I kissed my best friend

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07-03-2011, 06:07 PM
lAbby,ox

I kissed my best friend

So today in Drama was fun...

My best friend called Kieron right always 'rhapes' (feels me up lol) me like everyday at school I've just got used to it lmfao he's done it for about 5 years so basically all my senior school life.

And the only thing we didn't do was kiss each other and today well that's what happened...

But the way he did it had his hands on my waist and everything, but during the kiss I felt something I had never felt before, it was quite weird tbf...

He's like my best friend though and has a girlfriend so it was just basically a best friend kiss but idk it just felt more to me it was weird it was like we just had a moment lol

And I really don't know what to do because I like this other guy but I don't know if were gonna get anywhere and I honestly don't know what to do.

Do I just let it blow over or see if something else happens or what I don't know ;[

Were going to manchester to meet my friend on saturday and I'm quite nervous that somethings going to happen then, but I'm really not sure what to do lmao.
07-03-2011, 06:13 PM
FlyingJesus

What the ONLY thing you don't do is kiss that's a bit odd
07-03-2011, 06:14 PM
lAbby,ox

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Originally Posted by FlyingJesus

What the ONLY thing you don't do is kiss that's a bit odd

Lol i know it's weird but idk it's just got me confused a little
07-03-2011, 06:16 PM
Nemo

I think tom is pointing out that you're probably mistaken and saying you guys have had sex yet not kissed

Unless thats true in which case wth?
07-03-2011, 06:17 PM
lAbby,ox

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Originally Posted by NaughtyNemo

I think tom is pointing out that you're probably mistaken and saying you guys have had sex yet not kissed

Unless thats true in which case wth?

No no no we aint had sex were safe on that

He just feels me up all the time thats what my version of 'rhapes' means lol
07-03-2011, 06:26 PM
Arron

I know what you mean ;)

But I don't remember me or any of my (best) friends kissing hehe. Just don't get caught in the middle of him and his girl friend.
07-03-2011, 06:31 PM
lAbby,ox

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Originally Posted by Arron

I know what you mean ;)

But I don't remember me or any of my (best) friends kissing hehe. Just don't get caught in the middle of him and his girl friend.

Oh god if it happens again [which i sort of have a feeling it will] then I'm just gonna keep it quiet LOL
07-03-2011, 06:36 PM
Jessicrawrr

depends how you feel about him in that way, he has a girlfriend?
if I was the girl and I found out i'd be pretty devestated :P
07-03-2011, 06:39 PM
lAbby,ox

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Originally Posted by Jessicrawrr

depends how you feel about him in that way, he has a girlfriend?
if I was the girl and I found out i'd be pretty devestated :P

I know I feel really bad about that bit but I loved it lol
I used to like him like that ages ago then i just kinda went then that kiss did something to me lol
07-03-2011, 06:41 PM
JACKTARD

Let it blow over!!

A relationship with your best friend would be a big mistake!
07-03-2011, 06:43 PM
Robbie

How long has there been a h in rapes?
07-03-2011, 06:44 PM
lAbby,ox

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Originally Posted by JACKTARD

Let it blow over!!

A relationship with your best friend would be a big mistake!

That's what I keep thinking as well lol but sometimes if its the right people the best friends are like that person one and only if you get me like every person has that 1 person in the world... yeah i'm just confusing it now lol
07-03-2011, 06:51 PM
Jessicrawrr

Quote:

Originally Posted by JACKTARD

Let it blow over!!

A relationship with your best friend would be a big mistake!

agree a little with this, don't ruin your friendship over something that was just a mistake possibley.
07-03-2011, 06:55 PM
Chris

Forget about it, your friendship is not worth ruining for a relationship with your best buddy.
07-03-2011, 06:59 PM
lAbby,ox

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Originally Posted by Robbie

How long has there been a h in rapes?

I've spelt it like that for years I dislike the normal way of spelling it for reasons I'm not going into + rhapes is making it a joky way if you get me lol

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Originally Posted by Jessicrawrr

agree a little with this, don't ruin your friendship over something that was just a mistake possibley.

Yeahh maybe your right

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Originally Posted by Infectious

Forget about it, your friendship is not worth ruining for a relationship with your best buddy.

Well I went out with one of my best mates when it ended, it wasnt on a good note we didnt turn back into best mates but it took time so im alrite mates with him now lol but yeah your probs right lol
07-03-2011, 07:31 PM
Catzsy

I would tread very cautiously and see what his next move is, if anything. The worst that can happen is that he will still be your best friend.
07-03-2011, 07:47 PM
lAbby,ox

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Originally Posted by Catzsy

I would tread very cautiously and see what his next move is, if anything. The worst that can happen is that he will still be your best friend.

