Discuss. Right or wrong?
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Discuss. Right or wrong?
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And I don't think people really think of it as important any more and I don't see a problem with it. The only possible problem is that marrying shows a sign of commitment and preparedness for the outcomes.
Variety is the spice of life, so in essence, it's encouraged for you to spread your seeds across your world. I don't see anything wrong with it at all, a quickie or a quick fling is sometimes what is needed to take people out of depression and into something more. I won't take the Religious side at all because their accusations are based on a book written in gibberish about some guy in the sky who doesn't exist. If it was the law for us to get married to have sex, or we get sentenced to death or something, then the porn industry would be the strongest in the world.
Nothing wrong with it, at all.
I think it is anyway, just no one knows because everyone hides it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Fez
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Originally Posted by Chippiewill
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Nothing wrong with it as long as you're in a stable relationship and both are consenting :)
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Originally Posted by Fez
I prefer it when the line between consent and rape is blurred :PQuote:
Originally Posted by Conservative
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Yeah I'm still waiting for the episode on the Apprentice that deals with it and the narrator saying: "The porn industry makes x billion pounds a year"Quote:
Originally Posted by Chippiewill
As for sex before marriage, it's not wrong imo although if someone said they'd rather wait until after marriage, I wouldn't push them into it, I'd just start looking around the churches and things :)
I'm definitely not since they usually get the candidates involved in acting stuff. Could you imagine alex... in well eurgh it's 'orrible.Quote:
Originally Posted by Seriousity,
I dont see anything wrong with it at all.
I think these days, more so in britain that anywhere else, its a pretty common thing to have sex before marriage. Like most people i know have had sex already (sex before legal gasps) and there is this 1 girl in my class who has said she'll only do it when shes married and is saving that all for marriage. No one really went :O FREAK, but it is a bit weird in the sense that no one really thinks like that anymore (atleast round here).
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Originally Posted by Chippiewill
Init. Their own choice really, although I'd make sure if it was her family pushing on her/him and then crack open her mind and reveal he/she's just a mindless gullible shell who's been led to believe anything her Catholic parents brought her/him up to be. People shouldn't be born Catholic, they should be able to choose.Quote:
Originally Posted by Seriousity,
If her Catholic parents or whatever parents are easybeanz coolbro and let her/him decide when they're older then yeah that's brotastic.
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Originally Posted by Chippiewill
Before it was frowned upon to have sex before marriage, but now it's seemingly the norm.
As long as you're in love, go ahead. :)
sex is a personal subjective thing. i think as long as two people both consent to the act i have no issue with pre-marital sex. nor underage sex.
life + nature + humans + survival = babies.
We all know we have sex for fun, but the aim is to make babies... as long as we do that job for nature, and live our lives infront of us, then I don't have a problem. No disrespect to regions, but that's how i feel! :D
Premarital sex is a religious phenomenon. It's completely natural and right.
wow this is one of the biggest ******** posts i've seen in a while.Quote:
Originally Posted by Fez
spreading your seeds (or stis) are not encouraged at all but it is quite natural, for guys anyway. guys want to spread their genes to many people whereas woman only want the healthiest. anyway, a one-night stand takes people out of depression?? it's more likely to lead to depression... and why would the porn industry be the strongest in the world? no-one wants to marry a porn star.....
people shouldn't be born catholic. lol ok then :S
lol i was that girl "NO SEX, NO DRUGS, NO DRINKING TILL I'M LEGAL" yeh look where that went.Quote:
Originally Posted by NaughtyNemo
& people do think like that in some places, just not britain...... i know it's different opinions and stuff but for me, i think sex should be private and not as publicised as it is. it's not right or wrong. marriage means nothing to most people anyway.
It depends what person your like and how you look at the matter really. I remember when a person came in to talk to our class he said he wasn't going to until he was married. He also spoke about his dedication and how he felt that it would be special to the person. The majority obviously don't think this way at this moment in time but I felt like I knew where he was coming from.
Personally I don't have a problem with it as long as it's in a relationship and you're stable.
What else are you going to do? Unless you're getting married a few weeks after you meet the person I have no idea how you would be able to NOT have sex. You have to test drive the car before you drive the car!!!!!!!!
I didn't mean it in the literal term, in the term that you sleep around. I've met people who've had a horrible month, gone out and had one-night stands and then just feel relieved to just get it all out.Quote:
Originally Posted by buttons
The porn industry would be the strongest in the world if premarital sex was illegal because ************ would still be legal.
Are you saying when you're born into a Catholic family that you'r automatically Catholic? That you take the exact religion and mindset of your parents, then later down the line your child absorbs your religion. Then your grand-children absorb it too? People should not be born into religion, as they are too young to make up their own mind about the rules of the world and where they stand on their beliefs. They need to mature and age and find their own place instead of just falling back into the arms of their mother/father. Yes, a lot of children rebel as they grow but the situation in America is mostly stagnant.
I think you've just misinterpreted everything I've said.
In our generation, it is completely acceptable; so I'm on the right side.
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Originally Posted by Chippiewill
I see what you did there.Quote:
Originally Posted by NhocCuteGirlz
I think it's fine if two people love each other.
I look down upon it if they're just doing it for fun though.
why do you look down on it.....?Quote:
Originally Posted by Ayd
not a big deal, you should be able to have as much fun as you want before settling down
sex is amazing, that is all.
plus i wont be getting married so lol
really saving yourself for marriage is terrible. if you both wanna do it but are saving yourselves, all you're doing is creating more tension to force yourself into marriage, which is never good. men subconsciously want to spread their seed, so the mindset goes: i like this girl, i really wanna bang her >> the only way i can bang her is if i marry her >> that makes me want her more, i must be in love so we should get married >> i'm a disappointment in bed and i dont even like this girl what did i do?!?!
...why? whether or not you love each other or even hate each other, if you're not trying to have babies, the only reason you'd have sex is for "fun"Quote:
Originally Posted by Ayd
Hmm, although I like the idea of not having sex before you marry someone, I don't see it as something everyone could do. You get the couples who save themselves before marriage because they feel they have to, so they aren't intimate at all with their partner, and then there's the couples who are saving themselves but can still be intimate in other ways.
If I did decide to save myself it would be my own decision and not because of my culture/religion or because I felt I had to. It takes a lot of self control to save your feelings for your honeymoon night but I suppose that's what makes it more special :)
the ONLY reason people save themselves for marriage is because of their culture/religion, because marriage itself is a cultural/religious enterprise.Quote:
Originally Posted by rucksack.
by fun i meant fun when you're not together, fun when together is fine ;)