What To Do About Her.

Lets Start from the top.

We starting talking, texting and getting along great. We see each other everyday and everytime we do see eachother i can't ask for anything better. She told me That she liked me and i said i Really like her too, on New Years Day she told me she liked someone else before anything even happened between us. It killed me and still does. There isn''t a moment where i dont wish i was with her.

Now what do i do? Stand around waiting to be "Back Up" or just go back to be my lonely self. I don't talk to that many Girls as i just can't, But i can with her :(

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Hire a hitman if trying to let her go fails

Jeez man you didnt even do anything with her. Its a crush and you got crushed, let it go and move on. Plenty of girls to talk to, dont be so self limiting when you say you can't talk to girls.

Kinda sucks that nothing happened between you both, especially after you both said that you liked one another haha, weird! This is just a crush, let it go and move on. You could be waiting to be 'backup' forever and why should you stand to be second best?

but did she mean likelike or hey i like you as a friend without including the friend bit

If you really like her just explain your feelings to her, you never know what might happen.
otherwise just move on, it's the best thing to do.

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Originally Posted by /shifty

Kinda sucks that nothing happened between you both, especially after you both said that you liked one another haha, weird! This is just a crush, let it go and move on. You could be waiting to be 'backup' forever and why should you stand to be second best?

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Yeah i know :/ And im not seeing it as a crush i think its more but she obvs doesn't

No, its a crush.

Dont frame it as any more since you're just making it harder for you to get over it.

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Originally Posted by dj-sxtt

Lets Start from the top.

We starting talking, texting and getting along great. We see each other everyday and everytime we do see eachother i can't ask for anything better. She told me That she liked me and i said i Really like her too, on New Years Day she told me she liked someone else before anything even happened between us. It killed me and still does. There isn''t a moment where i dont wish i was with her.

Now what do i do? Stand around waiting to be "Back Up" or just go back to be my lonely self. I don't talk to that many Girls as i just can't, But i can with her :(

<3

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Edited by Infectious (Forum Moderator): Please do not make pointless posts, thanks!

^ lol I like it.

But, seriously, you said nothing happened, you don't ahve any real feelings for her do you? Imagine if you had spent a considerable amount of time in a relationship with her, and what'd you be like. I was with my fiance for a long time and we split during the first week or two of December, and well that CRUSHED me. I still love her, I miss her daily, but I've moved on. Now be glad your not me, because this is painful.

fight for her, dont let it go without even trying, but be careful as you do this, you dont want to ruin your friendship, but dont let it go, fight for her!

slap her round the face then get her really drunk.

I could only imagine how crushed you feel that she likes someone else.

But you have to see past your own relationship with her and look at it more plainly. If she's willing to "pass you up" for just some other guy when you're 1) very close, 2) when you're attracted to her more than she is to you then you absolutely deserve better than her, and as hard as it may be, if I were you I'd just try and move on and leave her in the past.