I'll still be happy if he's my best mate he's amazing (:

&& Thanks guys for all the help (:
07-03-2011, 07:55 PM
buttons

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Originally Posted by JACKTARD

A relationship with your best friend would be a big mistake!

this is such a ridiculous misconception, there is absolutely nothing wrong with dating your best friend. i would rather date someone who was both my best friend and boyfriend/girlfriend

anyway, why would you want to be with a guy who kisses you when he has a girlfriend? if he does it to her, he won't hesitate to do it to you too if you ever did date. also if you want to go brag about it to everyone, it's literally always the OTHER girl (ie you in this case) who is seen as the bad person in the situation, never the guy :P so really up to you idk thought it was common sense.
& no that is not raping or rhaping, regardless of whether you don't like to spell it by its proper name it's not funny to joke about someone raping you. kids.
07-03-2011, 08:00 PM
lAbby,ox

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Originally Posted by buttons

this is such a ridiculous misconception, there is absolutely nothing wrong with dating your best friend. i would rather date someone who was both my best friend and boyfriend/girlfriend

anyway, why would you want to be with a guy who kisses you when he has a girlfriend? if he does it to her, he won't hesitate to do it to you too if you ever did date. also if you want to go brag about it to everyone, it's literally always the OTHER girl (ie you in this case) who is seen as the bad person in the situation, never the guy :P so really up to you idk thought it was common sense.
& no that is not raping or rhaping, regardless of whether you don't like to spell it by its proper name it's not funny to joke about someone raping you. kids.

Well I've always spelt it as rhape/rhapes/rhaping w.e if you knew half off it then you would know I take situations like that seriously, please do not call me a Kid i'm 16 not 8 and I didn't want to make myself out as a bad person I just wanted to know what I could do coz it confused me lol
07-03-2011, 08:01 PM
Inseriousity.

I'd steer clear for the same reason Jen said. It's not cos he's your best friend, it's because he's already taken and it'll be you who's seen as the enemy. If he does it again, pull away and tell him 'you have a girlfriend' and walk away. :)
07-03-2011, 08:10 PM
lAbby,ox

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Originally Posted by Inseriousity.

I'd steer clear for the same reason Jen said. It's not cos he's your best friend, it's because he's already taken and it'll be you who's seen as the enemy. If he does it again, pull away and tell him 'you have a girlfriend' and walk away. :)

ok I will do (: thanks
07-03-2011, 08:36 PM
The Don

You don't want to be that 'other girl'. if people find out, you'll be the one they look down upon, not him. Don't do it.

Edit: fgs, didn't see page two, just looked, damn it jen.
07-03-2011, 09:08 PM
-Danube-

If you would like to keep your friendship, leave it.

I had a relationship with a best mate (me and her were really great mates then it started to develop and we acted on it).

We split, stayed friends, then when we all moved on to college i had this massive argument with her, like everyday for a week and basically never spoken to her since, she is one of the only people i actually hate. So yeah, don;t do it if you still want the friendship.

You may think it'll last whatever happens, but trust me, it shall not.
07-03-2011, 09:47 PM
Fiendly

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Originally Posted by -Danube-

If you would like to keep your friendship, leave it.

I had a relationship with a best mate (me and her were really great mates then it started to develop and we acted on it).

We split, stayed friends, then when we all moved on to college i had this massive argument with her, like everyday for a week and basically never spoken to her since, she is one of the only people i actually hate. So yeah, don;t do it if you still want the friendship.

You may think it'll last whatever happens, but trust me, it shall not.

Depends on how much you're both willing to stay.
Anyways, not reading the middle pages so I thought I'd say just clear it up with him.

You never know what it might be but it could possibly mean that he likes you, but doesn't have the words to say it.
Other than that, like people have said ~ Stay clear if he tries again.
07-03-2011, 10:19 PM
lAbby,ox

Thank you all for the advice (:
07-03-2011, 11:06 PM
Metric1

Take it from me, I started having casual sex with my best friend and although it was the best sex I ever had, it developed into feelings, it didn't work out and I lost my best friend. Stop this before it goes any further.
10-03-2011, 10:25 AM
e5

I wouldn't replace your best friend to make them your lover...goes downnnhillll! The fact hevkissed u when he has a gf and feels you up is worrying...cheat!