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Just wondering what people's opinions were on One Night Stands it can be quite varied I find.
Generally if guys do one they're considered a bit of a legend, but if a girl does one she's a bit of a ****?
But anyways what's your opinions on one night stands? Have/Would you do one, and do you judge other people?
Me? I'm indifferent, I can't make up my mind, but i dont really care either way. Just interesting to see what others think and maybe I can form an opinion :)
Quite honestly, I dont like the thought of someone I like even kissing another man let alone sleeping with them by liking them LET ALONE sleeping with them for fun so yeah.
If you mean generally then theyre skanks, even if they're drunk it's still dirt. Wether they're a boy or girl, they should really get a grip.
it's all a case of if a key opens locks of locks it's a master key but if a lock is opened by lots of keys it's a ****** lock.
i don't care about the odd one, but if it's made a habbit then it's not nice.
We've been studying this in psychology and basically a girl is expected to go for quality, not quantity - whereas a man is psychologically tuned to go for quantity - he wants the best chances of reproducing his genes whereas a female has a limited amount of investment she can give ;)
Anywayyy... it's not my kinda thing - I'm more of a guy who looks for meaning, I don't like playing around - it makes me feel cheap.
edit: but i can understand why people do it, its just not my kind of thing!
I am all for free loving. If people enjoy sex, and want to have lots of it, then let them - male, female, whatever. As long as they're responsible about the whole affair then I don't see why they shouldn't enjoy it. Sex isn't just for procreation any more.
What people want to do behind closed doors is their own business, that's my stance.
If you want it, go for it. Most people have casual sex these days anyway!
i hate it when guys go out purposely to have one night stands, however if it just happens unplanned then i guess they're alright. after all, you can just say no
i don't care do what you wanna do
ALTHOUGH i wouldn't want a bf who has slept around
hypocritical i know
hypocrite.
shut up it's not really though
-rep for being abusive and lying.
I don't think you are cheap or a skank if you have one night stands. I mean come on, sex is good. yes you can get it in a loving relationship but it is slower and their is no variation. my personal opinion though.
had them and i'd MUCH rather have one night stands all the time than a girlfriend
Well tbh, I doubt I can comment seeing as I am a virgin. That's where I stand, maybe you have to be in the situation to know what you actually feel like.
At the moment, I just don't care what others do, you are who you are, if you want to sleep around with lots of people then do so. You will get complications in later life, you may get infected, you may lose out on important things.
Sex is no be all and end all, you can have it fun or passionate but whichever way you choose, you are to your own. No one else can stop you if you sleep around. So no one else should be bothered if you sleep around.
I've had one once but that was cause we were absolutely wasted and like idk it just happened :') but I wouldn't do it again. They're horrible especially like what happened a few days before. Each to their own I guess but like I don't personally like them.
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2) condom...
3) like what? :S lol
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One night stands...
hmm, well I'm a virgin so yh...but I guess I don't care. I'll probably have some in the future, but not during a relationship. I guess as long as they don't ruin your relationship then they're fine.
a place to stay is a place to stay.
I have had a one night stand .. was wasted so didnt care at the time, i'm not bothered by it i always think if your single why not lol the girls from work that are single do it all the time lol
never had one to tell you the truth!
i don't see the big deal cos i think it's just a bit of fun and as long as you aint bein' stupid about it then it doesn't make ya a **** (imo)
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As long as they are safe (no sexual problems like AIDS) and have protection with them then why not enjoy yourself?
Same can happen with sex with someone you know, okay STIs is are probably less of a risk but either way theres still a risk, especially when most ppl dont get themselves checked outQuote:
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Originally Posted by NaughtyNemo
After each relationship, you should get yourself checked, otherwise your just pretty stupid. I been with my girlfriend for about 18 months now, WE both didnt have to get checked as we both had sex for the first time so yeh...Ill get checked before going into another relationship if i do break up with my current one.
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Yes, so are you saying everyone who in a relationship should get checked every month or something? That what you made it sound like ;P
No im saying people should get checked before they have sex and after every partner they have. But what im saying is that most ppl dont anyway so its not like theres a much larger risk by having a one night standQuote:
Originally Posted by Rapidshare
I've had alot of one night stands, in my time. But i wish i never did, im settled with someone who i've been with for along time now. I just wish i met her sooner :)