be with one guy for the rest of my life n yeh i could finish with them first but that's just no fun sorry
29-09-2010, 10:38 PM
Lindsey

Nopee I have never cheated on someone .
I personally think its wrong , ;
If you are dating someone, and cheat on them , whats the point in dating the other person ?
29-09-2010, 11:07 PM
KyoraStryker

I have, and I regret it. Click the Spoiler below if you care to read the story.

Back in 2007, I was dating a girl that I went to high school with (her name was Liz). Our relationship was awesome. We never argued, always got along, and loved to spend time with one another. By the time I left for basic training (Yes, I'm in the military if you haven't taken the time to read my profile), we had been together for a year and a half, and things between us continued to get better.

Coincidentally, there was a girl I met on Habbo back in 2004 (we'll name her Jenny for the sake of privacy). We were always close, close friends and wanted to actually meet one another, but never found time to do so, despite her being only an hour and a half away from where I lived at the time. She knew about my relationship and welcomed it, saying that she was glad that I found someone close to home, someone I could see daily, etc. Eventually, I ended up meeting her about a month and a half before basic, and the first thing that ran through my mind was that I wished that I was single - she was single, but I was not.

Fast forward to late 2007. While in the school-house for my job training, Jenny and I got closer, far closer than we ever thought possible. So with my profound wisdom, I thought I'd be slick and try to date Jenny whilst dating Liz. For a long, LONG time, Liz never found out about Jenny, and Jenny never found out about Liz, at least until I finished my job training. Liz found out and told me I had a choice: Either to stay with her or end it to get with Jenny. Needless to say, I stayed with Liz, however Jenny was still unaware of Liz.

I had to tell Jenny the truth, and to prove that I was being honest to Liz, she made me call Jenny and tell her, with my phone on speakerphone so that she could hear the entire conversation.

After the heartbreak was over, not surprisingly, Jenny never wanted to talk to me again.

Later on in 2008, Liz and I broke up because I told her that I was looking into being single whilst stationed in Japan.

Clearly, it didn't work out for me. Jenny and I eventually dated, however we didn't last long, and to this day, she never wants to speak to me again. The reason why is completely unrelated to Liz and I, but that's another story in itself.
29-09-2010, 11:09 PM
marriott0.01

Ermmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm in terms of flirting with other people? Yeah... :L

Tbh my last exes I haven't really been too interested in, they were just THERE. Makes me sound shallow. It's also because I can't say no to people :l I'm too nice... If people ask me out, I can't turn around and say no, it makes me feel guilty.
29-09-2010, 11:20 PM
rnix

No. As i'm not a rude and inconsiderate, if someone asks me out and i have no interest in them, then i do the right thing and say no instead of stringing them along :)

But i never cheat
29-09-2010, 11:28 PM
marriott0.01

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Originally Posted by Vegas

No. As i'm not a rude and inconsiderate, if someone asks me out and i have no interest in them, then i do the right thing and say no instead of stringing them along :)

But i never cheat

Okay no need to have a dig at me :S But still some people don't have the guts to say no if they don't wanna hurt someone, so I just wait till they dump me? I'd rather hurt than hurt other people.
29-09-2010, 11:30 PM
rnix

If you say yes to someone you are giving them a illusion of you liking them, when in fact the feelings they show you (which you probs return to be nice) makes them happy and they will be more hurt when they have to dump you because you stop showing your "affection" and stuff.

I wasn't digging i was just relating to what you said.
29-09-2010, 11:39 PM
Rixion

Never would disrespect someone like that, so would never cheat and have never cheated.
29-09-2010, 11:41 PM
marriott0.01

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Originally Posted by Vegas

If you say yes to someone you are giving them a illusion of you liking them, when in fact the feelings they show you (which you probs return to be nice) makes them happy and they will be more hurt when they have to dump you because you stop showing your "affection" and stuff.

I wasn't digging i was just relating to what you said.

What people don't know don't hurt them? And if it's not working out and they dump me, then I'm fine with it, and I can put on the nice act and make them feel fine about dumping me. And I don't stop showing my affection, I'm still nice to them and still wanna be friends? I'm not sour after being dumped and don't want to be friends? Because tbh that's all I treat dating as in UK dating terms, and if i'm serious about someone I'll adopt the US dating technique.
30-09-2010, 07:03 AM
Samantha

I'm like this, I may as well tell you all I used to e-date :P in my noobish days, but since I've started college I've taken over a new leaf.

Anyway, in November-December 2009, I e-dated someone most people will probably know, called Matt/Laggings(real name, cos tbh I don't care if everyone knows) and then he cheated on me online, with my sister irl. I was like wtf. I didn't really feel so much heartbreak as I was looking for new love anyway, and eventually I got it. But, as I wanted to be honest in the new found relationship, I told him what had happened, and that I e-dated Matt, I told him this on Christmas day. Just after I got hacked on Habbo, and with Matt dumping me on Christmas Eve I felt it was the right thing to do, then the other one, dumped me on Christmas day - that hurt.

On the other hand, my real life relationships, have been quite better, and I knew the people who I dated loved me back so much it was un believable.
Firstly, there was a boy, who always got bullied, for the little things, and I thought it wasn't fair, we had known each other for four years and by the next Monday, we were dating, I can remember about 50 people asking me if I was dating him that day, and because we were in the same Form class, it was hard to get away from it, I remember someone asking "Charlie, do you love Samantha?" His reply 'Yes' which I found so sweet.
Charlie* is not his real name.
However, that breaktime, some boys were digging into him, beating him up because he wouldn't kiss me, he mannaged a kiss on my cheek but that's all I wasn't letting him go further. This next bit will make me sound the biggest user of all. I could see he was crying, I dumped him that night, I was thinking about him, didn't want him to hurt anymore, but some how we went out again. Lasted a while, but then I dumped him after about a week, he then crapped himself apparently.
However, as he was my first boyfriend, would never dream of cheating on him.
30-09-2010, 08:00 AM
FlyingJesus

Didn't we do this last month?

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Originally Posted by buttons

yeahhhh the first as revenge for him cheating on me but i was ~in love~ we could work it out:rolleyes::rolleyes:

Milky (U)

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Originally Posted by marriott0.01

Ermmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm in terms of flirting with other people? Yeah... :L

That's a no then lol

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Originally Posted by marriott0.01

Tbh my last exes I haven't really been too interested in, they were just THERE.

Yeah I'm like that, just get bored of people too quick

And yeah cheated been cheated on been the mistress and all sorts, it's all fun
30-09-2010, 11:40 AM
Swastika

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Originally Posted by David Jason

I'm like this, I may as well tell you all I used to e-date :P in my noobish days, but since I've started college I've taken over a new leaf.

Anyway, in November-December 2009, I e-dated someone most people will probably know, called Matt/Laggings(real name, cos tbh I don't care if everyone knows) and then he cheated on me online, with my sister irl. I was like wtf. [/I]

LOL! Yeah i've cheated on girls before.
30-09-2010, 06:21 PM
@K

I have done, not as though I am proud of it though I tell you that. I was with my ex (faithfull in my current relationship, but if you saw my gf you'd see why ;) ) for a year and a half, and about 4/5 months into our relationship I went out one Friday or Saturday, smashed out off my head and slept with someone, (I did stop and walk away if it helps, so we were only having sex for about 10 minutes). I felt physically sick for a good week or so though I tell you.